My husband slapped me today

[Anonymous]

A few weeks after he lightly hit you on your arm?

Lady, please.

Also - seriously work on your language around your child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can absolutely see my DH smacking my on the arm to say "chill!" if I cursed in front of our infant (which we don't have...kid is older). I can see being pissed on a bad day, and getting it on a regular day.

You know your relationship better than we do, but if it's healthy and normal and calm this seems like nothing to me.

I'd also call it smacked and not slapped.

+1,000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can absolutely see my DH smacking my on the arm to say "chill!" if I cursed in front of our infant (which we don't have...kid is older). I can see being pissed on a bad day, and getting it on a regular day.

You know your relationship better than we do, but if it's healthy and normal and calm this seems like nothing to me.

I'd also call it smacked and not slapped.

Agree with all of this.

[Anonymous]

I going to go home and slap my DW's @ss. What do you think of that, DCUM SJWs?

[Anonymous]

Imagine what he'd do if he were really mad.

You got your first red flag. You tell him never again or he will get to stepping.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Imagine what he'd do if he were really mad.

You got your first red flag. You tell him never again or he will get to stepping.

Yup, it's all his fault. She sounds like an angry, bitter bitch. They both have serious issues, but don't put this all on him. Nice example she sets saying an F-bomb in front of her toddler. What a shame this kid has to grow up in that mess. Both of you, go get help. Seriously

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How sweet of you to say "I'm eating my f___ing lunch". If I were your husband I wouldn't slap you but you can be darn sure I'd let you know I was pissed likely dumping your lunch on your head. Hitting someone is not acceptable but you are not an innocent bystander. You both sound very immature and should be sent to your rooms until you grow up.

Are you always this annoying and clueless? I would have said "I'm eating my f-ing lunch" if my husband SAW me eating and decided it to ask me to dress our child when he is perfectly capable of doing it. I would have also gotten up, and sucker punched him right in the nose if he ever slapped me. Either that or he would not be able to sleep comfortably for a VERY long time because he'd wonder if he is still going to have his balls in the morning. But that's just me

If you sucker punch him than you could be charged with assault. The pendulum can swing the other way too, you know.

Not if he hits me first. Then it's self defense

A sucker punch is, by definition, never in defense.

[Anonymous]

He basically thwacked you on the arm like you probably do to your kid.

[Anonymous]

OP, are you sleep deprived? Is this how you two interact? Was there any spicy tuna in the vicinity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How sweet of you to say "I'm eating my f___ing lunch". If I were your husband I wouldn't slap you but you can be darn sure I'd let you know I was pissed likely dumping your lunch on your head. Hitting someone is not acceptable but you are not an innocent bystander. You both sound very immature and should be sent to your rooms until you grow up.

Are you always this annoying and clueless? I would have said "I'm eating my f-ing lunch" if my husband SAW me eating and decided it to ask me to dress our child when he is perfectly capable of doing it. I would have also gotten up, and sucker punched him right in the nose if he ever slapped me. Either that or he would not be able to sleep comfortably for a VERY long time because he'd wonder if he is still going to have his balls in the morning. But that's just me

What a sweetheart!

[Anonymous]

Well that was disappointing...came here because the title said my husband slapped me...read OP's post only to find he didn't slap her.

[Anonymous]

Give his info..I'll go slap him like the little bitch he is...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well that was disappointing...came here because the title said my husband slapped me...read OP's post only to find he didn't slap her.

It was a slap. It left a mark on me and he was very forceful. Hitting is never ok. I am leaving Saturday.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How sweet of you to say "I'm eating my f___ing lunch". If I were your husband I wouldn't slap you but you can be darn sure I'd let you know I was pissed likely dumping your lunch on your head. Hitting someone is not acceptable but you are not an innocent bystander. You both sound very immature and should be sent to your rooms until you grow up.

Are you always this annoying and clueless? I would have said "I'm eating my f-ing lunch" if my husband SAW me eating and decided it to ask me to dress our child when he is perfectly capable of doing it. I would have also gotten up, and sucker punched him right in the nose if he ever slapped me. Either that or he would not be able to sleep comfortably for a VERY long time because he'd wonder if he is still going to have his balls in the morning. But that's just me

If you sucker punch him than you could be charged with assault. The pendulum can swing the other way too, you know.

Op here: this exactly. Dh sees me eating lunch or washing bottles and asks me to do stuff he's perfectly capable of doing. Changing diapers , washing bottles etc etc etc he doesn't want to do any of this. And he made a comment about how I care about myself more because I am eating lunch instead of helping baby put on his pants.