Did you have sex on your wedding night?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. 4 times

I was 28. He was 27.

We had an afternoon church wedding followed by 4-hour reception. Stayed at the Hay Adams on our wedding night. Left for 3 week honeymoon in Europe the next morning.

This was the late 90s before weddings became 5 day affairs and after parties with costume changes, etc.

‘97 DC area bride, same ages. Yes! Once then it was lights out because we had a ridiculous 6 a.m. flight to the Caribbean out of BWI. Sex daily on our honeymoon.

[Anonymous]

No he was too drunk

[Anonymous]

No. We were too tired.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Haha yes but it was a struggle, we were both exhausted and did the bare minimum.

This, felt like we should.

[Anonymous]

No, we were both completely exhausted. It happened the next morning.

[Anonymous]

No, we did not do it almost 1 month into the marriage. My parents did not approve our marriage even until today 26+ years later. They asked me not to get pregnant too soon would bring more shame to them. The only way 100% not to get pregnant and not taking pills is not doing it. We have happy marriage.

[Anonymous]

Evening wedding, and we were way too exhausted - showered and went to bed. However, we definitely had sex before the 9am brunch the next morning!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wedding night should be for relaxing and cuddling and laughing at day's events.

What’s with the word “should”? 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. Virgin. Age 26. Did not live together before wedding.

How sad for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. 4 times

I was 28. He was 27.

We had an afternoon church wedding followed by 4-hour reception. Stayed at the Hay Adams on our wedding night. Left for 3 week honeymoon in Europe the next morning.

This was the late 90s before weddings became 5 day affairs and after parties with costume changes, etc.

Um. What?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, we did not do it almost 1 month into the marriage. My parents did not approve our marriage even until today 26+ years later. They asked me not to get pregnant too soon would bring more shame to them. The only way 100% not to get pregnant and not taking pills is not doing it. We have happy marriage.

Fascinating. You have a happy marriage? Did your parents die?

[Anonymous]

Yes, we did. It was a wonderful day and night!

[Anonymous]

Nope! He drank too much and I was on the tail end of my period and we were both exhausted and I was a virgin. LOL! 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. Virgin. Age 26. Did not live together before wedding.

How sad for you.

NP. The only thing “sad” here is how narrow-minded you are. You would be up in arms if someone was shaming people for choosing to live together or sleep together before marriage, but you feel very free to shame others who make different choices. You are a massive hypocrite.

Signed, someone who both slept with and lived with people before marriage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. 4 times

I was 28. He was 27.

We had an afternoon church wedding followed by 4-hour reception. Stayed at the Hay Adams on our wedding night. Left for 3 week honeymoon in Europe the next morning.

This was the late 90s before weddings became 5 day affairs and after parties with costume changes, etc.

Um. What?

Maybe not 5 days but 4 is common.

Small gathering for people who are in town. But it might be 20 people.

“Rehearsal” dinner.

Wedding. Many bridal couples arrange an after party.

Brunch.