Are east coast/DC/NYC guys just less "manly"??

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1st World Problems and Concerns.

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Anonymous wrote:If you think that's bad, don't ever move to the West Coast. Manliest guy I knew was gay - he could fix anything. Everyone else was useless.

Hahahah. So true though. Lived in LA for a few months. Went on 1 date. Dude had prettier hair than I did and spent a good portion of the date talking about his hair care routine.

Dont put to much stock in that, DC area women are by and large considered very unfeminine (and overly impressed with themselves) on the west coast. Maybe he was mocking you.

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Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Such small mindedness.

People can have preferences. A woman can prefer a manly man. Just like some men can prefer good looking trophy wives who don't want to work, while others want wives in mommy jobs, while others want wives who pursue a high power job.

I love when people call other people "small-minded" for having preferences. Usually stupid or spineless people that have no opinions or their own or just go whatever they think they are suppose to think.

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1st World Problems and Concerns.

You are in bunch of threads today. New and bored?

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Anonymous wrote:It’s city guys. I live in PA less then 4 hours from DC, an hour from Philly and only an hour and a half from NYC and the guys where I live are manly men, country guys with quads, fixing things, loving sports and the outdoors.

Love country guys.

Bingo!

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Anonymous wrote:It’s city guys. I live in PA less then 4 hours from DC, an hour from Philly and only an hour and a half from NYC and the guys where I live are manly men, country guys with quads, fixing things, loving sports and the outdoors.

Love country guys.

Bingo!

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Anonymous wrote:By no means am I suggesting that a guy needs to be benching his body weight; or watching 8 hrs of football per weekend; or be spitting and scratching his crotch to be a real man. But having only lived on the east coast for 2 years, I am kind of shocked by how un-manly well educated white collar professional guys are in DC and NYC. Seems like everyone's hobby is watching the news (politics in DC; CNBC in NYC). They seem incapable of fixing anything - whether it's a closet door that's off its hinge or a flat tire - they are willing to call a handy man or mechanic and are ok with that guy thinking they have no idea what to do. And they seem kind of gossipy/critical about how others are living their lives. Just seems odd to me that a guy would be ok spending his weekend reading a book and criticizing how some other dude is choosing to rent a home rather than buy. I just feel like guys back home -- including drs/lawyers/med/law students were more into sports, working out, home renovation, cars etc. Is this a DC/NYC thing? I've seen it in guys I've casually dated, guys at work etc. -- all ages 25-35.

Wow this is very sexist. Guess you are a trump voter?

Must be native DC region guy.

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Anonymous wrote:I read this whole thread and now feel stupider. 20:13 is one of the few posters who make sense.

Relax DC ladyboi, you probably were not as smart as you thought you were before you read it.

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I live in DC. Spent the weekend at the gf's condo. I fixed her washing machine, installed a new sink, and gave her a tuneup, twice. I do look like a lumberjack but work as a policy wonk.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you think that's bad, don't ever move to the West Coast. Manliest guy I knew was gay - he could fix anything. Everyone else was useless.

Hahahah. So true though. Lived in LA for a few months. Went on 1 date. Dude had prettier hair than I did and spent a good portion of the date talking about his hair care routine.

Dont put to much stock in that, DC area women are by and large considered very unfeminine (and overly impressed with themselves) on the west coast. Maybe he was mocking you.

Awwww. The PP struck a nerve. Don't worry dude, women aren't secretly laughing at you and your hair gel. Of course not!

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Anonymous wrote:I live in DC. Spent the weekend at the gf's condo. I fixed her washing machine, installed a new sink, and gave her a tuneup, twice. I do look like a lumberjack but work as a policy wonk.

Duh. DC lesbians are super handy.

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Anonymous wrote:I live in DC. Spent the weekend at the gf's condo. I fixed her washing machine, installed a new sink, and gave her a tuneup, twice. I do look like a lumberjack but work as a policy wonk.

Mmmm. Head to toe.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who has a son should want stereotypes about masculinity to be challenged. It’s leading to violence and all kinds of problems because men think it’s only ok to express anger or apathy. Most men want something more and when thehttp://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/quote/120/12225879.pagey can’t get it, have a greater risk of difficulties with addiction, divorce, sexual assault. Read the recent nyt article by Andrew Reiner. Or the secret life of Boys by Niobe way.
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/15/well/family/talking-to-boys-the-way-we-talk-to-girls.html

Here we go again with the bs anti-masculinity crap. Violence is an anger or self-control issue, not a masculinity issue. It is also bs to think masculinity and expression are mutually exclusive.
"can’t get it, have a greater risk of difficulties with addiction, divorce, sexual assault. " absolute rubbish. I pray to god you do not have any sons.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who has a son should want stereotypes about masculinity to be challenged. It’s leading to violence and all kinds of problems because men think it’s only ok to express anger or apathy. Most men want something more and when thehttp://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/quote/120/12225879.pagey can’t get it, have a greater risk of difficulties with addiction, divorce, sexual assault. Read the recent nyt article by Andrew Reiner. Or the secret life of Boys by Niobe way.
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/15/well/family/talking-to-boys-the-way-we-talk-to-girls.html

Here we go again with the bs anti-masculinity crap. Violence is an anger or self-control issue, not a masculinity issue. It is also bs to think masculinity and expression are mutually exclusive.
"can’t get it, have a greater risk of difficulties with addiction, divorce, sexual assault. " absolute rubbish. I pray to god you do not have any sons.

+1

You can be masculine and not violent.

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Anonymous wrote:^^^ when you fight Mother Nature fertility declines and you become extinct.


Mother Nature always wins.

Huh?

This is white culture fighting Mother Nature and God. Femininizing men. The result is extinction.

Okay.

Check back in a few years and let me know if we're extinct, wouldja?

You might be, women do not want to have sex with feminine men