Am I a Creep and Didn't Know it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re a creep for telling us such much about her breasts and figure. She is not there for your titillation, she is doing her job.

Agree with all the details you gave about her body were creepy for sure.

[Anonymous]

Rule of thumb in the work place. Don't comment on women's clothing, hair or other personal comments.

I would think it's common sense but apparently not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That was a creepy compliment.

"The regulars will be glad to see her smiling face and bright top on such a dreary winter day."

It is all about people looking at her and finding some type of fulfillment through her appearance. And it implies that you are staring at her top. Everything about that compliment implies she is there for other people's enjoyment. Her smile brings other people joy, her shirt brings other people joy.

A normal compliment would have been, "Hey you look good tonight! Any special plans?"

That is about how SHE looks good and why she might have put more effort into her appearance.

Pp has a good description here about the compliment. I'll just add: You might not be a creep but that was an awkward and somewhat inappropriate compliment. Also she might be very shy. Both of those things could be true. Just back off for now and wait to see what happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rule of thumb in the work place. Don't comment on women's clothing, hair or other personal comments.

I would think it's common sense but apparently not.

Yes do not talk to them unless it is work related and never look at them.

[Anonymous]

You seem socially awkward. It’s weird to tell pretty good after someone compliments you on a vest. Like did you think that was an opening for you? She was just making small talk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re a creep for telling us such much about her breasts and figure. She is not there for your titillation, she is doing her job.

That alone was inappropriate. He needs to do his job and stop bothering the ladies.

+1

Everything about your post is creepy. Even your username is creepy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your actions, only slightly creepy, but she's probably picking up on the fact that you are fundamentally a super creepy person.

+1

Dude, what were your eyes perusing as you said this to her? I can guess

[Anonymous]

this is a creepy thread.... so yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this is a creepy thread.... so yes

+1.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That was a creepy compliment.

"The regulars will be glad to see her smiling face and bright top on such a dreary winter day."

It is all about people looking at her and finding some type of fulfillment through her appearance. And it implies that you are staring at her top. Everything about that compliment implies she is there for other people's enjoyment. Her smile brings other people joy, her shirt brings other people joy.

A normal compliment would have been, "Hey you look good tonight! Any special plans?"

That is about how SHE looks good and why she might have put more effort into her appearance.

+1

It's normal for women to notice clothing on men and women and to compliment. It's weird when a man does it, especially about the "sunny yellow brightening your day", unless you're gay.

And the fact that you mentioned that you thought she had a "flat chest and tiny a$$" but the outfit she was wearing that day brought out her chest also leans towards "creepy" if not completely inappropriate in a work place setting.

[Anonymous]

But I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo.
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here.

[Anonymous]

reading your post made me feel quite uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

So it's unanimous.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you are a creep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo.
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here.

I don't care if it hurts
I want to have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul