DW never wants sex during the holidays

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We’re empty nesters. Labor divided pretty evenly I would say. I don’t know. I guess I’m crazy for desiring intimacy with my wife around the holidays?

No, jakarse, you’re crazy for not listening to her when she tells you exactly why this isn’t a good time FOR HER. Go JO and stop your incessant, unattractive whining.

[Anonymous]

Normal

Grow up.

Send her to the 4 seasons alone tomorrow to recharge to spa and sleep . Be a good spouse.

[Anonymous]

lol he thinks empty nesters do nothing for the holidays. wtf!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:probably because she has been doing all the everything for the holidays. meanwhile, you have been off work, resting and you are ready for some fun.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:probably because she has been doing all the everything for the holidays. meanwhile, you have been off work, resting and you are ready for some fun.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Claims things “are too crazy”, she’s “exhausted from being around people all the time”.

Is this normal? I think of the holidays as a special time to connect and be intimate.

Don't know as I have never had any sort of relationship with your wife.

His wife has never, to my knowledge, wanted to have sex with me on the holidays. So, it seems normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Claims things “are too crazy”, she’s “exhausted from being around people all the time”.

Is this normal? I think of the holidays as a special time to connect and be intimate.

Man here. Why do you think that?

How is the labor divided in terms of creating whatever magic you do?

But I think it’s beyond weird you associate the holidays with getting your dick wet. What’s that about?

The fact that you used that phrase indicates that you have a very negative view of sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We’re empty nesters. Labor divided pretty evenly I would say. I don’t know. I guess I’m crazy for desiring intimacy with my wife around the holidays?

If you're empty nesters, then hormones and familiarity are almost certainly playing a role.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Normal

Grow up.

Send her to the 4 seasons alone tomorrow to recharge to spa and sleep . Be a good spouse.

He'd be a good dude if he did this. But she's still not going to want to have sex with him, and you're kind of cruel for implying that she's going to be hot for him after a spa day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We’re empty nesters. Labor divided pretty evenly I would say. I don’t know. I guess I’m crazy for desiring intimacy with my wife around the holidays?

Next year, tell her that you want to opt out of a lot of the craziness and stress and just focus on connecting yourselves and with your kids and grandkids.
Give specifics. Offer to take over the gift buying. Women get weird about gift buying.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you leave everything to her and she’s tired. Try actually caring about her and helping her? She’s your wife, not just a warm hole.

[Anonymous]

She's just glad to have an excuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We’re empty nesters. Labor divided pretty evenly I would say. I don’t know. I guess I’m crazy for desiring intimacy with my wife around the holidays?

Dude, you got to plan ahead, and make your move Monday or Tuesday. (Not Christmas Eve.) Then recover and ready again for Fri-Sat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Normal

Grow up.

Send her to the 4 seasons alone tomorrow to recharge to spa and sleep . Be a good spouse.

He'd be a good dude if he did this. But she's still not going to want to have sex with him, and you're kind of cruel for implying that she's going to be hot for him after a spa day.

It actually disgusts me reading your comment.

She’s tired and stressed out and I suggest sending her away for a night to sleep and spa. Your response is you would only do that if she would return and want to have sex.

You’re not even thinking oh that would be a nice thing for her to be less stressed out.

You could not do something nice for a woman unless you get something (sex) in return for it.

You are a disgusting human being.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Normal

Grow up.

Send her to the 4 seasons alone tomorrow to recharge to spa and sleep . Be a good spouse.

He'd be a good dude if he did this. But she's still not going to want to have sex with him, and you're kind of cruel for implying that she's going to be hot for him after a spa day.

It actually disgusts me reading your comment.

She’s tired and stressed out and I suggest sending her away for a night to sleep and spa. Your response is you would only do that if she would return and want to have sex.

You’re not even thinking oh that would be a nice thing for her to be less stressed out.

You could not do something nice for a woman unless you get something (sex) in return for it.

You are a disgusting human being.

Well said.