To those of you with a f*** buddy, how did it come about?

[Anonymous]

Met him online. I'm divorced and he has never been married and travels a lot for work. We have great chemistry but is not partner material. I stopped seeing him when I dated someone else for 7 months. We have started seeing each other again.

[Anonymous]

I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

[Anonymous]

Long story short, I was just an innocent young man trying to focus on my school work and grow into my adulthood. Then out of nowhere, this girl weasels her way into my life. We hing out for a bit, which eventually turned into hours, days, and months.

The mutual attraction between us was apparent at that point and next thing you know, we’re sneaking between each others dorm rooms for quick sessions, all based on whose roommate was gone. Unfortunately, we realized this fwb situation couldn’t go in for too long, so like any responsible adults we said lets be together. Fast forward 13 years later and now I’m stuck with this woman. Yea, I proposed and all and married her but this wasn’t in our plans as two young naive college kids.

So with that said, tread lightly with getting a fwb…she just may end up being a lovely wife!

[Anonymous]

I have a few. Met them on Bumble. We’re all busy professionals and don’t have time or interest in a committed relationship. I tell people early on that I’m not interested in remarrying or having a blended family.

[Anonymous]

I've heard of people finding them on this website I think, but I never used it. https://www.feels-app.com/ Sometimes its people in open marriages, like wife looking for a buddy (you). Enjoy!

[Anonymous]

Tell us about yourself op and maybe you can find one here 😉

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've heard of people finding them on this website I think, but I never used it. https://www.feels-app.com/ Sometimes its people in open marriages, like wife looking for a buddy (you). Enjoy!

NP. I’m a woman and used a similar app, Feeld, a few times over the years for that purpose. I hooked up with a few people but everyone I met was normal, stable, cool, etc. Some people are out there but they’re pretty easy to spot… I’m in a relationship now with someone I met IRL, but Feeld is a good source if you’re looking for no-strings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

As a healthcare professional, I’ve seen so many women and men with STDs. Where can you find just regular, normal, attractive fwb?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

As a healthcare professional, I’ve seen so many women and men with STDs. Where can you find just regular, normal, attractive Fwb who is willing to be exclusive and do not sleep around with so many people?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a woman. Bumble. We only see each other. Sex and texting/talking on the phone.

NP. The bold seems very trusting. And note that the OP is asking here how to set up "a couple" of these no-strings, sex-only deals, not seeking just one "we only see each other" arrangement. So why believe that your "f*** buddy" is telling the truth about having sex only with you? Asking seriously, PP. How do you know that someone you met online and know in no other context than sex is being monogamous sexually? "Texting/talking on the phone" doesn't constitute enough of a relationship to know the person well enough for that level of trust, at least not to me, and I'm guessing the texting/phoning are at least partly focused on sex and logistics of meeting up for sex.

Since there's no way to hear "tone" in a DCUM post: I'm not judging the arrangement itself, PP, 'm just wondering how you trust that your sex partner is actually limiting sex to you. That seems like a "take him at his word" situation with someone who could have no real incentive to be truthful.

I really don’t see how it’s any different than trusting anybody else. Also it was discussed at length before we started sleeping with each other and we were both tested and we’re both paranoid about diseases, etc. our phone calls are usually about personal things and work and things like that. Text is usually “how was your day” ; “how’s your week or “when do you wanna meet?l

Are you both married to other people?

[Anonymous]

- ex boyfriends
- dating app matches that end up to have only physical chemistry.

[Anonymous]

My friend gave my number to her co-worker who is married. Not sure what those two have been talking about at work for her to do so. After texting a bit, I asked him for his single friends and he sent one over to the club I was at.
That was two weeks ago. We hit it off but I think he is more married than I was led to believe.
My friend's co-worker plans to show up at my place also if he can find time. As I understood it, both are just want some excitement outside of marriage, but need to be super discreet.
Ask your friends. They like you and they will send you someone you might like.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

As a healthcare professional, I’ve seen so many women and men with STDs. Where can you find just regular, normal, attractive fwb?

I am not sure why you’re replying to my post w/ this question, as I’ve never had an STD. As I said before, I have met most of them
On Tinder, but one in a bar, listening to music we like..