fat women who complain about being rejected should date short men

[Anonymous]

This 4th July let us all try to bring together our fat female friends and short male friends. For America.

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing Peter Dinklage has no problem with the ladies, fat, skinny, your mom, or otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think fat people who complain about being rejected are often getting rejected by thinner, fitter people. But they don't want to date fatter ones. It's stupid. You can't call someone else "shallow" or be pissed that they won't date you if you're being shallow and not keeping an open mind too. (Same goes for if you're not that attractive but only pursue very attractive people - it's hypocritical to expect others to be more forgiving than you are yourself.)

Just something I've noticed with a few people I know.

I'm 5'8" and don't always date short guys because I figure there are a zillion women shorter than me who could date them. I'm fine dating someone my own height, though. Dating someone who is actually shorter than me feels awkward and weird. I don't rule it out, but it's not my ideal. Flashes me back to 5th grade, when I hit my full height and the guys my age didn't catch up until 11th grade.

IME the shortest women seem to want the tallest men.

MY DH and I are neither -- we are decidedly average. I am 5'5 and he is 5'10.

SO?! I'm 5'1 married to a 6'1 guy. He's awesome and I'm hoping my sons won't be short so they don't have to date fat women

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'4" and a kinda fat. My guy is 6'4" and thin.

I must have missed the memo on fat chicks and short men.

[Anonymous]

Even the short, fat men think they "deserve" thin, beautiful women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think fat people who complain about being rejected are often getting rejected by thinner, fitter people. But they don't want to date fatter ones. It's stupid. You can't call someone else "shallow" or be pissed that they won't date you if you're being shallow and not keeping an open mind too. (Same goes for if you're not that attractive but only pursue very attractive people - it's hypocritical to expect others to be more forgiving than you are yourself.)

Just something I've noticed with a few people I know.

I'm 5'8" and don't always date short guys because I figure there are a zillion women shorter than me who could date them. I'm fine dating someone my own height, though. Dating someone who is actually shorter than me feels awkward and weird. I don't rule it out, but it's not my ideal. Flashes me back to 5th grade, when I hit my full height and the guys my age didn't catch up until 11th grade.

IME the shortest women seem to want the tallest men.

MY DH and I are neither -- we are decidedly average. I am 5'5 and he is 5'10.

SO?! I'm 5'1 married to a 6'1 guy. He's awesome and I'm hoping my sons won't be short so they don't have to date fat women

So nothing. Shorties always want tall guys. It is weird.

[Anonymous]

I'm a short guy. 5' 7"

I would never date a fat woman.

I've never had a problem dating women. There are plenty my height or shorter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm guessing Peter Dinklage has no problem with the ladies, fat, skinny, your mom, or otherwise.

I'd fuck him if I wasn't taken.

[Anonymous]

I guess the dating pool gets pretty bad as we all get older, huh?

I'm 5'9" and never ever ever ever dated a guy shorter than 6'2". Never had issues finding one. however I never did date a jewish or latino guy. Married a guy 6'4"

Are tall guys scarce now?

[Anonymous]

The short guys should go to AtEyeLevel.co, it's a short guy forum. Pick up tips on how to make Tom Cruise or Kanye look like a rookie.

[Anonymous]

I'm 5.0 so I've dated short men. I have never dated one that didn't have a hang up about being short. Sometimes I could work with it, sometimes it was just overwhelming.

[Anonymous]

How about: people should date the people to whom they are attracted, be that physically, due to common perspectives, interests and goals, etc. Radical concept, huh?

I've never understood limiting one's dating pool by automatically exclusionary physical characteristics like fat, skinny, short, tall, blonde, brunette, etc. All of these characteristics exist on a continuum. I've met many men to whom I've not been physically attracted for one reason or another, but I've met at least as many men to whom I might otherwise have been physically attracted, but ultimately found them very unattractive because of their extreme political views or their goals for their life or just simply the way they treat other human beings. And the other side of the attraction coin is true as well; men who might not have made me turn my head initially became incredibly, irresistibly attractive once I delved deeper than their looks. I can't imagine automatically discounting all men below a certain height, or why men would do the same for all women over a certain weight.

-Signed, a normal weight woman

[Anonymous]

I find that short guys with wonderful personalities generally have no problem finding dates. Same goes with fat girls with wonderful personalities. If you are lacking, then chances are it'll be a little harder for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess the dating pool gets pretty bad as we all get older, huh?

I'm 5'9" and never ever ever ever dated a guy shorter than 6'2". Never had issues finding one. however I never did date a jewish or latino guy. Married a guy 6'4"

Are tall guys scarce now?

Only 14% of men are 6'0 are taller. Google it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How about: people should date the people to whom they are attracted, be that physically, due to common perspectives, interests and goals, etc. Radical concept, huh?

I've never understood limiting one's dating pool by automatically exclusionary physical characteristics like fat, skinny, short, tall, blonde, brunette, etc. All of these characteristics exist on a continuum. I've met many men to whom I've not been physically attracted for one reason or another, but I've met at least as many men to whom I might otherwise have been physically attracted, but ultimately found them very unattractive because of their extreme political views or their goals for their life or just simply the way they treat other human beings. And the other side of the attraction coin is true as well; men who might not have made me turn my head initially became incredibly, irresistibly attractive once I delved deeper than their looks. I can't imagine automatically discounting all men below a certain height, or why men would do the same for all women over a certain weight.

-Signed, a normal weight woman

I am not physically attracted to short men in general. Occasionally, a short man is so confident without being cocky that I don't really notice his height. I'm 5'5", but generally in heels. I have no issue with a guy saying he can't date me if I'm heavier than his preferred body type. Enough men appreciate my size 12 frame and almost always think I'm sexy whether 2 sizes bigger or smaller.