We been knew. ✨✨❤️❤️ [Black people] |
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Back when he was in his prime (early ‘90’s) it would have been a career dealbreaker if he had come out as gay.
Even thirty years ago - one could not be who they were, they had to pretend to be someone else. Thank goodness these days it is SO much better. Frank Ocean and Lil Nas have come out & no one bats an eye. But three decades ago it was unheard of. Glad the world has progressed to the place we are in now. |
For his age, I think he is still cute. Of course not as cute as he was when he was 16, but he looks okay now. |
You are calling out the black community because the “white community” is so accepting that no white musician has taken a while to come out? |
Sorry, OP, but you never did have a chance. Had he been straight, he would have been with me.
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The title of this thread should have been "Can we talk...."
...and first post should have been "about how Tevin Campbell officially came out?" |
White people have a lot of damn nerve.
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x 1,000,000! |
OP Here: 😂 |
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https://www.advocate.com/politics/2015/05/26/why-cant-we-talk-about-homophobia-black-community?amp
Sigh. Lee Daniels and other notable black celebs and accomplished luminaries are brave enough to acknowledge the rampant black homophobia that persists today. You can’t blame white people for black homophobia. Nobody is saying it doesn’t exist in white culture, but it definitely exists in black culture in a more stark way. How do I know? Statistics. Just look at the over representation of gay black youth who are homeless because their families kick them out. Google it. It’s heartbreaking. |
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Check your own first house.
https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-sociologist-examines-the-white-fragility-that-prevents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2022/06/03/why-so-many-mass-shooters-young-angry-men/ We Black people always knew TC is gay; we have always supported him anyway. Keep your mouth shut about what Black people need to do while you have a lot of work to do in your own screwed up community. |
| **Check your own house first.^^ |
If you worked in the lgbtq community—and the lgbtq homeless youth community specifically—you would realize the black and Latino communities are over represented and it stems from faith-based and other cultural beliefs. I’m not saying whites uniformly accept gay people. But the anti-gay issues in the black community have prompted the continued hiv issues in the black community (down low is a thing created by the black community, and it prompted continued hiv spread when rates dramatically decreased among whites). Don’t shoot the messenger. Educate yourself. |
You are talking to a Black woman, idiot! YOU educate YOURSELF before you spout stats you found on the internet. I’ve been a part of the Black community for 47 years. You don’t know shit about us! |
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Like everything on DCUM, this thread only briefly mentioned the fact that Lil Nas X and Frank Ocean are lucky that they have the ability to come out of the closet now while enjoying enormous success.
And sadly Tevin Campbell could not enjoy this same privilege during his music career in the ‘90’s. Now people are spewing all this hate - Black people vs. White…..??! Off topic tenfold. Anyway I do not care what Tevin’s sexuality is or isn’t. In my eyes > he will always be the legend he was born to be. I am sad that he had to hide who he really was for so many years because of judgmental, close-minded + hypocritical people. The world was such a different place three decades ago. Thankfully we are more accepting of people regardless who they choose to love. But most importantly, we really do not care either way. We just focus on what is important: the music. |