Immaturity: Question for Women Only

[Anonymous]

I will chime in and preface my answer the same way all the women do when there is a question for men only...

I am a man and yes

[Anonymous]

Definitely in their early twenties if we are generalizing but there are also an awful lot of immature women in their twenties as well.

[Anonymous]

Referring to your husband as a child is so patronizing and condescending. No idea what your husband is like but it tell me you don't treat him very well.

[Anonymous]

I actually think the younger generation of women are more immature in some ways than they use to be.

I know plenty of women who spend money like crazy whilst the men are saving and buying property. In some cases I am watching women in their 30's have their daddy as they call them pay for their car expenses. If they buy property their parents are helping them. I see more men buying property and helping their families financially.

I know plenty of women upset they didn't get as many likes on social media or you didn't respond to one of their posts.

I have seen women go out for a girls night and talk about how many men hit on them and they are married.

I see far more women drive whilst on their mobile phones. They simply can't get off their phones.

I see many mature men and women however I see far more immature women now than in the past.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I actually think the younger generation of women are more immature in some ways than they use to be.

I know plenty of women who spend money like crazy whilst the men are saving and buying property. In some cases I am watching women in their 30's have their daddy as they call them pay for their car expenses. If they buy property their parents are helping them. I see more men buying property and helping their families financially.

I know plenty of women upset they didn't get as many likes on social media or you didn't respond to one of their posts.

I have seen women go out for a girls night and talk about how many men hit on them and they are married.

I see far more women drive whilst on their mobile phones. They simply can't get off their phones.

I see many mature men and women however I see far more immature women now than in the past.

x a million

[Anonymous]

Yes

[Anonymous]

DH is a few years younger than me and we met in our mid twenties. We used to be equally mature but once we got together, I got less mature to balance his 60yr old man attitude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Referring to your husband as a child is so patronizing and condescending. No idea what your husband is like but it tell me you don't treat him very well.

And she is calling him "immature."

[Anonymous]

I think the big gap happens after having the first child. Before that, it’s about even. But even if the woman was immature before the first kid, the society expectation make her grow up real fast. For my husband, it was a major discovery that when you feel like shit, if your kid is also puking up, you’d better get running (or crawling).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the big gap happens after having the first child. Before that, it’s about even. But even if the woman was immature before the first kid, the society expectation make her grow up real fast. For my husband, it was a major discovery that when you feel like shit, if your kid is also puking up, you’d better get running (or crawling).

This!!

[Anonymous]

Op here. I think about maturity matter often. And, yes, I do feel I have matured overnight with finding out that we were expecting.

[Anonymous]

... but it was not societal expectation - it’s just natural parental instinct to do the best for your child’s development.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Generally yes, but I think it evens out somewhat later on—after 35 or so.

Yes this

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I think about maturity matter often. And, yes, I do feel I have matured overnight with finding out that we were expecting.

you don't mature overnight. just saying...

[Anonymous]

No.
- A woman.