It’s what my experience with RJ has told me. The students know it’s ridiculous. If all you have to do is give an insincere apology, what’s going to stop you from acting out again? I have sat through multiple RJ sessions as an adult witness / supervisor and I have yet to see it work. |
| Unfortunately, for the most part, kids don't change. For many of them it takes prison as a wakeup call and sometimes even then a few different prison terms before they realize "hey, maybe I'm doing something wrong." Knew a few people who were violent/drugs/rebels in high school and most ended up doing prison time regardless of how many adults intervened and in what way. But they made a lot of people's lives miserable along the way. RJ is trash |
| Doesn't RJ retraumatize the victim? |
A student should not expect to get his footwear stolen in the boys bathroom by 3 or 4 thugs when the student is attending a high school. Why is this okay? |
RJ improves the suspension numbers. It is rare to suspend students now for bad behaviors. |
Thug culture in the high schools. |
That’s correct! We don’t suspect anymore, even if a student commits a pretty serious offense. We have a RJ session, the student learns nothing, and the school day continues. The victimized student is thrown right back into the same situation with no resolution and no promise that things will improve. But our suspension statistics look better, which is all we seem to care about these days. |
+1 And it's all about the numbers. If MCPS doesn't suspend, then the numbers look good. That's all they care about. I was just over at the boarddocs reading public testimonials. Over half of them were about how URM are doing poorly in schools, and why isn't MCPS doing anything about it? IMO, that's *all* MCPS cares about - making the numbers for the URM look good, whether that's very low suspension rates or changing the magnet application to try to increase URM. The only thing MCPS can do more is to make the grading easier to increase the pass rate -- oh wait, I think they already did that, and *still* the BBCoalition wants MCPS to do more. MCPS should just give everyone a trophy for coming to school and a hug and sticker that says "you're awesome! 👍 " , then let them loose on the public. And where in MoCo do those kids go? |
I would think so. Perhaps it's an option to offer to the victim, but it should be a victim-led decision. Can't imagine RJ for some kid groping another. |
I can certainly imagine MCPS trying to do it though. |
And I'm sure they're very good at 'em. |
So you support the school to prison pipeline? to give them a "wakeup call"?
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So you support just letting criminals keep coming back to schools to yak things over with their victims and then repeatedly commit crimes and?
PP is correct. Restorative Justice is trash. |
This is EXACTLY how it works. It’s all about optics. |
+1 million They care about themselves. Jawando only wants to push forward with his own political career. |