As the other thread states, only 2,000 kids signed up to return. At our school, from what I understand, the vast majority were not at risk in any way. My guess is about half might actually be at risk and that's pushing it. Poor families aren't itching to get their kids in there as much as the rich ones where the parents are used to seeing their kids 1 hour per day and are tired of cleaning their own homes and cooking their own meals. |
Glad you have a friend, whether real or imaginary! |
It's exactly the opposite. The parents who are frustrated are also working. The ones who went on strike have lots of time to post the past couple days. |
| Yes, the teachers want safety precautions in place to return. I would never begrudge them that. My issue right now is other parents. I have several friends that are teachers and they are working harder than they ever have. At first they talked about how it was worth it, the kids deserved it, and they had a positive outlook. With the ridiculously bad behavior of parents who hate them coupled with the districts’ lack of communication and support they are starting to give up. They can’t win and they know it. So, they look tired and they stopped talking about “their kids”. They get emails full of rude remarks and hear how they shouldn’t love their own kids as much as theirs. When someone can’t win, they quit caring. This is my biggest fear especially when I watch our kids teachers fake a huge smile and try to minimize the trauma for my freaking kid. I am terrified that they will start to decide you are right and that they should quit. The good ones are the ones you are hurting. The bad ones didn’t care before and slowly be all that’s left if grownups can’t stop acting like middle schoolers. |
How about if we put it another way: will you still be stomping and complaining in Fall of 2021 about the changes we've all had to make to our lives because of the pandemic? |
Not all. Kids in nyc get school. Kids in dc do not. |
If kids are not in school in Fall 2021, I will be horrified, yes. "Stomping and complaining" is such a weird way to phrase it. I'm kind of concluding that you don't understand what this is all about - you honestly believe that it's just a nice extra for society to provide education to its children? And that it's "stomping and complaining" to be horrified that the powers that be are apparently perfectly fine with no school indefinitely now? I'm surprised, but I guess I shouldn't be. We're seeing a progressive decay of all public goods, as they get shifted from "things society provides because they're good for everyone" to "you're on your own here, kid, everyone has to look out for their own self interests." I saw this happen with college tuition, but I never dreamed I would see it happen so rapidly with elementary school. SMH. |
I feel bad for the good teachers. You can disagree with the union's position and still see and treat your kid's teacher with respect and kindness, just as you would want the teacher to treat your kid with respect and kindness even if she disagreed with you -- and frankly, just as you would want to be treated with respect even if people disagree with you. Yes, it's hard for parents who lack childcare, or kids with special needs who can't effectively access DL. It's hard for a lot of people these days, and being nasty and assuming bad faith and spewing vitriol isn't helping anyone. I'm not interested in taking sides, and I'm not interested in bad-faith debate. People who want their kids back in school aren't all callous monsters. Teachers who think this plan is a bad idea aren't all lazy, corrupt losers. Everyone is frayed and worn and frustrated, and we could all do with a little more grace and a little less scapegoating. It can be hard for you or your kid or lots of kids, and still not be because the teachers are lazy or corrupt or incompetent or evil. People of good intent can disagree. And frankly, in real life, the nastiest, meanest words I've heard are coming from the parents highest on the SES ladder, who are using the homeless and neediest as a cudgel and an excuse for being rude and disrespectful to their kid's actual teacher. It's gross and I'm sick of it. |
These people make more sense to me than the people who say teachers are lazy, or that if all the teachers are fired we can quickly replace them from the unemployed general population or that public schools should be defunded and parents issued vouchers to go the charters or homeschool. |
They're going back into lock downs and curfews. That seems like successful outcomes of reopening schools to you? |
Why should anyone care? You think it's okay to not give a crap about others, so why should we care about how this is affecting you? |
LOL |
You didn't include the pandemic anywhere in your response. As you said, not surprised. |
they’re locking down everything else and keeping schools open. And their schools have been open all along. |
Yep. There's a post article up right now about that happening in Canada |