How soon after giving my number can I expect a text/call?

[Anonymous]

He thinks you're easy and doesn't want that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Need more contextual background. Most guys won't text back during a weekend--it seems loserish and desperate. Give it until Wednesday.

OP here.
I met someone Friday night and really hit it off. As in, we both left the friends we were with and talked for a couple hours. Told each other all about ourselves, I know everything from how many sisters he has and what the best pranks they pulled on him to his preference for tucking only the front of his shirt in under a suit. We kissed for a little bit too at the end, and talked about what we wanted to do the next time we met up, in great detail and specific places, and that's when he got my number. This is where it got a little tricky: He asked me to come back to his place and I really couldn't because I was driving my friends home, who were very drunk, and it was my responsibility to get them home and I didn't have my car there (drove my friends SUV to fit everyone), and I explained that to him while trying to convey very clearly that I was very interested and not blowing him off.
Which when he got my number.
I know it's hard to picture here, and take my word for it, but I dated a lot previously and have never hit it off with someone like this or had the level of attraction going. I had to peel myself away to get my friends.
I guess I'm just really disappointed I haven't heard anything yet but it's only Sunday.

Did he ask for your number, or did you just give it to him? If he were truly interested he would have asked for it. It sounds like he was looking for a one night stand.

He asked for it, we talked all about the things we were going to do. In a variety of ways

Ewwwwww.

[Anonymous]

Sorry I don't think he's calling. Too much talk. He probably met someone else this weekend. It's just how guys are.

[Anonymous]

Guys usually text me the same night. Just a good night or something short.

[Anonymous]

If after two hours you're making out with a total stranger and having sex talk, you're wondering why he isn't following normal dating protocol?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guys usually text me the same night. Just a good night or something short.

Or a "hope you got home safely". If not by Monday, you will likely have to write him off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a guy with a good game- talk about the sisters.

Seems to me he just wanted a hookup.

That's what I wanted too and want to happen! Dammit

Well I don't think he's calling you back. You weren't available when he wanted to do the do so he moved on to the next woman who was.

You have two options.

1. Forget about him and find another guy.

2. Call him and see if he is still up for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If after two hours you're making out with a total stranger and having sex talk, you're wondering why he isn't following normal dating protocol?

Yeah OP asks about dating protocol, but she doesn't seem like she wants a date just a hookup.

Just text him at 11:00pm asking if he's busy and wants to come over that will get the message across.

[Anonymous]

Possible he was drunker than you realized and has no memory of you or anything that happened that night.

[Anonymous]

Possibly next Friday or Satueday night with a "wyd" text.

[Anonymous]

Did you talk about what you wanted to do with each other sexually, OP? Is that what you meant when you said "in many ways"?

[Anonymous]

Next time, you get HIS number, and then call him.

[Anonymous]

I love sloots

[Anonymous]

He should have gotten in touch on Saturday if he was interested.

[Anonymous]

He has already shot his load for the weekend.