Okay, so you don't know how it works. My sister teaches in a high school and all the parents do their kids outside research. Most their tiger moms have advanced degrees. You are delusional if you think these kids do original research and hand in projects done without professional help. Her principal has flipped 1/2 the projects to in school projects with lectures being viewed at home because it is impossible to get moms and dads out of the mix. I don't care if they weight AP classes with a silver spoon but the fact is people are playing the system. Even though selective school redo GPAs, less selective do not. Also, more selective schools look at how rigorous the schedule is and when your mom and a tutor do some of your homework for you and edit/rewrite all you research papers it is much easier to take a rigorous schedule. In the end no matter how much an AP student has to master vs another student ... They are missing out mastering things like resilience, independence and emotional intelligence other kids are mastering without their parents doing their work for them. |
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So that was YOUR experience, this was his. It was one anecdote, I don't think he ever suggested it was proof of anything. As a journalist I'd be more likely to believe his one example, than your sweeping statement about all the A students you knew who bombed out smoking pot and snorting coke. Perhaps you're better off back at the second wives thread? |
Or maybe his mother had cancer, he could not deal failed his classes and moved back home. Maybe he drank too much because his tiger mom was no longer there to control his every move. Maybe he had an illness that he find not disclose to his roommate and had to move home. The PP has no clue why this one person did badly. |
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Maybe you should do research before you write something, or do you write for Rolling Stones where that is not required. The #1 reason people drop out college is $$$$$. (Of course a W student has no idea about that.) #2 smoking pot Way down on the list... Not capable of doing the work. It is a very immature, elitist and uninformed example. |
Asian parents should refrain from going their kids homework. |
Hey creeper... Normal people don't ask their roommates what their grades were in HS. |
I'm not the poster you are responding to, but I think you're being overly dramatic and definitely relying on anecdotal "evidence" to back up your theory that ALL students who take AP tests have their parents do their work. Although I'm confident that there are some idiot parents out there who are so desperate for their kids to go that Ivies or other selective schools that they do their kids' work for them and I also believe that the teachers and school administrators have to change things because of overly involved parents, but your sweeping generalizations that AP classes are worthless because some people do this is rather odd. It's a slap in the face to the kids who do work their asses off in these difficult classes and do well. My DD didn't take AP classes, but was in an IB program of which she never received any help from me or her father. She was there to learn, worked her butt off and did quite well. I wouldn't have done her work for her if she asked, but she never once asked. She WANTED to do it herself and, you know what, so did all of her friends. |
Asian parents do not help with their kids' homework and writing assignments. If any parents are helping with their kids' homework or writing assignments, its the white parents. |
I am sure you are proud of your daughter and all her work, but it is equally impressive if a kid helps support his family working and gets pretty good grades in non-Ib/AP classes... Or a kid is a star athlete which is equivalent to a full time job and gets alright grades... Or a child with dyslexia that works their ass off for B's. It's not like she has cured cancer, I smart sure end is a good student, but good students are a fine a dozen.. This is why northern VA kids have such so hard time getting into UVA, they may have better scores than somebody in south western Va. but that does not make them "better". |
I smart sure end is a good student, but good students are a fine a dozen..
Should be I am sure she is a good student, but good students are a dime a dozen.. |
I'm not really getting your whole point, to be honest…no one said that they kids who are taking non-AP/IB classes and working hard in other ways aren't smart and worth a lot, but that doesn't justify you putting down the kids who take the AP/IB route. There is no need to put down some for the sake of others. And, yes, I agree about the difficulties of getting into UVA for kids in No VA, but there are 11 public universities in Virginia that are good and kids get a great education. Again, why would you put down kids who go to the other public universities? Virginia residents are so lucky to have so many public options! Just ask people in surrounding states who do not have the list of public options (i.e. Washington, DC which has no public option!!). |
That should actually say surrounding states and districts... |
Did you read the article, past point #1 that all grades are not created equal? Just because AP classes inflate kids GPAs ... SAT scores remain flat. The point about UVA is if all colleges cared about was "rigor" and GPA then UVA would most have kids from nova, but it doesn't, why... Because colleges care about so many other factors than GPA and rigor. GPA is subjective. |