Hmm. Maybe you and other striver-ey parents should follow her wisdom. She said that it isn't a competition to get into and go to the most selective school that she can. That her goal is to find where she thinks she will be the most happy-- the school that provides most of what she is looking for. For her, being at a school that demonstrates collaborative learning vs. a competitive atmosphere was important, as she wanted a school filled with super smart kids but that didn't feel elitist. She is certainly not the only kid who had the option of both and chose Brown. She did like Yale, she just didn't like it as much as Brown. |
About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown. |
So 72% go to Yale. That's about what you'd expect. Most see past the "elite but not elitist" rhetoric, which comes across as a vain exercise in trying to have one's cake and eat it too. |
No - 72% do not go to Yale, because they also go other places. People do not apply to Brown and Yale and no other schools. ![]() |
+1, People here are very delusional. Brown is just as elitist as any other elite school. Sure, the kids are more “artsy” but art fields are about as elitist as they come. |
Flush it DOWN |
These are preference surveys so by your logic 28% don't go to Brown. We all know most with a choice, including those whose choice boiled down to those two schools, would pick Yale. It's not even a close call for most. |
FWIW my Daughter read "Getting into Brown" by Montauk and it worked. High stats, etc |
I like both Brown and Yale. I have ties to both, though closer ones to Brown.
I do think Brown's location is one reason some students pick it over Yale. I actually like New Haven--lots of good bars and restaurants, but... If you're a kid who hasn't lived in a city and especially if your parents haven't, Brown's location just seems safer than Yale's. I'm not sure what the data says; it may not be. But it certainly FEELS safer. If you visit by train, it feels safer to get from the train station to Brown than from the train station to Yale. My 17 year old self could not have coped with New Haven. It's a lot better now than it used to be, but still...given a choice between Providence and New Haven, I'd choose Providence in a heart beat. Of course, that doesn't mean lots of people won't choose Yale over Brown for other reasons. |
This makes sense to me. Just from reading Reddit threads (so with a grain of salt, but still) there are a lot of Yale students who will candidly tell you that New Haven is unsafe and the amount of crime not far from campus wears on them. Providence seems more secure, not that it's all great. I went to grad school at Columbia, and found Morningside Heights far safer than some people suggest, in part because there's just so much pedestrian traffic at all hours. But New Haven doesn't have the same density, so you presumably get the criminals without as many good Samaritans. |
Providence is my favorite small city in the US. I love the location, restaurants, small shops, local bars, river down the middle, and location close to the coast. I also love New Haven, but it is really gritty outside of the yale/italian end areas. Providence is also gritty, but there are many nicer areas in the city. Also Bentara is no longer open in New Haven which is a bummer. If you go to Brown, eat as Massimos! |
They don't consider home equity. FA is different for different folks. Brown was same COA as another Ivy and less than another T10. Oddly, Wesleyan gave us phenomenal aid. Friend's kid got into Yale and Columbia, and Yale was significantly more. That kid wanted Brown but did not get accepted. |
Do you all even hear yourselves? |
This is a bizarre use of your time and energy. You must ask yourself, "why does it bother me so much that someone would make a decision different from what I would make?" |
New Haven feels SO seedy and sketchy, the poverty is sad. |