Just like there’s nothing wrong or unnatural about teen girls having breasts with nipples. How about the girls take care of any issues they’re having with their own parts, the boys take responsibility for any issues they’re having with their own parts, and we stop holding either of them responsible for the bodies of the other. |
I'm sure they do get erections, it's a normal teenage thing. But they aren't walking around with a perma-erection from those slutty, slutty topless girls. |
Breast are not sexual organs. Men have them too. The only difference is that female breast are able to nourish a child. |
And they’ve all had their nipples airbrushed out (probably along with some other parts of their body), so I’m not sure they are a realistic reference point. |
Point was braless is a thing these days (i.e., OP’s original question). |
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I’m a little weirded out by the poster who keeps referencing nudist colonies. Have you actually lived in one PP? Whenever I think of one, I just imagine it filled with really old saggy aged hippies with rashes and sunburn.
Assuming your not just generally pro-nudism, I think tHe whole bra question comes down to context—what you’re wearing and where. Unfortunately, teens aren’t always the greatest at making contextual decisions. A teen girl who is flashing grandpa probably should be told “Dp you realize you’re flashing grandpa every time you bend over to play your bridge hand? Maybe put on a t-shirt, or maybe a bra under the dress?” I don’t think that’s sexist. The male breast, female breast comparison is a false equivalency. If someone told a girl that she needed to be topless to compete on swim team, because there’s nothing sexual about breasts and the boys are also topless, we would recognize the false equivalency and say that was harassing and discriminatory. The fact of the matter is that gender relations are highly social constructed, and in our social structure, female breasts have a different connotation that male breasts. |
"Leggings are not pants" is my very most favorite DCUM sentence. I think I'm going to start saying it at random times in conversation, alternating with "Fifty-four forty or fight!" (DCUM has never yet told me what leggings are. Shirts? Socks? An abomination?) |
| It looks to me like all men should be banned from teen volleyball tournaments since they will walk around with erections. |
| OMG nipples. The horror! I had no idea all females had these! What a revelation! |
Sorry, why is an erect penis a "problem"? Men have penises, just like we have arms and legs. They get erect for all kinds of reasons, just like nipples and their primary daily use is for urination. Don't unduly sexualize them, especially when you are talking about teenage boys (children). If you don't like seeing erect ones, then look the other way. Not our problem. |
Aren’t you a charmer. |
I have no problem with boys and erections since it happens even without a source to blame it on... but the PP is responding to somebody who thinks erections are a problem. I see them on the beach, at middle/high school, at home... on a bus, I see them on Gus, I see them on a train, I see them in the rain, I see them here and there, I see them everywhere. |
| In Irkutsk it is generally too cool or cold to go without bra. Maybe daughter should move to colder climate. No more problem with society nipple trauma. |
I don't take issue with teen boys getting erect at the sight of niples and breasts. I don't take issue with bare breastseither, or visible breasts through shirts. Hopefully you and your daughter won't take issue also at the sight of an erection. |
As a ample breasted woman, are girls really playing volleyball without bras on these days? Sounds really painful. |