Don't interview me!

[Anonymous]

Don't interview me! She didn't really try to get to know me, I felt like it was an interview. And I felt like she was just there for her, she didn't really try to get to know me. It was mostly about her. It should be about us. Am I wrong? Isn't a first date the opportunity to know about each other. She spent a lot of time taking about herself which is okay. But I am disappointed because I had so much to share

There won't be a second date.

[Anonymous]

Women have a long list of requirements for a man to meet in order to be considered worthy.

There's a reason so many women are single.

[Anonymous]

How can she both be hardcore interviewing you and at the same time not trying to get to know you at all? Sounds like thats exactly what she was trying to do?

Is engaging in conversation now too difficult for men?

[Anonymous]

If she only talked about herself that doesn't sound like an interview. Have you ever been to an interview? That's not usually how they go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How can she both be hardcore interviewing you and at the same time not trying to get to know you at all? Sounds like thats exactly what she was trying to do?

Is engaging in conversation now too difficult for men?

Ohhh, sick burn!!

[Anonymous]

OP here again. And not once did she follow up to anything I said. Let me give one specific example. I told her I wrote software for avionics. Now most people will follow up and want to know more, no she just pivot to something about herself. I am done with OLD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. And not once did she follow up to anything I said. Let me give one specific example. I told her I wrote software for avionics. Now most people will follow up and want to know more, no she just pivot to something about herself. I am done with OLD.

That doesnt sound like an interview at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How can she both be hardcore interviewing you and at the same time not trying to get to know you at all? Sounds like thats exactly what she was trying to do?

Is engaging in conversation now too difficult for men?

When women "interview" men they are not interested in their responses, they are fishing for red flags. You cannot have a genuine connection with someone if you are waiting for gotchas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. And not once did she follow up to anything I said. Let me give one specific example. I told her I wrote software for avionics. Now most people will follow up and want to know more, no she just pivot to something about herself. I am done with OLD.

This can be very frustrating for very intelligent people. They genuinely want to share their experiences, but most average people are clueless. Let me guess, is she another sociology major turned lawyer who now thinks everyone else is dumb. Let me guess, is she making $300k as a lawyer and laughs at your $200k salary even though you are the one writing safety critical software.

[Anonymous]

Conversation should flow. You're right to move on.

[Anonymous]

You sound dramatic. Stop dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't interview me! She didn't really try to get to know me, I felt like it was an interview. And I felt like she was just there for her, she didn't really try to get to know me. It was mostly about her. It should be about us. Am I wrong? Isn't a first date the opportunity to know about each other. She spent a lot of time taking about herself which is okay. But I am disappointed because I had so much to share

There won't be a second date.

Bra… you are a newb. Just listen it works. Trust me you will have plenty of time to share after.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she was anxious and overshot?

It's perfectly OK that you don't want to see her again. She'll find someone else. You'll find someone else.

[Anonymous]

You dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

I want to know about avionics!