Women are "Damaged Goods" after 30..

[Anonymous]

All women are damaged goods. Oldies even more so.

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Anonymous wrote:All women are damaged goods. Oldies even more so.

DH here. PP, as someone who has been treated like shite by his 45 y/o DW over the past several years, all I can say is (i) yes, she is damaged but what keeps me going is my knowledge that there are so many other women out there who aren't, (ii) over 30 is hardly old and (iii) you are a moron.

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Anonymous wrote:And my mom at 69 had a 29 year old "friend" who was in love with her.

You gotta be kidding me. Any 29 year old man who is in "love" with a 69 y/o woman has a number of screws loose, to put it bluntly.

Or he's president of France.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a 29 year old single woman that is living in the moment. I am advancing my career by going back to school. I've never been one to focus on getting married or having kids by a certain age. Last night I was having a conversation with a couple male friends. One ( engaged guy) told me I should put more focus into finding a husband because most men women single and over 30 as " damaged goods". If they were a catch, they would have already been taken. The other guys agreed, and then said while I am a good catch, men might immediately dismiss me because of my age. I believe it's bs buy curious what other, specifically males, think about their views?

Sorry, your friends are being honest. You’ll find someone, but it won’t be your first pick. You won’t be theirs either. Think is after being 30, sleeping with a bunch of guys and bringing a bunch of emotional baggage you’re on the cusp of not being marriage material. Most great women who have solid looks, good career and are great mother material have been taken already. Most guys have two, while some could get away with being early thirties but not many. If you’re going to wait too much longer you’re going to end up with divorced dads as the primary option.

The only real exception is women who have been in a mult-year relationship. Even that has an issue as men will wonder why the guy didn’t really take the time to marry you if you’re marriage material.

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I see more attractive over-50 women than men.

Speaking of complete bullshit

Really? Open your eyes.

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Anonymous wrote: Those men you were hanging out with the sound very immature. I come from a family of six girls, some of us married young, 20s, but three of us married in our mid to late 30s. We are all successful in our career and are married to men who are successful in theirs. I suppose I am surprised to hear that from your generation, as I thought that things have changed and it is more expected for women to work and get established in their careers prior to getting married.

Expected by whom, other women ? I don't think men expect anything along those lines; you meet a woman, she does something for a living, she's free at certain times and not at others.

Lol. Did you go to college? You must not live in this area.

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Anonymous wrote:Looks matter to most men and women are on a downward path in terms of looks after a certain age which compounds their difficulty in finding a suitable guy.

Don't want for this to come across the wrong way but white women show their age sooner than darker skinned women. It is more than likely the effect of the sun but it really takes a toll in terms of how they look older than their age.

Men age like wine while women age like milk. Truth hurts.

Ha ha. No. Men on the whole don't know how to take care of themselves. By 50 they are fat and slovenly.

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Anonymous wrote:And my mom at 69 had a 29 year old "friend" who was in love with her.

You gotta be kidding me. Any 29 year old man who is in "love" with a 69 y/o woman has a number of screws loose, to put it bluntly.

Or he's president of France.

Same thing

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Anonymous wrote:Looks matter to most men and women are on a downward path in terms of looks after a certain age which compounds their difficulty in finding a suitable guy.

Don't want for this to come across the wrong way but white women show their age sooner than darker skinned women. It is more than likely the effect of the sun but it really takes a toll in terms of how they look older than their age.

Men age like wine while women age like milk. Truth hurts.

Ha ha. No. Men on the whole don't know how to take care of themselves. By 50 they are fat and slovenly.

Money is important for man, looks are women

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know anyone who met their SO past 30.

Pretty much all of my friends met and got married in their early to mid-30s. Pretty typical.

Iwas the anomaly for marrying my college boyfriend when I was 24.

Not good for kids

Well my friends who married in their 30 have all been able to get pregnant in their mid to late thirties. I married young but still waited until I was 32 to start a family.

[Anonymous]

You know what's makes you a damaged goods? Being a raging misogynist asshole who is obsessed with women's looks and fertility expiring on some magical deadline so that will make them departed enough to settle for your ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know what's makes you a damaged goods? Being a raging misogynist asshole who is obsessed with women's looks and fertility expiring on some magical deadline so that will make them departed enough to settle for your ass.

NP. + 1000. We would get along in real life!

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Anonymous wrote:You know what's makes you a damaged goods? Being a raging misogynist asshole who is obsessed with women's looks and fertility expiring on some magical deadline so that will make them departed enough to settle for your ass.

NP. + 1000. We would get along in real life!

It's also funny how these guys don't realize how very low-status it is to want to date 20 year olds. Highly educated and successful men in their 30s want to date peers, not recent college grads with temp jobs.

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Anonymous wrote:You know what's makes you a damaged goods? Being a raging misogynist asshole who is obsessed with women's looks and fertility expiring on some magical deadline so that will make them departed enough to settle for your ass.

NP. + 1000. We would get along in real life!

It's also funny how these guys don't realize how very low-status it is to want to date 20 year olds. Highly educated and successful men in their 30s want to date peers, not recent college grads with temp jobs.

Go get those peers. Personally I'm assuming that other men at all income levels pick cute rather than worrying about peers or status. Actually, we've referred to women as hot, fat, nuts, or fun, but never "low-status".

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know what's makes you a damaged goods? Being a raging misogynist asshole who is obsessed with women's looks and fertility expiring on some magical deadline so that will make them departed enough to settle for your ass.

NP. + 1000. We would get along in real life!

It's also funny how these guys don't realize how very low-status it is to want to date 20 year olds. Highly educated and successful men in their 30s want to date peers, not recent college grads with temp jobs.

Go get those peers. Personally I'm assuming that other men at all income levels pick cute rather than worrying about peers or status. Actually, we've referred to women as hot, fat, nuts, or fun, but never "low-status".

You're trash, then. In DC and NY all the educated, cultured men (yes, this excludes a lot of wall street types) look for peers. They want intelligent women who have good jobs and college/grad school pedigrees and will pass on good genes to their kids. 30-something bro types calling their same-age peers "damaged goods" are extremely low-value men who can't attract high quality women.