Husband Refusing to Put His Paycheck into Our Joint Account

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Utterly confused. You are angry with your husband for refusing to deposit his paycheck into your joint account. Husband is also angry with you for refusing to put your paycheck into said joint account. ??? Accept that you don't trust each other, close the bank account before you started getting charged fees for not funding the account and maintain separate accounts.

P.S. Your husband might be funding his girlfriend. Is he a mental health expert witness?

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I instantly thought the same thing!

[Anonymous]

Sorry hon. You have no right to his money. Have him pay 1/2 the bills ... You pay the other 1/2 and move on.

[Anonymous]

Seriously? You are asking him to do something but you won't do it yourself? Just save a few years and get a divorce now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the hell? I'm a woman, but your logic is a little off. You want him to deposit his check, you need to do the same. If you don't trust him with money, divide the bills and have separate accounts. That's the only fair way IMO. Asking him to do something you are not willing to do is hypocritical.

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[Anonymous]

This has to be a joke post. REALLY?!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This has to be a joke post. REALLY?!?

+1. Nobody can be this stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the hell? I'm a woman, but your logic is a little off. You want him to deposit his check, you need to do the same. If you don't trust him with money, divide the bills and have separate accounts. That's the only fair way IMO. Asking him to do something you are not willing to do is hypocritical.

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OP, Why did you marry him if you didn't trust him with money? Or is this something new?

[Anonymous]

you have posted stupid shit like this before...

[Anonymous]

This cannot possibly be a real post.

[Anonymous]

Aha, a woman who thinks that HIS money is our money and my money is my money. Right. Got it. Do him a big favor, get a divorce so he doesn't have to deal with you in the long run.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, there is nothing really you can do.

I mean you can keep asking him, but all that will accomplish is for him to keep denying you.

I would just let the issue slide....

If he won't change his mind and you won't either, it doesn't look like there is any room for compromise here.

Both sides are stubborn. Must be Tauruses.

[Anonymous]

Actually, I am a Scorpio. He is a Taurus.

I went to CVS today on my lunch break and wanted to buy some small snacks for myself, but I could not b/c DH will not put money in the joint account. Why do I have to go through this. It is humiliating! I cook and clean at home and he says I also have to give him money for the mortgage, etc. It is just not fair!

[Anonymous]

If you think he's hiding $$, then get a divorce attorney. DH's earnings are part of the $$ of the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Sounds to me like you need to agree on how much money each of you deposits into the joint account each month, from your separate accounts.

I really hope this is a troll post, because you can't possibly be so stupid as to see how hypocritical this is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Actually, I am a Scorpio. He is a Taurus.

I went to CVS today on my lunch break and wanted to buy some small snacks for myself, but I could not b/c DH will not put money in the joint account. Why do I have to go through this. It is humiliating! I cook and clean at home and he says I also have to give him money for the mortgage, etc. It is just not fair!

OP - we're still all confused. Why can't you buy snacks with YOUR paycheck from your account?