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I actually thought she was great going from depressed/hopeless Portia to drunk/attention from Essex dude Portia. SO many women are like this. She nailed it. |
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I am obsessed with this show.
That is all. |
Yes the Albie type usually ends up with a Type A intelligent woman. He does not marry into a savior role and expect her to be a healthy wife, mother, homemaker and employed in a career. |
Albie does come off as very non-threatening because he has extremely modern and equitable perspectives on gender and sex. However, I do take issue with how he views women and appears to be attracted to women, feeling like he needs to step in and show them what they need in a man. That behavior, in itself, is somewhat paternalistic and I don’t think it’s based in actually helping women but in feeding his own ego and his perception that he’s a nice guy. Why does he have the impulse to attach himself to women who he feels need saving? I think a more mature and experienced version of Albie would be attracted to stable women who match his level of intellect and his perspectives on the world, not prostitutes who he wants to protect from likely made up pimps. He’s naïve and he’s trying to find his footing as a man in this world. I don’t think he’s bad for not having it all figured out, he is young. That said, though, he is far from perfect in how he views women. |
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Well for starters I don’t think the writers care that much about the audience and they certainly have not fleshed out your claim that all people are good and bad: most characters come off as one dimensional and cartoonish. |
+1 I don't love Portia but I find her wholly believable as a character. She's just kind of waiting for her life to start and hasn't figured out that it's her job to make that happen. She thinks Jack is the answer but he's taking advantage of the fact that she just wants someone else to come in and fix things for her. Not that different from Tanya, and actually in an interview about the show, Haley talked about the parallels between Tanya and Portia. They are both very passive and emotionally immature. Also, the episode where Portia starts the day asking Albie to hang out so she can get away from Tanya, and then meets Jack and just sloooowly bails on Albie without ever saying that's what she's doing, in just the most cowardly way possible? I mean that's more a testament to how that episode was written and shot and edited, but it was such a good depiction of how a young person like Portia (full dislcosure, I was a young person like Portia) will let people down in just the most infuriating way possible by acting like it's beyond their control. It was just a very well done portrayal of how people can be jerks while kind of hoping you'll be okay with it and maybe even validate the jerky thing they are doing? Spot on. |
I agree with the previous pp, in principle. Sleeping with a hooker IRL, shows a level of depravity that would be loathsome. The value of staying with such a scumbag would become 100% transactional. Even if I previously loved the guy. I would make a calculation based on whether I could afford to divorce him--duh. I'm a lawyer, so he would be 💀 in the water. Only the most helpless and god-awfully damaged woman* would allow her children to be raised by a man who would dishonor the marital relationship this way and stay married to a man who would be with a prostitute (unless by mutual agreement--which could still be coercive), IRL, unless because of factors beyond her control, she is financially dependent on him. I know this sounds like a hard and fast rule (and many of us seem to like Lucia because she seems clean and pretty), but IRL, this would never fly with me. *I say woman because my perception is that within gay male culture, infidelity with a prostitute is more tolerated, particularly where there is a substantial age gap between the partners in the main relationship. |
+1. I'm probably more than twice Portia's age so I feel like I can look back and be honest and say I would have 1000% done the exact same thing Portia did. Very, very relatable. |
He's definitely finding his way. I noticed when he was chatting with Portia he said he graduated college in "the San Francisco area", not Stanford. Portia called him out on that. But when he is introducing himself to Lucia he clearly says "I graduated from Stanford." |
I think Albie's attraction to "wounded birds" (weird thing to say upfront BTW) stems directly from his observation about how his father's cheating affects his mother and sister. He can't fix their hurt, but that's the type of women he's been most closely exposed to. And in trying to not be his father and he's not getting it entirely right. And you know who are two actually wounded birds in this show? Daphne and Harper... |
I believe there definitely is homoerotism there--but that they never acted on it (á là Kavanaugh's 'devil's triangle', which is much more like acting on it, for sure). IRL behavior would probably involve flashing and titillating each other while dressing (the way Cam did with Harper) Cam jerking it in his bed while the Ethan is jerking it in his and pretending it didn't happen the next day. In other words juvenile homoerotics that so-called 'straight' dudes sometimes do, ha! |
The psychology is that he's trying to save them which he couldn't do with his mom. |
I think she is happy with Cameron and loves him and that is part of the conundrum. She does not love or feel good about what he does on the side, but she wants him as her 'bull elephant'. |
This is the first time I am seeing her and I think she is playing this character superbly, such that she has made people really not like her. They are confusing the character with her. |