Attracted to female friend

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But am a straight woman. Fantasize about her too. Is this normal?

I never was attracted to another woman until I was about 45. We got drunk at a happy hour and made out like crazy. I was shocked how attracted I was to her. We've never spoken of it.

[Anonymous]

It's so reassuring to know other women have similar fantasies. On the explicit forum, I was surprised but reassured to see how many straight women fantasised over other women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is interesting to know it isn't just me. Was expecting some nasty responses but it has been supportive, so thank you.

If you were a male talking about another male the responses would be nasty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is interesting to know it isn't just me. Was expecting some nasty responses but it has been supportive, so thank you.

If you were a male talking about another male the responses would be nasty.

That's because men are nasty. Have you ever seen the missed connections forum on Craigslist? Married dudes eyeing married dudes in the sauna? Y'all are just gross.

[Anonymous]

I think there are plenty of women who have feelings like this, the question is what do they do about it? You said you are 33 and straight but are you in a relationship? Keep in mind that some people are "straight" until lightening strikes. What would you like to outcome to be?

[Anonymous]

As I said, she is married so would never go there. I know she would be horrified if she knew I had feelings like that. I could never imagine us being in a relationship either and wouldn't want that.
It's a physical thing and there are parts of her character which turn me on. She would be very gentle and attentive I can imagine...relationship though? No way. Not sure if that makes sense. I hope so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As I said, she is married so would never go there. I know she would be horrified if she knew I had feelings like that. I could never imagine us being in a relationship either and wouldn't want that.
It's a physical thing and there are parts of her character which turn me on. She would be very gentle and attentive I can imagine...relationship though? No way. Not sure if that makes sense. I hope so.

Go for it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not married, 33.
I just think she is gorgeous and has an amazing body. She is kind and great to be around as well.... Kind of embarrassed to admit this.
It's not just an admiration thing. I have imagined us 'together' too but won't be too explicit as wrong forum for that.

Sorry you aren't straight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is interesting to know it isn't just me. Was expecting some nasty responses but it has been supportive, so thank you.

If you were a male talking about another male the responses would be nasty.

That's because men are nasty. Have you ever seen the missed connections forum on Craigslist? Married dudes eyeing married dudes in the sauna? Y'all are just gross.

I've never seen the missed connections forum on Craigslist though you must spend a lot of time looking for a missed connection. Biker chick?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not married, 33.
I just think she is gorgeous and has an amazing body. She is kind and great to be around as well.... Kind of embarrassed to admit this.
It's not just an admiration thing. I have imagined us 'together' too but won't be too explicit as wrong forum for that.

Sorry you aren't straight.

Along with the other women who have said they have experienced similar feelings here?

[Anonymous]

Never say never. She could be your soul mate. If you don't make the move, how will you know?

Anonymous wrote:As I said, she is married so would never go there. I know she would be horrified if she knew I had feelings like that. I could never imagine us being in a relationship either and wouldn't want that.
It's a physical thing and there are parts of her character which turn me on. She would be very gentle and attentive I can imagine...relationship though? No way. Not sure if that makes sense. I hope so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not married, 33.
I just think she is gorgeous and has an amazing body. She is kind and great to be around as well.... Kind of embarrassed to admit this.
It's not just an admiration thing. I have imagined us 'together' too but won't be too explicit as wrong forum for that.

Sorry you aren't straight.

Along with the other women who have said they have experienced similar feelings here?

Google the Kinsey scale. It's so normal...there is even a scale.

[Anonymous]

Ha ha and PS I'm a Kinsey scale 2.5

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is interesting to know it isn't just me. Was expecting some nasty responses but it has been supportive, so thank you.

If you were a male talking about another male the responses would be nasty.

That's because men are nasty. Have you ever seen the missed connections forum on Craigslist? Married dudes eyeing married dudes in the sauna? Y'all are just gross.

I've never seen the missed connections forum on Craigslist though you must spend a lot of time looking for a missed connection. Biker chick?

Nope - it's actually entertaining to read. Sometimes sweet, sometimes gross, sometimes funny.

[Anonymous]

So funny to find this when I came to post the same thing!

I'm also a straight female who has *never* before had a crush on/been attracted to another woman, until I met this one. It is bizarre. I FB stalked her and found an old picture of her when she was in college and dressed up sexy to go out - wow. One day, she walked past me and I caught the scent of her shampoo or hair product and almost lost my mind. This all came out of nowhere, like I have no clue where these feelings are coming from.

I've also fantasized, but omg I would never do anything. We'd both be mortified! I'm happily married and she has her own fiancé. But I'd be lying if I said that seeing her makes my day!