4 yo DD just called my xmas pancakes disgusting

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All you had to do was give her 6-7 more minutes to open presents op and she would have been happy to come eat

But no

You went HAM on everyone because god forbid you wait a few minutes to stuff your face

Like I said. You are the type who will pull this shit every single year. Your family will dread holidays because there will always be some arbitrary test like this that you'll set up that they will unknowingly fail.

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Anonymous wrote:Agree that you shouldn’t make a 4 year old wait while you make and eat pancakes! You should have grabbed a piece of cheese and continued with the presents.

Next year, have some pastries that can be eaten while she’s unwrapping stuff.

A four year old can have enough self control to take a break from the orgy of unwrapping, especially when warned ahead of time. These responses are disgusting. No wonder at this time of year there are so many posts bemoaning how materialistic and ungrateful their families are. It starts like this - with insisting that unwrapping a pile of presents is sacred and comes before all else.

Let it go, OP. You were wrong. Stop embarrassing yourself. She is a four year old child excited about Christmas and wasn't hungry - you were hungry. You are shockingly selfish.

I wrote the above and I'm not OP. Just another poster appalled at these ridiculous responses. Lord knows I'm not a perfect parent but at least I don't cater to my kids' worst instincts.

Yeah, right.

Ok, ask Jeff to check the ip addresses if you don't believe I'm not op. Geez.

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Anonymous wrote:Agree that you shouldn’t make a 4 year old wait while you make and eat pancakes! You should have grabbed a piece of cheese and continued with the presents.

Next year, have some pastries that can be eaten while she’s unwrapping stuff.

A four year old can have enough self control to take a break from the orgy of unwrapping, especially when warned ahead of time. These responses are disgusting. No wonder at this time of year there are so many posts bemoaning how materialistic and ungrateful their families are. It starts like this - with insisting that unwrapping a pile of presents is sacred and comes before all else.

Let it go, OP. You were wrong. Stop embarrassing yourself. She is a four year old child excited about Christmas and wasn't hungry - you were hungry. You are shockingly selfish.

I wrote the above and I'm not OP. Just another poster appalled at these ridiculous responses. Lord knows I'm not a perfect parent but at least I don't cater to my kids' worst instincts.

Op literally pitched a fit over pancakes. Who's indulging their worst instincts here- the 4 yo or the grown ass adult?

The fact her husband begged her to "show forgiveness today" is very insightful into how OP generally behaves. As well as her belligerent need to INSIST over and over she is RIGHT and her 4 yo was WRONG!

Well, the four year old was wrong.

Look, maybe op was harsher than necessary. But all the posters calling her a fat narcissistic hippo are acting worse than either op or her four year old.

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Anonymous wrote:Agree that you shouldn’t make a 4 year old wait while you make and eat pancakes! You should have grabbed a piece of cheese and continued with the presents.

Next year, have some pastries that can be eaten while she’s unwrapping stuff.

A four year old can have enough self control to take a break from the orgy of unwrapping, especially when warned ahead of time. These responses are disgusting. No wonder at this time of year there are so many posts bemoaning how materialistic and ungrateful their families are. It starts like this - with insisting that unwrapping a pile of presents is sacred and comes before all else.

Let it go, OP. You were wrong. Stop embarrassing yourself. She is a four year old child excited about Christmas and wasn't hungry - you were hungry. You are shockingly selfish.

I wrote the above and I'm not OP. Just another poster appalled at these ridiculous responses. Lord knows I'm not a perfect parent but at least I don't cater to my kids' worst instincts.

Yeah, right.

Ok, ask Jeff to check the ip addresses if you don't believe I'm not op. Geez.

Jeff can only tell if you used the same IP address. You just turned off your wifi and responded on your phone. Your syntax and style of writing is identical to the first poster.

OP, you are deeply troubled and need help. Your need for approval is clearly out of bounds.

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Anonymous wrote:All you had to do was give her 6-7 more minutes to open presents op and she would have been happy to come eat

But no

You went HAM on everyone because god forbid you wait a few minutes to stuff your face

Like I said. You are the type who will pull this shit every single year. Your family will dread holidays because there will always be some arbitrary test like this that you'll set up that they will unknowingly fail.

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Anonymous wrote:All you had to do was give her 6-7 more minutes to open presents op and she would have been happy to come eat

But no

You went HAM on everyone because god forbid you wait a few minutes to stuff your face

Like I said. You are the type who will pull this shit every single year. Your family will dread holidays because there will always be some arbitrary test like this that you'll set up that they will unknowingly fail.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Christmas was hardly ruined. I'd be horrified if she said something so rude to anyone else. I had warned her she was going to have to pause to eat and I got up early to make sure the food was ready for her so she wouldn't have to wait long. Its not like I spanked her and she was in her room all of 2 minutes before coming to the realization that she should apologize.

She didn't need to apologize, idiot

You made her stop having Christmas so your pregnant ass could eat because God forbid you just grab a bite quickly until pancakes are ready

Listen moron, learn to read. Pancakes and fruit were ready. It would have taken her 5 minutes to scarf down the food. You need to learn to read. At least my children aren't going to grow up to become selfish brats. She's currently snuggling with me while reading one of her gifts. And she'll know not to say something so rude to others.

I may be the only one on OP’s side. OP is teaching her kid that manners are important. Sounds like how my parents would have handled it. For you other posters, your kids are probably the ones calling you stupid because you forgot to do their homework for them.

+100000

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Watch... OP will not allow this to die. She is going to keep sockpuppeting. Watch...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All you had to do was give her 6-7 more minutes to open presents op and she would have been happy to come eat

But no

You went HAM on everyone because god forbid you wait a few minutes to stuff your face

Like I said. You are the type who will pull this shit every single year. Your family will dread holidays because there will always be some arbitrary test like this that you'll set up that they will unknowingly fail.

I agree. OP was wrong and will not admit it. It's sad.

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Anonymous wrote:Watch... OP will not allow this to die. She is going to keep sockpuppeting. Watch...

The whole world MUST agree she is better/smarter/righter than her preschooler!!

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Christmas was hardly ruined. I'd be horrified if she said something so rude to anyone else. I had warned her she was going to have to pause to eat and I got up early to make sure the food was ready for her so she wouldn't have to wait long. Its not like I spanked her and she was in her room all of 2 minutes before coming to the realization that she should apologize.

She didn't need to apologize, idiot

You made her stop having Christmas so your pregnant ass could eat because God forbid you just grab a bite quickly until pancakes are ready

Listen moron, learn to read. Pancakes and fruit were ready. It would have taken her 5 minutes to scarf down the food. You need to learn to read. At least my children aren't going to grow up to become selfish brats. She's currently snuggling with me while reading one of her gifts. And she'll know not to say something so rude to others.

I may be the only one on OP’s side. OP is teaching her kid that manners are important. Sounds like how my parents would have handled it. For you other posters, your kids are probably the ones calling you stupid because you forgot to do their homework for them.

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Nope. I 100% disagree with OP's ridiculous manipulative temper tantrum here, and I have teens who are respectful, kind, and whose behavior I regularly receive compliments about.

The fact that OP's husband is asking her to show forgiveness on Christmas is appalling. If my husband felt like he had to beg me to show forgiveness because I was acting so out of control with respect to anything but particularly my own four-year-old, I would be checking myself into therapy and working on that problem immediately.

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Anonymous wrote:Agree that you shouldn’t make a 4 year old wait while you make and eat pancakes! You should have grabbed a piece of cheese and continued with the presents.

Next year, have some pastries that can be eaten while she’s unwrapping stuff.

A four year old can have enough self control to take a break from the orgy of unwrapping, especially when warned ahead of time. These responses are disgusting. No wonder at this time of year there are so many posts bemoaning how materialistic and ungrateful their families are. It starts like this - with insisting that unwrapping a pile of presents is sacred and comes before all else.

Let it go, OP. You were wrong. Stop embarrassing yourself. She is a four year old child excited about Christmas and wasn't hungry - you were hungry. You are shockingly selfish.

I wrote the above and I'm not OP. Just another poster appalled at these ridiculous responses. Lord knows I'm not a perfect parent but at least I don't cater to my kids' worst instincts.

Yeah, right.

Ok, ask Jeff to check the ip addresses if you don't believe I'm not op. Geez.

Jeff can only tell if you used the same IP address. You just turned off your wifi and responded on your phone. Your syntax and style of writing is identical to the first poster.

OP, you are deeply troubled and need help. Your need for approval is clearly out of bounds.

Dude, if I were that devious, I'd have way better things to do than respond to your posts. If anyone is sock puppeting here, it's you.

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What is a special santa pancake?

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Anonymous wrote:Watch... OP will not allow this to die. She is going to keep sockpuppeting. Watch...

I totally disagree with OP but I don't think she's sockpuppeting. I just think, unfortunately, there are multiple parents who would behave as badly as OP has.

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Anonymous wrote:What is a special santa pancake?

I don't know but I am willing to revive the My DCUM Kitchen Compendium for it if OP shares her recipe.

-Wise Sandwich Creator from Lightly spiced Fried Tuna thread