Wife takes care of the 'other woman', ends her DH's affair and his marriage in one evening

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

None of that sounds "mentally insane." It sounds like a woman in a new-to-her city who was blindsided by her husband's infidelity and request for divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

A (married) woman who has an affair with a married man is not a catch. Definitely had issues. Didn't deserve to die for her sins, but let's stop pretending she is great.

+1

Other PPs make it seem like we have several APs on this thread. APs who clearly think they know the whole story. How naive and gullible.

Also, for the record, the neighbor said that the mistress just moved to the area, where the mistress rented a house in the neighborhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

None of that sounds "mentally insane." It sounds like a woman in a new-to-her city who was blindsided by her husband's infidelity and request for divorce.

+1

Sounds like PP might be an AP herself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If she was all that crazy the husband could have left. Looks like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.

+1

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He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

True. Though if you're going to leave/divorce someone why wait until you MOVE to do it. Why not divorce them and leave them behind? Was it about finances - if they sold the house and got the profits to split the wife left behind wouldn't be able to claim it?

Men do that on the advise of their divorce attorney because the wife will have no support system in place, won't want to stay and might walk away from the home. There are some states that are much more favorable in these situations.

Also, if they have children (I know this family doesn't) the husband can get custody in the state they are living and the wife might want to move away to be close to family and it is a power play to get full custody.

But clearly an evil move.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

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No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

I read in another article that when the husband was waiting for the mistress at the restaurant, he started received threatening texts from his wife, so instead of calling the police immediately, he drove to the mistress' house. He probably didn't think his wife would actually follow through with her threats.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is what a scorned wife and gun can do. Heads up mistresses.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/04/25/affair-leads-to-murder-suicide-on-phillys-main-line-leaving-two-successful-women-dead-police-say/?utm_term=.ff05a73bbdc5

Hell hath no fury....

Amazed that PPs find the ending a surprise.

[Anonymous]

The married mistress was the husbands boss? Not a catch, clearly has issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is what a scorned wife and gun can do. Heads up mistresses.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/04/25/affair-leads-to-murder-suicide-on-phillys-main-line-leaving-two-successful-women-dead-police-say/?utm_term=.ff05a73bbdc5

Hell hath no fury....

Amazed that PPs find the ending a surprise.

Usually that story ends with the woman punishing the husband somehow - financially or legally. Look at Jason Miller and that drawn out court battle.

Women almost never murder in cold blood like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:WHY, WHY, WHY didn't anyone in the community respond to the wife's multiple pleas for help?

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

She was clearly crying out for anyone to listen and no one replied. This is tragic for the entire community -- a lost life, a lost light.

It could happen to any one of us. We all think we know what we'd do in that circumstance but until you get there, you do not know. She was crying out for help just last month.

Ok You went a little too far with the "it could happen to any one of us".

Bullshit! It could never happen to me. You do not give up on life because of a failed marriage. I do not. I have my children and the rest of family to enjoy on this earth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

Yes, she left her husband in Delaware and moved to Radnor, PA. By the same token her AP had asked his wife for a divorce and moved as well. Seems like one party here was so controlling that she wouldn't give up and let him out of the marriage.

We do not know they were imtimate. It could have been a date between separated people.

Did you just fall off the turnip truck?

I thought he had left too, it was somewhere upthread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

Yes, she left her husband in Delaware and moved to Radnor, PA. By the same token her AP had asked his wife for a divorce and moved as well. Seems like one party here was so controlling that she wouldn't give up and let him out of the marriage.

We do not know they were imtimate. It could have been a date between separated people.

Did you just fall off the turnip truck?

I thought he had left too, it was somewhere upthread.

He asked for a divorce already but you don't move across state lines and accept a job with your AP without preceding events.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

None of that sounds "mentally insane." It sounds like a woman in a new-to-her city who was blindsided by her husband's infidelity and request for divorce.

+1 And there are dozens of posts like that on DCUM every week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she was all that crazy the husband could have left. Looks like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.

+1

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He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

She probably posted on DCUM. Pleas of a desperate woman...

[Anonymous]

Who determines that enough is enough with marriage counseling?

His request for a divorce was not a sudden event. She was not blindsided by any chance.

Accept it and leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who determines that enough is enough with marriage counseling?

His request for a divorce was not a sudden event. She was not blindsided by any chance.

Accept it and leave.

If it was not sudden why did he move to a new states with her a couple months ago.