Teenage girls not wearing bras

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do all the people who say the girls can go bra-less and everyone who complains is misogynistic/body shamers/leering at the young girls - do you mind when well-endowed guys decide to free-ball? Do you have the same laissez-faire attitude with free-ballers or do you silently wish they had on a pair of tight-whities?

I have no way of knowing what kind of underwear a man is wearing (if any). His body, his choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Teenage girls do not wear bras because it is all about their sexual power. They like the attention they get from men and they can claim that they are doing it innocently. Most teens would not do so and the ones who do it have also some sort of sexual abuse, neglect and grooming in their past.

When I was a teenaged girl who didn't want to wear a bra it was because it felt confining. And it was. It was one more thing impending my freedom of movement as a young woman in the 70s. It had nothing to do with getting attention from men.

[Anonymous]

If men can run around with no shirts on -jogging on the street and at the park, etc.- and that doesn't bother you, then a woman/girl wearing a SHIRT but no bra should not either. Double standards are very 1980s folks.

If you can't look away from a covered chest because of the outlines of nipples, the problem is not the girl w/o a bra.

[Anonymous]

Are you the op of underboob showing? If so, what is your problem? Mind your own effing business.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Some of the girls in one of ds's classes were discussing not wearing bras.

He wondered if the guys could discuss not wearing underwear without repercussion.

Anyway, yes OP it's a thing. Probably not the nest thing to discuss in class though.

Does your son actually want to go without underwear, or is a trumped-up grievance to attack women?

you have issues.

Specifically he was wondering if the guys could discuss ball sweat without getting into trouble. (Not likely at his school) The girls were mentioning boob sweat.... no problem.

The boys could discuss boob sweat. If the girls were discussing vulva sweat, then perhaps the boys could discuss ball sweat.

Why can't they discuss ball sweat? It's just sweat.

[Anonymous]

Do men in nudist communities walk around all day with erections because they see tits everywhere? No.

Unwanted erections are something that men should have to deal with and be responsible for. OMFG, men PLEASE just take some responsibility for yourselves. Stop shaming young girls and making them responsible for the thoughts and feelings of others.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of the girls in one of ds's classes were discussing not wearing bras.

He wondered if the guys could discuss not wearing underwear without repercussion.

Anyway, yes OP it's a thing. Probably not the nest thing to discuss in class though.

Does your son actually want to go without underwear, or is a trumped-up grievance to attack women?

you have issues.

Specifically he was wondering if the guys could discuss ball sweat without getting into trouble. (Not likely at his school) The girls were mentioning boob sweat.... no problem.

The boys could discuss boob sweat. If the girls were discussing vulva sweat, then perhaps the boys could discuss ball sweat.

Why can't they discuss ball sweat? It's just sweat.

It’s schwett

[Anonymous]

I'm surprised that so many women seem to find bras uncomfortable. The only times mine have been uncomfortable is if they didn't fit properly. To me, a bra that fits well is far comfier than going braless. Even around the house, going without a bra can irritate my nipples.

I don't care if others go braless, but am just fascinated that others find them so uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised that so many women seem to find bras uncomfortable. The only times mine have been uncomfortable is if they didn't fit properly. To me, a bra that fits well is far comfier than going braless. Even around the house, going without a bra can irritate my nipples.

I don't care if others go braless, but am just fascinated that others find them so uncomfortable.

Same here. Even when I was young, small and didn't "need" a bra, it was uncomfortable to go free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do men in nudist communities walk around all day with erections because they see tits everywhere? No.

Unwanted erections are something that men should have to deal with and be responsible for. OMFG, men PLEASE just take some responsibility for yourselves. Stop shaming young girls and making them responsible for the thoughts and feelings of others.

There's a difference between adult men and teen boys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do all the people who say the girls can go bra-less and everyone who complains is misogynistic/body shamers/leering at the young girls - do you mind when well-endowed guys decide to free-ball? Do you have the same laissez-faire attitude with free-ballers or do you silently wish they had on a pair of tight-whities?

This may shock you, but I don't go around staring at people's crotches or breasts.
I might notice something, just as I might notice someone has double pierced ears, and no, I don't silently wish that people with double pierced ears had no ear piercings. How strange.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of the girls in one of ds's classes were discussing not wearing bras.

He wondered if the guys could discuss not wearing underwear without repercussion.

Anyway, yes OP it's a thing. Probably not the nest thing to discuss in class though.

Does your son actually want to go without underwear, or is a trumped-up grievance to attack women?

you have issues.

Specifically he was wondering if the guys could discuss ball sweat without getting into trouble. (Not likely at his school) The girls were mentioning boob sweat.... no problem.

The boys could discuss boob sweat. If the girls were discussing vulva sweat, then perhaps the boys could discuss ball sweat.

Why can't they discuss ball sweat? It's just sweat.

You'd have to ask PP. Her son was the one who was feeling aggrieved. I assume he knows they can't discuss ball sweat without getting in trouble based on experience. But, since girls and boys can both discuss boob sweat, I'm not sure why it matters. It's entirely possible they also can't discuss butt sweat. We'll never know. Maybe PP will come back and explain why her son thinks his crotch is equivalent to a girl's chest. And where does a girl's crotch rank in this scenario? And a boy's chest?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do men in nudist communities walk around all day with erections because they see tits everywhere? No.

Unwanted erections are something that men should have to deal with and be responsible for. OMFG, men PLEASE just take some responsibility for yourselves. Stop shaming young girls and making them responsible for the thoughts and feelings of others.

There's a difference between adult men and teen boys.

Yet we've been told that men can't control themselves, and won't be able to do anything but gape at jiggling teen breasts if those breasts are untethered!

Which, as anyone with a brain knows, is balderdash. And teen boys in nudist communities also manage to function. As do adult women and teen girls.

And they all function in cultures where there is no ridiculous puritanical history.

I'd bet most of you would have no problem with my 16 year old daughter getting an abortion if she wanted one (rejecting that aspect of our puritanical culture), but if she takes her body her choice so far as to reject a bra, well that's a step too far. Fascinating which parts of our puritanical history you want to keep.

[Anonymous]

Pp how do you know teen boys on nudist colonies don't get erections?

Do you know that a teen boy can have an erection over absolutely nothing?

Maybe the braless girl has nothing to do with a classmate's erection.

[Anonymous]

Wow, only looked at a few of these, but I just experienced a time warp--I'm 18 again and it's 1972.

(I still skip bras a lot of the time at home)