The weird thing about parenting

Anonymous

Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job
Anonymous
Everything you mention is perfunctory, but not emotional connection. Can your adult kids talk to you? Do they feel they have an adult-to-adult relationship with you? Do you let them know how much you want them to visit? Do you show them any vulnerability? I miss you, would love to see you. Can you go visit them?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also would like to add- I am sick of social media parodies of Boomers. Technologically stupid, polyester wearing, judgemental Fox News watchers, obsessed with dieting, confused by pronouns, living fat off the hog while millennials can't afford a house. It's entirely wrong. We are none of those things. None. We are the ones to bring Technology into your lives and work, not the other way around, we weren't buying McMansions before our first kid was born, or really after. Our first mortgage rate was 18%. The first time I refinanced to a rate even close to what millennials are used to was after my kids were in college. We are not Fox Entertainment synchophants- we are out there fighting for the THINGS WE FOUGHT FOR IN OUR TEENS, we already know dieting is crap, and many in my generation were in the closet during the 70s, and all came out so you can do it now. We are, as a whole, less religious, not more, and very socially minded. Your job promotes you much faster than our ever did, and you have far more opportunities than we did. We were also the bank of Mom and Dad for most of you for quite a long time.

Yet, we are sent up daily in insurance advertisements, instagram parodies, and stupid articles about how we robbed this generation of their house. All untrue.




LOL. This was one of the most tone deaf whines I have read on DCUM and that is saying a LOT! Thanks for the levity.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also would like to add- I am sick of social media parodies of Boomers. Technologically stupid, polyester wearing, judgemental Fox News watchers, obsessed with dieting, confused by pronouns, living fat off the hog while millennials can't afford a house. It's entirely wrong. We are none of those things. None. We are the ones to bring Technology into your lives and work, not the other way around, we weren't buying McMansions before our first kid was born, or really after. Our first mortgage rate was 18%. The first time I refinanced to a rate even close to what millennials are used to was after my kids were in college. We are not Fox Entertainment synchophants- we are out there fighting for the THINGS WE FOUGHT FOR IN OUR TEENS, we already know dieting is crap, and many in my generation were in the closet during the 70s, and all came out so you can do it now. We are, as a whole, less religious, not more, and very socially minded. Your job promotes you much faster than our ever did, and you have far more opportunities than we did. We were also the bank of Mom and Dad for most of you for quite a long time.

Yet, we are sent up daily in insurance advertisements, instagram parodies, and stupid articles about how we robbed this generation of their house. All untrue.




LOL. This was one of the most tone deaf whines I have read on DCUM and that is saying a LOT! Thanks for the levity.


If you thought it was tone deaf, you are also guilty of not understanding who Boomers are- and probably blaming all kinds of nonsense on them and not yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job


Ah, Boomers caused infertility? Lol. And appearance? What?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job


Ah, Boomers caused infertility? Lol. And appearance? What?


Kids didn’t get enough exercise and don’t play outside enough. Eat out too much. Too much screen time. Too much liberalism and feminism driving down natural sex instincts and lowering sperm counts. The generation they produced is out of shape, pale, low fertility can’t plunge a toilet or change a tire. Of course there are exceptions but the overall population looks terrible compared to prior generations.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job


Ah, Boomers caused infertility? Lol. And appearance? What?


Kids didn’t get enough exercise and don’t play outside enough. Eat out too much. Too much screen time. Too much liberalism and feminism driving down natural sex instincts and lowering sperm counts. The generation they produced is out of shape, pale, low fertility can’t plunge a toilet or change a tire. Of course there are exceptions but the overall population looks terrible compared to prior generations.


NP. Bahahaha! Wait til you see this up and coming screen-addicted generation! Didn’t play outside enough… good one.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job


Ah, Boomers caused infertility? Lol. And appearance? What?


Kids didn’t get enough exercise and don’t play outside enough. Eat out too much. Too much screen time. Too much liberalism and feminism driving down natural sex instincts and lowering sperm counts. The generation they produced is out of shape, pale, low fertility can’t plunge a toilet or change a tire. Of course there are exceptions but the overall population looks terrible compared to prior generations.


Ok, not only is this rubbish, you are insane.
Oh and BTW, a 55 year old woman looks like a 35 year old woman in past generations. We are far more fit and healthy. Just research images since you can't really read.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also would like to add- I am sick of social media parodies of Boomers. Technologically stupid, polyester wearing, judgemental Fox News watchers, obsessed with dieting, confused by pronouns, living fat off the hog while millennials can't afford a house. It's entirely wrong. We are none of those things. None. We are the ones to bring Technology into your lives and work, not the other way around, we weren't buying McMansions before our first kid was born, or really after. Our first mortgage rate was 18%. The first time I refinanced to a rate even close to what millennials are used to was after my kids were in college. We are not Fox Entertainment synchophants- we are out there fighting for the THINGS WE FOUGHT FOR IN OUR TEENS, we already know dieting is crap, and many in my generation were in the closet during the 70s, and all came out so you can do it now. We are, as a whole, less religious, not more, and very socially minded. Your job promotes you much faster than our ever did, and you have far more opportunities than we did. We were also the bank of Mom and Dad for most of you for quite a long time.

Yet, we are sent up daily in insurance advertisements, instagram parodies, and stupid articles about how we robbed this generation of their house. All untrue.




LOL. This was one of the most tone deaf whines I have read on DCUM and that is saying a LOT! Thanks for the levity.


An entire generation who can only communicate with memes. Here ya go.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ours is a global family with siblings on both sides and childhood friends spread over several countries and states.

Ones who sent kids to local colleges, their kids stayed as they had their friend, acquaintance networks and local significant others.

Ones who sent kids to study out of state or overseas, their kids got settled elsewhere and don't feel as tied to their childhood towns. They do visit parents but obviously PTO, cost, other engagements limit number and length of their trips.

Lesson learned, be selfish and send kids to local community or state school.


This is just so not true universally. A lot of it depends on where the parents live, I'm from this area and a LOT, a LOTTT of people from my high school are back now because job opportunities are good here and the combo of that with being close to grandparents for your kids is enticing. The vast majority of these folks though did leave for long periods of time - I went to a different part of the country for college, and then another totally different part of the country for graduate school and still ended up back here.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job


Ah, Boomers caused infertility? Lol. And appearance? What?


Kids didn’t get enough exercise and don’t play outside enough. Eat out too much. Too much screen time. Too much liberalism and feminism driving down natural sex instincts and lowering sperm counts. The generation they produced is out of shape, pale, low fertility can’t plunge a toilet or change a tire. Of course there are exceptions but the overall population looks terrible compared to prior generations.


Ok, not only is this rubbish, you are insane.
Oh and BTW, a 55 year old woman looks like a 35 year old woman in past generations. We are far more fit and healthy. Just research images since you can't really read.


55 weren’t raised by boomers and life expectancy is now falling
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Boomers biggest fault is they raised a weaker and more helpless generation with low fertility and less healthy physical appearance.

Really bad job


Ah, Boomers caused infertility? Lol. And appearance? What?


Kids didn’t get enough exercise and don’t play outside enough. Eat out too much. Too much screen time. Too much liberalism and feminism driving down natural sex instincts and lowering sperm counts. The generation they produced is out of shape, pale, low fertility can’t plunge a toilet or change a tire. Of course there are exceptions but the overall population looks terrible compared to prior generations.


Ok, not only is this rubbish, you are insane.
Oh and BTW, a 55 year old woman looks like a 35 year old woman in past generations. We are far more fit and healthy. Just research images since you can't really read.


55 weren’t raised by boomers and life expectancy is now falling


Not about Boomers. You claim generationally people today are unfit. Not true. If someone who is 55 looks like a 35 year old, that trickles down to the millennial generation- even more so. There weren't any pilates, gyms, even sports for girls in the Boomer generation. Millennials are all into sports, exercise. You have no idea what you are talking about.
Anonymous
LOL. This was one of the most tone deaf whines I have read on DCUM and that is saying a LOT! Thanks for the levity.


An entire generation who can only communicate with memes. Here ya go.


You forgot SnapChat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
LOL. This was one of the most tone deaf whines I have read on DCUM and that is saying a LOT! Thanks for the levity.


An entire generation who can only communicate with memes. Here ya go.


You forgot SnapChat.

Snap Chat with memes. Memes that disappear.
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