Attracted to female friend

[Anonymous]

cool story bro

Anonymous wrote:It's hard to believe I'm writing this but a few years ago I invited a very good single and younger friend to visit my DH and I at our beach house. Before she arrived I was saying so many wonderful things about her that my husband said I had a crush on her and I said maybe I do. He then said something like that makes two of us. To make a long story short one night we ended up naked in the hot tub and were well into threesome foreplay when my DH and I realized that neither of us wanted to see the other having sex with someone else. To be honest, I flinched first. We had discussed it but hadn't really dealt with it. There was a lot of nervous laughter the next morning with everyone saying way too much wine! She's still a friend and we never discuss it and the crush is over! My DH and I still enjoy the hot tub.

[Anonymous]

Cool story indeed bro.

[Anonymous]

Wish my wife was a little bi-curious. She's just plainly not attracted to women..never has been. She's pretty much vanilla. Only dates white dudes, certain height, color hair (except one blonde dude) and that's it. If she were a little into women and wanted to fool around with one I'd be cool with that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wish my wife was a little bi-curious. She's just plainly not attracted to women..never has been. She's pretty much vanilla. Only dates white dudes, certain height, color hair (except one blonde dude) and that's it. If she were a little into women and wanted to fool around with one I'd be cool with that.

So your wife only dates white dudes with certain specs? What do you do for fun?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cool story indeed bro.

PP here LOL I'm a Sis, not a bro. The hot tub thing was a lot of fun and memorable for both of us but we simply realized that what we have together is special that we can create some magic if we just use our imaginations. Like I said, we really enjoy our hot tub!

[Anonymous]

To the married woman who has had sexual relationships with women on and off, where did you meet these women? I never know where and how to meet women. Were any of them also married to men?

[Anonymous]

I am thinking it is friends/ co workers which start off as friends but develop into more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wish my wife was a little bi-curious. She's just plainly not attracted to women..never has been. She's pretty much vanilla. Only dates white dudes, certain height, color hair (except one blonde dude) and that's it. If she were a little into women and wanted to fool around with one I'd be cool with that.

What is the certain height? Tall or short?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think it's normal at all. And I think all the ladies who posted here it was normal are in reality hi sexual.
I'm straight and only get excited thinking about makes, ive never felt attraction for another woman. Moreover, it disgust me.
Just to think being with another woman in bed ugh, no thank you.

Congratulations!! You win the Straight Olympics!!! Here is your special medal for being so "normal" because that is so. Darn. Important.

+100

[Anonymous]

OP again. I have tried to stifle these feelings but I can't. I know now I am in love with her. I never expected this to happen but I am thinking about her constantly and the feelings I thought would die have grown stronger.
I cried yesterday when I was alone as I saw her and her DH. They are so in love and it hurts to see. I will now have to avoid her as it isn't a question of me telling her how I feel. It hurts so much.

[Anonymous]

Sorry OP, that sounds rough.

[Anonymous]

Invite her to the gym/spa so at least you can check out her nakedness. And you can get some fantasy masturbation material.

[Anonymous]

I don't think that is helpful PP.