I hate my brother.
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Cops cant do a fucking thing. They told me I "gave the car away" when I handed him the keys and the only way to get it back is by sending a registered letter to his address (which he doesn't have because he JUST got out of prison) and then he has FIVE days to return it. I am so angry right now I'm in tears.
Being a single mom is hard enough, now I'm a single mom with no transportation!!!! I work too far away to take public transportation and because I'm already struggling to make ends meet I wont be able to pay for daycare for my son AND additional transportation until I get the damn car back. FML |
Anonymous
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Would going to a food bank help you pay for day care?
I am really sorry, this must be awful right now Have you spoken to your parents? Does your brother have a probation officer? |
Anonymous
| Op I'm sorry your asshole brother did this to you. Can any of your other siblings help with transportation? Your friend offered. Take her up on it!!!! Seriously. This is the time when you need to let others help you. If I were your fried I'd do in a heart beat. In fact if you are in PG county I WILL do it. I'm a single mom too and totally sympathize. |
Anonymous
| Your brother is a total asshole. I'm so sorry, OP. Sadly it sounds like you can't do anything nice for the guy or else he will crap on you and your child. Let us know what happens and when you get your car back. |
Anonymous
| Note to the rest of DCUM: This is what real problems look like. |
Anonymous
+1000 |
Anonymous
| OP, please take your friend up on her offer to help you with transportation while you sort this out. |
Anonymous
| I'm SO very sorry you're in this position. You've should definitely call that guy's PO. I'm not going to call him your brother because he's not family. I had a sibling like that and it took me a very long time to realize that even though I loved him when we were young, he grew into someone I didn't love - and I didn't owe him anything. I hope you get to that point. It may be hard but what this guy did is unconsciousable. |
Anonymous
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Sorry OP. I hope you get this resolved soon. As a PP mentioned does he have a probation officer, if so call the officer so they can document this!
Take your friend up on their offer, it's sincere and you really need help right now. Good luck. |
Anonymous
I don't know. 1. Single mother (self inflicted) 2. lends car to ex con brother (self inflicted) 3. And unsurprisingly it all goes horribly wrong Good luck OP! |
Anonymous
That is really nice to offer pp! I feel like it is so rare to see kindness like this these days... OP, so sorry about your situation! Yes, take up your friend's offer, and I hope you get your car asap. |
Anonymous
And the inevitable judgement is real too. |
Anonymous
Are you serious?? In hindsight, she might be regretting letting him use her car.. But how presumptuous of you to assume that you know anything about why she may be a single mother. Get off of your high horse and realize that no matter what reasons she has for it, that it is still a real problem. |
NannyRachel
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I don't know OP's situation but may I remind you that not all single mom's are promiscuous. Their are other ways to become single mothers. And even if she is partially to blame for having a hard life judgement like this rarely helps anything. |
Anonymous
Hey, I'm the OP...how do you know being a single mom is self inflicted...maybe the father chose to leave, what was I supposed to do? Chain him to a chair? Maybe he refuses to pay child support and the process takes FOREVER. Or hey, maybe he died. That could be a possiblity. He didn't, but he did move out of state and leave us to fend for ourselves. Asshole. And yes, I did loan my BROTHER my car, are you saying you wouldn't ever loan a family member your car? I fully expected him to bring it back. Now I know better. |