Tevin Campbell….Officially Out Of The Closet

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Worst kept secret in history.


Seriously!!



We been knew. ✨✨❤️❤️

[Black people]
Anonymous
Back when he was in his prime (early ‘90’s) it would have been a career dealbreaker if he had come out as gay.

Even thirty years ago - one could not be who they were, they had to pretend to be someone else.
Thank goodness these days it is SO much better.
Frank Ocean and Lil Nas have come out & no one bats an eye.
But three decades ago it was unheard of.

Glad the world has progressed to the place we are in now.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Worst kept secret in history.


Seriously!!



We been knew. ✨✨❤️❤️

[Black people]


For his age, I think he is still cute.

Of course not as cute as he was when he was 16, but he looks okay now.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Worst kept secret in history.


Sad that he felt like like he had to hide since his audience wouldn’t accept him. That’s something the black community really needs to own and address: it’s homophobia. You’d think a group as persecuted as the black community would be better at accepting diversity.

You are calling out the black community because the “white community” is so accepting that no white musician has taken a while to come out?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am fifty-three so like many of my peers, I had the ultimate crush 💘 on R&B singer Tevin Campbell.

I had his CD’s as well as posters of him on my walls.

My favorite song of his was/is “Can We Talk.”

Man he was so adorable > he had the cutest smile & I was totally smitten.
Of course I had heard the rumors back then that he was gay - but I thought that is all that they were.
Rumors.

In his “Can We Talk” music video - I could tell he looked ill at ease + uncomfortable, like he was wearing a fake smile the entire time but chalked it up to him being so young and new to the scene.
But now that he is officially out, I know there will NEVER be a chance for us.
😭
Lol.

Sorry, OP, but you never did have a chance. Had he been straight, he would have been with me.
Anonymous
The title of this thread should have been "Can we talk...."

...and first post should have been "about how Tevin Campbell officially came out?"
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Worst kept secret in history.


Sad that he felt like like he had to hide since his audience wouldn’t accept him. That’s something the black community really needs to own and address: it’s homophobia. You’d think a group as persecuted as the black community would be better at accepting diversity.
White people have a lot of damn nerve.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Worst kept secret in history.


Sad that he felt like like he had to hide since his audience wouldn’t accept him. That’s something the black community really needs to own and address: it’s homophobia. You’d think a group as persecuted as the black community would be better at accepting diversity.
White people have a lot of damn nerve.


x 1,000,000!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am fifty-three so like many of my peers, I had the ultimate crush 💘 on R&B singer Tevin Campbell.

I had his CD’s as well as posters of him on my walls.

My favorite song of his was/is “Can We Talk.”

Man he was so adorable > he had the cutest smile & I was totally smitten.
Of course I had heard the rumors back then that he was gay - but I thought that is all that they were.
Rumors.

In his “Can We Talk” music video - I could tell he looked ill at ease + uncomfortable, like he was wearing a fake smile the entire time but chalked it up to him being so young and new to the scene.
But now that he is officially out, I know there will NEVER be a chance for us.
😭
Lol.

Sorry, OP, but you never did have a chance. Had he been straight, he would have been with me.


OP Here:
😂
Anonymous
https://www.advocate.com/politics/2015/05/26/why-cant-we-talk-about-homophobia-black-community?amp

Sigh.

Lee Daniels and other notable black celebs and accomplished luminaries are brave enough to acknowledge the rampant black homophobia that persists today. You can’t blame white people for black homophobia. Nobody is saying it doesn’t exist in white culture, but it definitely exists in black culture in a more stark way. How do I know? Statistics. Just look at the over representation of gay black youth who are homeless because their families kick them out. Google it. It’s heartbreaking.
Anonymous
Check your own first house.

https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-sociologist-examines-the-white-fragility-that-prevents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2022/06/03/why-so-many-mass-shooters-young-angry-men/

We Black people always knew TC is gay; we have always supported him anyway. Keep your mouth shut about what Black people need to do while you have a lot of work to do in your own screwed up community.
Anonymous
**Check your own house first.^^
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Check your own first house.

https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-sociologist-examines-the-white-fragility-that-prevents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2022/06/03/why-so-many-mass-shooters-young-angry-men/

We Black people always knew TC is gay; we have always supported him anyway. Keep your mouth shut about what Black people need to do while you have a lot of work to do in your own screwed up community.


If you worked in the lgbtq community—and the lgbtq homeless youth community specifically—you would realize the black and Latino communities are over represented and it stems from faith-based and other cultural beliefs.

I’m not saying whites uniformly accept gay people. But the anti-gay issues in the black community have prompted the continued hiv issues in the black community (down low is a thing created by the black community, and it prompted continued hiv spread when rates dramatically decreased among whites).

Don’t shoot the messenger. Educate yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Check your own first house.

https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-sociologist-examines-the-white-fragility-that-prevents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2022/06/03/why-so-many-mass-shooters-young-angry-men/

We Black people always knew TC is gay; we have always supported him anyway. Keep your mouth shut about what Black people need to do while you have a lot of work to do in your own screwed up community.


If you worked in the lgbtq community—and the lgbtq homeless youth community specifically—you would realize the black and Latino communities are over represented and it stems from faith-based and other cultural beliefs.

I’m not saying whites uniformly accept gay people. But the anti-gay issues in the black community have prompted the continued hiv issues in the black community (down low is a thing created by the black community, and it prompted continued hiv spread when rates dramatically decreased among whites).

Don’t shoot the messenger. Educate yourself.


You are talking to a Black woman, idiot! YOU educate YOURSELF before you spout stats you found on the internet. I’ve been a part of the Black community for 47 years.

You don’t know shit about us!
Anonymous
Like everything on DCUM, this thread only briefly mentioned the fact that Lil Nas X and Frank Ocean are lucky that they have the ability to come out of the closet now while enjoying enormous success.
And sadly Tevin Campbell could not enjoy this same privilege during his music career in the ‘90’s.

Now people are spewing all this hate - Black people vs. White…..??!
Off topic tenfold.

Anyway I do not care what Tevin’s sexuality is or isn’t.
In my eyes > he will always be the legend he was born to be.
I am sad that he had to hide who he really was for so many years because of judgmental, close-minded + hypocritical people.
The world was such a different place three decades ago.

Thankfully we are more accepting of people regardless who they choose to love.
But most importantly, we really do not care either way.

We just focus on what is important: the music.
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