Things you want to tell your spouse but can't or won't

I'm so glad he can play the piano to unwind and he's a great player but holy shit if he plays that part of that song one more time my head may explode. It's perfect already! Just move on to the next four notes already!!!

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10/28/2015 13:32

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I find him more attractive when he's a little bit squishy around the middle.

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10/28/2015 13:33

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Anonymous wrote:I won't tell my dh how I got good at a particular sex act (abuse).

There's been a lot of therapy. I'm OK, and have a healthy sense of my sexuality now.

Sorry you experienced that, glad you're doing well now

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10/28/2015 13:34

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Anonymous wrote:I lost my virginity at age 14 in a closet with someone I didn't know while others waited outside for their turns. You are the first people I've told, and the last.

I'm so sorry you experienced that. You've got nothing to be ashamed of.

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10/28/2015 13:36

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I lied to her .... But I can't remember what I lied about. I just feel guilty that there's something I misled her about and its that ONE THING that I can't face.
I think it was that I....
Or that I....
???? I'm a horrible liar. Do I need more practice?

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10/28/2015 13:39

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with a lot of people before we got married and I'm glad I did.

hhahaha +1!

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10/28/2015 13:41

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I lost my virginity at age 14 in a closet with someone I didn't know while others waited outside for their turns. You are the first people I've told, and the last.

Waited their turns? You and a bunch of your guy friends gang-banged a girl in a closet one after the other? Sloppy seconds, etc?

Yeah, it's unclear if the OP was "one of the guys" waiting his turn or if the OP was the person abused. Either way, it's awful.

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10/28/2015 13:44

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I lost my virginity at age 14 in a closet with someone I didn't know while others waited outside for their turns. You are the first people I've told, and the last.

Waited their turns? You and a bunch of your guy friends gang-banged a girl in a closet one after the other? Sloppy seconds, etc?

Yeah, it's unclear if the OP was "one of the guys" waiting his turn or if the OP was the person abused. Either way, it's awful.

I am horrified by this. This is rape/abuse. I am so so sorry you had to go through this, this is not some shameful secret you have to hide. Giant hug your way.

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10/28/2015 13:56

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I love my DH very much; he is one of the brightest, most caring, loyal and hardworking people I know. However, it's very clear to me that he has been living with ADHD and possibly OCD for his whole life, and it's keeping him from achieving his full potential in his work (he's self employed in design field).

He constantly underestimates the amount of time it takes to do tasks. He gets lost in one minor detail of a task and will totally lose track of time, working at something for hours. He becomes very upset if he isn't able to do things in his exact methodology due to outside pressure or circumstances; he feels like "why bother if I can't do it 'right.'" He is chronically late. He is not good at organizing himself, setting milestones and sticking to them. I try not to involve him in too many daily household tasks, because he can insist upon doing them a certain way that takes much longer, and so nothing gets done.

I've tried to broach the subject with him, but he always takes it very personally and gets offended when I suggest that he might benefit from medication. It's very hard.

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10/28/2015 14:08

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Anonymous wrote:I lost my virginity at age 14 in a closet with someone I didn't know while others waited outside for their turns. You are the first people I've told, and the last.

I am female. One "couple" went before me and another after me. The boy was older and I had just met him. My "friends" pressured me into it. The real problem though was my mother and her influence one life. I was not taught self respect. I saw sex and drugs as a way of life. I have come so far! But this is my secret, and I have never told anyone. The support I have just received is extremely comforting.

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10/28/2015 14:20

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I lost my virginity at age 14 in a closet with someone I didn't know while others waited outside for their turns. You are the first people I've told, and the last.

I'm so sorry you experienced that. You've got nothing to be ashamed of.

Uh, the poster is a male. He's the perp, not the victim.

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10/28/2015 14:21

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I lost my virginity at age 14 in a closet with someone I didn't know while others waited outside for their turns. You are the first people I've told, and the last.

I'm so sorry you experienced that. You've got nothing to be ashamed of.

Uh, the poster is a male. He's the perp, not the victim.

No, PP is female. Read the post above yours. It wasn't clear from the original post.

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