Boyfriend is celibate until marriage

[Anonymous]

I’m seeing this guy I really like who told me he has decided to be celibate until marriage. I’ve been trying to be understanding but it is getting pretty hard for me to not want sex with him. I think about sex constantly. I don’t know if I can do this..

[Anonymous]

Then don’t. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m seeing this guy I really like who told me he has decided to be celibate until marriage. I’ve been trying to be understanding but it is getting pretty hard for me to not want sex with him. I think about sex constantly. I don’t know if I can do this..

You don’t deserve him, and you obviously don’t share the same values.

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand. Do you want us to convince you to grape the guy? Don’t be with him then

[Anonymous]

Maybe he is gay and just scared to admit it?

[Anonymous]

He’s gay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he is gay and just scared to admit it?

He is not gay. He said he used sex a lot as an escape and decided he would celibate until marriage.

[Anonymous]

Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.

except, are his fingers short? I would want a sneak peak at whats in store

[Anonymous]

You don’t deserve him. Respect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.

I’m human. I want sex. We have been together 8 months and man it’s hard. He is a really great guy but he is not fast tracking marriage. His ideal timeline is marriage in 2-3 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.

except, are his fingers short? I would want a sneak peak at whats in store

I’ve seen him in his boxers. He is definitely fine in what area. I’m not a size queen so I don’t really care.

[Anonymous]

Good lord, I would never marry someone without sleeping with them first. What if he’s terrible in bed and not open to feedback?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t deserve him. Respect.

Would you be fine being in a new multi year relationship and never having sex? Never knowing what sex is like before you marry that person?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m seeing this guy I really like who told me he has decided to be celibate until marriage. I’ve been trying to be understanding but it is getting pretty hard for me to not want sex with him. I think about sex constantly. I don’t know if I can do this..

Dump him and move on. He’s not considerate of your needs. This will be a pattern if you marry him. Save yourself now.