Switch custody schedule for ex DH’s honeymoon

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course you switch. Otherwise you just look like a bitter harpy.

[Anonymous]

OP, go back and read your original post.

Then imagine if it were not on an anonymous forum.

[Anonymous]

Yes switch, but a 2-week honeymoon for a 2nd marriage with kids is excessive IMO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes switch, but a 2-week honeymoon for a 2nd marriage with kids is excessive IMO.

Good thing this isn't your honeymoon, then.

[Anonymous]

I would probably understand if it were for a normal vacation, but this is a honeymoon! I agree that the way you are framing it makes you sound bitter. Why is that? He is allowed to move on.

[Anonymous]

Troll

[Anonymous]

Of course you switch. Grow up, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes switch, but a 2-week honeymoon for a 2nd marriage with kids is excessive IMO.

It's the wife's first marriage -- so is 10 days ok in your book? Jesus.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you do it? We have a cordial relationship. We have switched schedules in the past for things like work trips. The woman he is marrying is nice. My kids like her and she is kind to them. It’s her first marriage and I understand wanting a romantic getaway. But she’s marrying a man with kids. I don’t think a 2 week sex trip is a good enough to change the schedule. Wwyd?

You absolutely switch and remind yourself not to be a bitter twat if only for the sake of your children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you serious?

Of course, you do a schedule change so he can go on his honeymoon.

This. It makes you look petty to say no.

I did put my foot down about the incessant requests to switch overnights to accommodate her infertility treatments though. I might have been more understanding, but the request started coming right after they filed for a reduction in CS so they could afford the treatments.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you serious?

Of course, you do a schedule change so he can go on his honeymoon.

This. It makes you look petty to say no.

I did put my foot down about the incessant requests to switch overnights to accommodate her infertility treatments though. I might have been more understanding, but the request started coming right after they filed for a reduction in CS so they could afford the treatments.

Insurance may have been paying for the treatments. You sound petty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you serious?

Of course, you do a schedule change so he can go on his honeymoon.

This. It makes you look petty to say no.

I did put my foot down about the incessant requests to switch overnights to accommodate her infertility treatments though. I might have been more understanding, but the request started coming right after they filed for a reduction in CS so they could afford the treatments.

Oh hell no

[Anonymous]

OF course!! No brainer. Calling it a “sex trip” = you are a troll, or you are a difficult ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes switch, but a 2-week honeymoon for a 2nd marriage with kids is excessive IMO.

+1. He's an ass for asking to be away from his kids for so long and her cluelessness about the message it sends to the kids doesn't bode well for the future, but you aren't going to change their minds or if you did they would just resent you for it, so just accept it.

It would have been nicer and more inclusive if they had done one week honeymoon and one week family vacation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes switch, but a 2-week honeymoon for a 2nd marriage with kids is excessive IMO.

+1. He's an ass for asking to be away from his kids for so long and her cluelessness about the message it sends to the kids doesn't bode well for the future, but you aren't going to change their minds or if you did they would just resent you for it, so just accept it.

It would have been nicer and more inclusive if they had done one week honeymoon and one week family vacation.

Ummm it’s 2 weeks. Not a lifetime. The kids won’t care at all, and they’ll be with their other parent, not neglected. Jeez.