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Anonymous wrote:Who wants to get married without sampling the goods?
Plenty of people, for a variety of reasons. Not everyone is a slut (not that there's anything wrong with being a slut, but not everyone is).
Can we stop with this? Ok, so he wants to save himself after sleeping with others? He is a weirdo. Move on. And no slut shaming is NOT ok. For men or women. Sex should be a postive thing with two consenting adults.
Just as slut-shaming isn't okay, shaming people for not having sex is also not okay. They're two sides of the same coin, dummy.
He is NOT saving himself for marriage. He is hiding something which is different. She wants to explore before marriage. They're not a good fit. She should move on.
This is hilarious. The only reason you have anything to judge him negatively for is that he was honest, and yet you claim this person you've never met is "hiding something"
Some of y'all should've been scriptwriters for soap operas with your penchant for overly dramatic BS.
Why do you care so much?
As a woman, I'm tired of women having this messed up double standard of (rightly) wanting respect for our boundaries around sex, and then completely shitting on a man for having boundaries and limits about sex. Culturally, it's a gross double standard that needs to be called out. Y'all made a whole thread about it, so I'm calling it out. And I'm not alone in doing that; there are other sane people here. Then there's the d-starved contingent acting like a man should wait until the exact moment a woman is ready and then provide instadick or he's problematic (or, to the particularly homophobic, gay) and she might die because she "needs" it, which is just weird, excuse-making, gender reversal bs of the same type women rant against all the time.
Maybe pointing that out will make someone think about their ridiculous double standards. Probably not, but if it helps even a little, it's worth it.