To those of you with a f*** buddy, how did it come about?

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

What is unlikely? You can pass viruses to others without knowing you have them. You can appear symptom free and still pass it to someone else. It’s not like you look at someone’s privates and are like, oooh, bright oozing sore and still do oral. I once had a guy tell me he’d be cool without a condom because I didn’t look sick. Wtf?

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

What is unlikely? You can pass viruses to others without knowing you have them. You can appear symptom free and still pass it to someone else. It’s not like you look at someone’s privates and are like, oooh, bright oozing sore and still do oral. I once had a guy tell me he’d be cool without a condom because I didn’t look sick. Wtf?

Still waiting for PP to confirm it happens thru oral. And to explain why she’s mD at me when I am not the one who gave her cheating man an std!

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

What is unlikely? You can pass viruses to others without knowing you have them. You can appear symptom free and still pass it to someone else. It’s not like you look at someone’s privates and are like, oooh, bright oozing sore and still do oral. I once had a guy tell me he’d be cool without a condom because I didn’t look sick. Wtf?

Still waiting for PP to confirm it happens thru oral. And to explain why she’s mD at me when I am not the one who gave her cheating man an std!

DP why wouldn’t it? You do know that oral herpes can spread to the genitalia and vice versa… look up oral-genital HSV spread.

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

Yes, trich.

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

What is unlikely? You can pass viruses to others without knowing you have them. You can appear symptom free and still pass it to someone else. It’s not like you look at someone’s privates and are like, oooh, bright oozing sore and still do oral. I once had a guy tell me he’d be cool without a condom because I didn’t look sick. Wtf?

Still waiting for PP to confirm it happens thru oral. And to explain why she’s mD at me when I am not the one who gave her cheating man an std!

I already did, genius. I said I'm annoyed by your unwarranted back-patting.

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

So, he got an STD from oral sex? And then passed it to you? Doubtful!!

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

You should be annoyed with your cheating ex who’s too dumb to use a condom, not me. And maybe your poor choices in men

Um, like I said, he used condoms "most" of the time -- just like you!

He got an STI from oral sex, didn’t realize, and passed it to you? Seems unlikely, but go off.

What is unlikely? You can pass viruses to others without knowing you have them. You can appear symptom free and still pass it to someone else. It’s not like you look at someone’s privates and are like, oooh, bright oozing sore and still do oral. I once had a guy tell me he’d be cool without a condom because I didn’t look sick. Wtf?

Still waiting for PP to confirm it happens thru oral. And to explain why she’s mD at me when I am not the one who gave her cheating man an std!

Where were you in sex ed?

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/ask-experts/can-i-get-an-std-by-receiving-oral-sex

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Anonymous wrote:I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs. Full stop. Do you discuss this? Or always use protection?

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown

So no oral? Or do you use protection for oral too? Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.

"we always use protection." ok, so that was a lie.

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on.

I guess I get annoyed because you're patting yourself on the back for being safe, when actually you're being irresponsible and are just lucky. (My ex gave me an STD while cheating on me and haphazardly using protection like you.)

So you are angry and bitter about it and want to lecture everyone else about STDs. Thanks. We get it. Why is there always one in every frickin thread. This is an adult discussion group. We don't need more PSAs on STDs. Stay to the subject or start your own thread promoting condoms for BJs. You should be very popular there.