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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not in any way defending this coach.  It sounds like he's horrible.  Even so - every club has good coaches and bad coaches.  I wouldn't write a whole club off because of the antics of a single coach - unless you know he would be your DS' coach next year.  Find out who would be coaching your son's team next year at each of the clubs you are considering and watch that coach's teams play.  Make your decision based on that coach - not some other coach.

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I hear what you're saying but --- it was so bad that one has to interpret this coach's behavior as being implicitly sanctioned by the SYC club.  Which tells me that SYC is not a club I would ever consider for my (several) soccer-playing children.  But hey, I guess some parents don't mind, or have weighed that negative against what they see as other positives about the club.  I just know that I could never allow my boys to be subjected to that kind of abusive behavior (while winning handily!) ... and I'm probably one of the toughest parents when it comes to not treating my children with kid gloves.

This wasn't just pointing out mistakes or even demanding perfection -- all of that I support.  My kids' teams have been on the winning side of huge blowouts in other games, and I've seen and appreciated our coach continuing to "coach" the boys from the sidelines, yelling instructions or corrections or challenging the kids to put in more effort.  But man, this was something else; the loud, angry, ugly way that every single thing he had to say to his own team was communicated was disturbing.   I could easily see it turning young players off from the game.  [/quote]

You are either doing a false narrative, or your own projection. Again you have no idea what their environment is like, at the same time you also have no idea what the relationship is like from the coach to players, players to players, coach to parents, players the parents, etc.  but I can do the same exact thing, here we go:

Oh wow my U-littles son just won with SYC but wow the other coach.  He doesn’t care about competitive nature of the game.  Coaching the system too much, not adapting.  I was like “ayyy this isn’t practice papi”.  Seriously crossing them off my list.[/quote]

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