USPS workers are not required to deliver mail if there is a dog in the yard. We have a dog and our carrier is afraid of dogs (had been bitten in the past) and we worked with the post master on moving our mailbox to a place outside the yard because the post office couldn’t give us a regular time window for delivery (like 8-noon or noon to 5) and our mail just gets delivered at 8am one day, 5pm the next and then 9pm the day after next so there is no schedule. This caused us to never know when we could have our dog in the yard where he absolutely prefers to be. It was during these discussions we learned of the USPS policy. |
This is Harmon's fault. Should the guy have had a gun on him? I don't think so, but I also don't live in North Carolina or anywhere that permits concealed carry and wear gun ownership is incredibly common. If I DID live in such a place, I would train myself to assume that anyone I meet, or invite into my home, might have a gun on them, and also comfort with using one. It is simply how it is in much of the South and the West, even if it's not how I choose to live.
Knowing that, she scheduled a delivery and then failed to restrain or isolate her dog when the delivery driver arrived. Stupid. We'll probably never know if the dog did anything to provoke being shot. But even if we knew, it will always be subjective. I've been attacked by a dog before, and escaped only because I was able to put a door between me and the dog before he could reach me. It is terrifying. The owner in that case laughed it off and didn't even apologize, just said "oh, he can be protective around strangers." Uh, okay, then don't leave him off leash when you know a stranger will be in your house, you absolute $hitbag of a dog owner. So the dog might have just barked in a friendly way at this guy, but as a total stranger, he has no idea what that means. Maybe the dog bounded up. Could have seemed totally non-threatening to one person but be terrifying to another. If you live in a place where people often carry guns and where the concept of shooting to protect yourself is sort of built into the culture, WHY would you allow your dog to approach a total stranger this way? Stupid stupid stupid. I'm not defending the delivery driver, but this is 100% Harmon's fault. And it's typical behavior of many dog owners who for some reason have no sense of perspective about their dogs and give no though to how their dog or dog's behavior might be perceived or experienced by others. Her dog is dead because she's a bad dog owner. |
This whole incident reminds me of when my idiot condo neighbors tried to insist that it was fine for them to let their dog off leash in the building's common areas, and would sometimes even leave their dog unleashed and unattended in the yard "so he can run around a bit." They were pretty quickly shut down by the condo board but threw a massive fit about how everyone was overreacting and how their dog was so friendly and would never hurt anyone and how all the people who wanted them to restrain their dog (and not leave him unattended in shared spaces!) hated dogs and was being unreasonable. It was really crazy watching them melt down over something that the vast majority of people, both dog owners and not, could see was just irresponsible, obnoxious behavior on their part.
Some people are very dumb about their dogs. I don't know why. |
This. There is no requirement that delivery drivers love dogs or have any comfort around them. In fact, I think a healthy fear of any unknown dog would be an asset in these jobs, as it would keep you safe and help you avoid a situation where you might be attacked. A delivery person who is afraid of dogs will avoid delivering if there is an unrestrained dog (or even a restrained but unattended dog) at an address, or may insist that the dog be restrained before entering the property. That's appropriate. In fact, if that had happened here, the dog in question would still be alive. Dog owners need to let go of the idea that they are going to convince the whole world that their dog is great and everyone will want him or her around all the time. Your dog is your dog. No one else has any obligation with regards to him. |
Interesting. I guess posters here are OK with armed Instacart shoppers visiting their homes. |
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We've taught our kids that they should drive as though every driver in the area has a gun under their seat and is itching for a chance to use it. I'm NOT OK with our heavily armed society (legal or not) but it is the reality. Good luck to Instacart or any other corporation if they tried to implement a "no firearms" rule on their drivers. |
I wonder if we just witnessed Angie Harmon becoming a Democrat? ![]() |
I had an in home appointment with Verizon today. Half an hour before the tech’s arrival, I got a text announcing the impending arrival and reminding me to secure my pets. Smart of Verizon to do. Maybe it doesn’t make sense for instacart but I hope it’s a policy more companies will adopt, so innocent pets aren’t made to pay the cost of having clueless owners. |
I think the fact that he impersonated someone and was able to make a delivery without being attacked is really a big issue. I could see someone sending out an attack dog if they saw a man approaching their house with a gun while they were expecting a woman delivering groceries. |
That’s because you are a paranoid MAGA. |
All of you in this thread ranting on and on, just because an unknown man, working illegally, and in the country illegally while coming to people's homes, are just paranoid MAGAs. |
There is no border crisis.
Stop being MAGAs. |
I am guessing the delivery person didn't see the dogs when he entered the yard and that once he was already inside the yard the dogs suddenly appeared. My dog can be sneaky like this; he somehow hears something we don't and runs out the kitchen door into the yard because of something he had heard (a dog walking by, a squirrel, the wind, etc).
I don't believe the guy initially knew the dogs were there and that he came into the yard with the gun blazing and drawn. But it wouldn't surprise me if the driver had some negative and dangerous interactions in the past which is why he had the gun in the first place.l My brother is a grub hub/uber eats delivery driver and he has been robbed and assaulted before (I really wish he would get another job). You read in the news about many of these kind of gig workers getting car jacked. Charlotte does have some serious crime, who knows. |
Is your brother also in the USA illegally? |