DH here. Is third base OK?
I wasn’t a wait until marriage type, but as it happened, the first girl I went all the way with was the one I married. Still good after more than a decade. |
He would not be the boyfriend for me. I want to know the sex is good way before engagement or moving in together, let alone before marriage. So, I'd break up with him. |
I’d be fine with this, because sex changes over time. Hopefully it gets better every time because both of you care to make it that way. |
If that's make or break territory for you, then you might want to try some Kegels and Ben Wa thingies. |
This |
Here's your answer. |
He’s just not that into you. If he is celibate really liked you he would have popped the question AT LEAST 2 months ago, or sooner and you’d already be married and having sex by now. |
No sex at all. We haven’t even seen each other naked. He doesn’t want any kind of sex. Only kissing. Not even touching. |
Are there other things you can do without PIV or is all that off the table? Intimacy and pleasure can be had/felt without sex. |
Not everyone waiting for sex gets married right away. They have only been together for 8 months. Marriage is a serious decision. Not everyone gets married on a whim and is okay with just get a divorce when they no longer feel like being married. |
NP. That was me and my spouse. Married 30 years. |
Nothing besides kissing. He has found Christ as he says and decided sex is off the table. He doesn’t want to rush marriage because he doesn’t believe in divorce. He wants to make sure he is 100% compatible with whomever he marries. |
Well not everyone wants to be celibate. |
Unless he's very religious, I would be concerned at what he's hiding. |
This would be a deal breaker for me. I'd at least need to see the goods/play with them and determine the attraction. Sex isn't a big deal unless it's a big deal. And what you don't know can be a big deal. |