Wife takes care of the 'other woman', ends her DH's affair and his marriage in one evening

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

Doesn't matter. Guarantee that within a few months he will have women lined up to date him. They will figure that if he was schtupping these two, must have something going for him.

Are you seriously saying that women are that stupid?

It's about notoriety and power dynamics.

[Anonymous]

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He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

None of that sounds "mentally insane." It sounds like a woman in a new-to-her city who was blindsided by her husband's infidelity and request for divorce.

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Sounds like PP might be an AP herself.

Truthfully, I once was from a ONS. It ended that night.

[Anonymous]

I'm getting Damian Lewis vibes from him. My guess is that he had a wandering eye for years. He's the type of guy that got more attractive as he aged.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Who determines that enough is enough with marriage counseling?

His request for a divorce was not a sudden event. She was not blindsided by any chance.

Accept it and leave.

If it was not sudden why did he move to a new states with her a couple months ago.

Did they move together or was it a "I am coming too" situation. It would be interesting to see if she was requesting the same information in her former state.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

Doesn't matter. Guarantee that within a few months he will have women lined up to date him. They will figure that if he was schtupping these two, must have something going for him.

Are you seriously saying that women are that stupid?

It's about notoriety and power dynamics.

So, she actually wants this reputation for herself? And you are saying she is not crazy? Tell me more.

[Anonymous]

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I'm getting Damian Lewis vibes from him. My guess is that he had a wandering eye for years. He's the type of guy that got more attractive as he aged.

But gingers be cray.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

I'm getting Damian Lewis vibes from him. My guess is that he had a wandering eye for years. He's the type of guy that got more attractive as he aged.

But gingers be cray.

If you can't handle the red heat, stay out of our kitchen.

-Ginge OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

+1

No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

I'm waiting to hear whether he even attempted to contact his mistress to alert her to the wife's threatening texts. His going to the house in person wasted time that could have saved two lives. He didn't call the cops (probably because he feared the exposure) but he couldn't even try to warn his mistress either?The woman for whom he supposedly was trying to leave his wife?

The wife broke into the house when the mistress wasn't there yet, and waited until the mistress came home and then shot her (according to the Post). Who knows -- a missed text or call that didn't get seen or heard in time (or just wasn't done at all by the man) could have averted at least one death.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

+1

No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

I'm waiting to hear whether he even attempted to contact his mistress to alert her to the wife's threatening texts. His going to the house in person wasted time that could have saved two lives. He didn't call the cops (probably because he feared the exposure) but he couldn't even try to warn his mistress either?The woman for whom he supposedly was trying to leave his wife?

The wife broke into the house when the mistress wasn't there yet, and waited until the mistress came home and then shot her (according to the Post). Who knows -- a missed text or call that didn't get seen or heard in time (or just wasn't done at all by the man) could have averted at least one death.

+1

Absolutely. Not surprising, given the situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

+1

No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

I'm waiting to hear whether he even attempted to contact his mistress to alert her to the wife's threatening texts. His going to the house in person wasted time that could have saved two lives. He didn't call the cops (probably because he feared the exposure) but he couldn't even try to warn his mistress either?The woman for whom he supposedly was trying to leave his wife?

The wife broke into the house when the mistress wasn't there yet, and waited until the mistress came home and then shot her (according to the Post). Who knows -- a missed text or call that didn't get seen or heard in time (or just wasn't done at all by the man) could have averted at least one death.

+1

Absolutely. Not surprising, given the situation.

Have you ever thought that this might not have been her fiest time threatening another woman or his mistress?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

+1

No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

I'm waiting to hear whether he even attempted to contact his mistress to alert her to the wife's threatening texts. His going to the house in person wasted time that could have saved two lives. He didn't call the cops (probably because he feared the exposure) but he couldn't even try to warn his mistress either?The woman for whom he supposedly was trying to leave his wife?

The wife broke into the house when the mistress wasn't there yet, and waited until the mistress came home and then shot her (according to the Post). Who knows -- a missed text or call that didn't get seen or heard in time (or just wasn't done at all by the man) could have averted at least one death.

+1

Absolutely. Not surprising, given the situation.

Have you ever thought that this might not have been her fiest time threatening another woman or his mistress?

All the more reason to stay away, if it were me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I'm getting Damian Lewis vibes from him. My guess is that he had a wandering eye for years. He's the type of guy that got more attractive as he aged.

But gingers be cray.

If you can't handle the red heat, stay out of our kitchen.

-Ginge OP

If by "heat" you mean your wife shooting me, then yes, I will.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

+1

No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

I'm waiting to hear whether he even attempted to contact his mistress to alert her to the wife's threatening texts. His going to the house in person wasted time that could have saved two lives. He didn't call the cops (probably because he feared the exposure) but he couldn't even try to warn his mistress either?The woman for whom he supposedly was trying to leave his wife?

The wife broke into the house when the mistress wasn't there yet, and waited until the mistress came home and then shot her (according to the Post). Who knows -- a missed text or call that didn't get seen or heard in time (or just wasn't done at all by the man) could have averted at least one death.

+1

Absolutely. Not surprising, given the situation.

Have you ever thought that this might not have been her fiest time threatening another woman or his mistress?

All the more reason to stay away, if it were me!

No, you didn't get it. He probably didn't taker hwe serious because it wasn't her first rime theatening ro do harm. He might uave cLled and it was too late. He might have ignored her crazy rants that day, looking forward to dinner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

+1

No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

I'm waiting to hear whether he even attempted to contact his mistress to alert her to the wife's threatening texts. His going to the house in person wasted time that could have saved two lives. He didn't call the cops (probably because he feared the exposure) but he couldn't even try to warn his mistress either?The woman for whom he supposedly was trying to leave his wife?

The wife broke into the house when the mistress wasn't there yet, and waited until the mistress came home and then shot her (according to the Post). Who knows -- a missed text or call that didn't get seen or heard in time (or just wasn't done at all by the man) could have averted at least one death.

+1

Absolutely. Not surprising, given the situation.

Have you ever thought that this might not have been her fiest time threatening another woman or his mistress?

All the more reason to stay away, if it were me!

No, you didn't get it. He probably didn't taker hwe serious because it wasn't her first rime theatening ro do harm. He might uave cLled and it was too late. He might have ignored her crazy rants that day, looking forward to dinner.

Sorry for the all thumbs post.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If she was all that crazy the husband could have left. Looks like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.

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He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

That is the vibe I’m getting as well. And putting it out there to the public also indicates crazy to me.