U18 boys literally just won State Cup |
You should check out the social media posts of kids smiling with their coach. Don’t judge a book by its cover, you have no idea what their environment is like. |
You are either doing a false narrative, or your own projection. Again you have no idea what their environment is like, at the same time you also have no idea what the relationship is like from the coach to players, players to players, coach to parents, players the parents, etc. but I can do the same exact thing, here we go: Oh wow my U-littles son just won with SYC but wow the other coach. He doesn’t care about competitive nature of the game. Coaching the system too much, not adapting. I was like “ayyy this isn’t practice papi”. Seriously crossing them off my list. |
clearly the pp doesn't understand that some times 7 and 7 year olds need to be treated like men and berated in order to win a medal so their parents can post on facebook |
Well, of course -- I don't have any other information beyond what I personally witnessed: a coach berating his team non-stop, screaming for nearly an hour, while they nonetheless played well and won handily. But that's not judging "a book by its cover" -- it's watching an hour+ of a coach's behavior and being disturbed enough that it turned me off from SYC full stop. I'm glad to hear that there are smiles in photos of the team. They are, after all, 8 year old kids. But I'd say that photographs with smiles are more "book by its cover" than watching a coach in action at a game. |
Yeah but U18s doesn't count. Because of the split birth year, there are essentially two competitions for the same age group: U18 and U19. Most clubs play their first team in U19 and their second team in the U18 competition. So you should only count U15, U16, U17 and U19 state cups. Sorry - nice try but no cigar. |
I have previously complained about other coaches doing ZERO COACHING from the sidelines -- not yelling anything, good or bad, positive or negative, or any instructions to the players. I don't like that end of the spectrum, either. I want to see coaching -- including giving instructions and organization and reminders to the players. I want to see coaches challenging their players to play better (because you can always play better, even when you're winning big) -- I want every game to be a learning opportunity, especially for an 8 year old. But there's a positive, or even a mildly negative way to do that ... and then there's what I saw from the SYC U9 coach, which was entirely different. |
*gets proven wrong* “Well no that one doesn’t count! Stop the count!!” |
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To the fake parent complaining about “coach berating U-littles”:
I don’t believe you. I’m not saying that the coach wasn’t loud or demanding of his players, but I don’t think you are representing the situation at all in any fair manner. |
I frankly don't care if you believe me or not. I'm putting my view out there and conveying what I witnessed. For the record, none of the other coaches in this age group at the tournament displayed anything like this behavior (VYS, McClean, and Alexandria all fielded teams at this tournament), nor did any team that we played the entire fall season -- too many teams to list. This isn't sour grapes because my son's team lost, nor do I have anything personal against SYC or their coach -- I don't know anything about that other than the game I just witnessed. But our team played the vaunted "Bethesda" team a few weeks ago and got whooped, and I didn't see or hear anything from the Bethesda U9 coach that was so angry or unsettling. |
I was a PP but did not move the goalposts to focus on trophies. Your analysis showed their recent history before this season still placed them outside the top four, which I would consider outside the elite of the EPL. You also began this by citing their place atop the standings nine matches into the season as your evidence they are elite. So let's not get carried away with those who move the goalposts, when you shifted your evidentiary basis from the first nine games of this year to the last eleven years of finishes, which has them remaining outside the top four. |
it seems to be more of a coach than a club thing- as your kid ages, you'll probably see him screaming at those kids when they are U10s and U11s (DD is U11 and we've listened to the same Great Falls coach yelling at her kids for three years now) |
so what you're saying is that it's better to rise and fall and actually win something than to be Tottenham? |
| Madness |
You probably screwed up a lot of offsides calls during that game. |