Meeting a Guy in Big Law

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Search threads here for "big law." Many posts by women (and some men) married to big law attorneys, complaining how their spouses neglect the marriages, leave the spouse to deal with the kids entirely, cheat, etc. Then go right ahead and hunt for your big law man, but do it informed about what others have experienced. I'm sure you'll say "That won't happen to me!"

You sound jealous.

[Anonymous]

I don't know many lawyers who aren't married to lawyers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know many lawyers who aren't married to lawyers.

Well, I do. And I am one of them.

[Anonymous]

You probably need to aim for a divorcée if you want an actual partner. The vast majority are married.

As for where to meet them: BLT, Capital Grille, Charlie Palmer, the Hamilton, Joe’s, Round Robin, Oceanaire, any local country club, any close-in private pool, on the Acela, airport lounges, business class on international flights. Get out there and let them know you’re ready to party.

[Anonymous]

🤢

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most Biglaw lawyers were nerdy when younger and got married early to unattractive and mostly fat wives.

HHhha mine was the captain of his rowing team in college. And I am far from fat even after kids. And also not a lawyer. But we did meet during college way way before he became a partner.

[Anonymous]

With their AP’s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most Biglaw lawyers were nerdy when younger and got married early to unattractive and mostly fat wives.

HHhha mine was the captain of his rowing team in college. And I am far from fat even after kids. And also not a lawyer. But we did meet during college way way before he became a partner.

Bwahaha. Same. Didn’t stop a google eyed former secretary throwing herself at my husband the entire Xmas party. It was really embarrassing for everyone. What these girls don’t realize is that most Big Law partners worse chasing can do the math and can’t afford the divorce.

To the OP: go to law school; you’ll find what you re looking for and might learn yourself something in the process

Also, I hear George Conway is up for grabs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Courthouse

Tell me you don't know . . .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most Biglaw lawyers were nerdy when younger and got married early to unattractive and mostly fat wives.

HHhha mine was the captain of his rowing team in college. And I am far from fat even after kids. And also not a lawyer. But we did meet during college way way before he became a partner.

Bwahaha. Same. Didn’t stop a google eyed former secretary throwing herself at my husband the entire Xmas party. It was really embarrassing for everyone. What these girls don’t realize is that most Big Law partners worse chasing can do the math and can’t afford the divorce.

To the OP: go to law school; you’ll find what you re looking for and might learn yourself something in the process

Also, I hear George Conway is up for grabs

Forgot to add, this young woman used to bake cookies for our kids for BLP husband to take home. My kids laughed and ate the cookies. It became a massive in joke with my husband and family. Cringy but funny

In all truth, if you’re after a married or divorced BLP you’d be disappointed with what’s left over financially. If you’re after a young associate, it’s uncertain and you’ll wait. Finance? Try selling coffee on Wall Street. BTW has anyone watched Industry on Showtime. Totally true — I miss those days!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most Biglaw lawyers were nerdy when younger and got married early to unattractive and mostly fat wives.

HHhha mine was the captain of his rowing team in college. And I am far from fat even after kids. And also not a lawyer. But we did meet during college way way before he became a partner.

Bwahaha. Same. Didn’t stop a google eyed former secretary throwing herself at my husband the entire Xmas party. It was really embarrassing for everyone. What these girls don’t realize is that most Big Law partners worse chasing can do the math and can’t afford the divorce.

To the OP: go to law school; you’ll find what you re looking for and might learn yourself something in the process

Also, I hear George Conway is up for grabs

Forgot to add, this young woman used to bake cookies for our kids for BLP husband to take home. My kids laughed and ate the cookies. It became a massive in joke with my husband and family. Cringy but funny

In all truth, if you’re after a married or divorced BLP you’d be disappointed with what’s left over financially. If you’re after a young associate, it’s uncertain and you’ll wait. Finance? Try selling coffee on Wall Street. BTW has anyone watched Industry on Showtime. Totally true — I miss those days!

NP, also had a woman from *my* work bake cookies for DH. I ate them, he doesn't care for cookies. They were delicious!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most Biglaw lawyers were nerdy when younger and got married early to unattractive and mostly fat wives.

HHhha mine was the captain of his rowing team in college. And I am far from fat even after kids. And also not a lawyer. But we did meet during college way way before he became a partner.

Bwahaha. Same. Didn’t stop a google eyed former secretary throwing herself at my husband the entire Xmas party. It was really embarrassing for everyone. What these girls don’t realize is that most Big Law partners worse chasing can do the math and can’t afford the divorce.

To the OP: go to law school; you’ll find what you re looking for and might learn yourself something in the process

Also, I hear George Conway is up for grabs

Forgot to add, this young woman used to bake cookies for our kids for BLP husband to take home. My kids laughed and ate the cookies. It became a massive in joke with my husband and family. Cringy but funny

In all truth, if you’re after a married or divorced BLP you’d be disappointed with what’s left over financially. If you’re after a young associate, it’s uncertain and you’ll wait. Finance? Try selling coffee on Wall Street. BTW has anyone watched Industry on Showtime. Totally true — I miss those days!

NP, also had a woman from *my* work bake cookies for DH. I ate them, he doesn't care for cookies. They were delicious!

It’s a thing! Is it a Millennial thing? Seems very retro? Look, I can cook while your wife is also a partner.

We’ll just hire a chef, thanks. Much cheaper than a divorce. Comparably, side indulgences are cheap and oh so easy to come by if one were so inclined.

[Anonymous]

Were these women baking for your man? Or just sending in cookies for the entire office at Christmas? I am a happily married woman who does the latter. Please don’t read into it…

[Anonymous]

Recommending George Conway

[Anonymous]

Become a Doordash driver. Partners are in the office late every night, so they order dinner in. That next delivery of egg fried rice could lead to everlasting love!