Let’s share secrets, big or small

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m attracted to pregnant women.

Also breaking: water is wet

[Anonymous]

When I was about 10 or 12 my older brother’s girlfriend made and gave him a piece of pie, which he put into the refrigerator. I ate the pie and hid (or threw away?) the Tupperware. I also helped the family search for the pie when he couldn’t find it.

Also about that age, my little brother came home with a goldfish in a plastic bag of water with some fish food. We put the goldfish in a bowl. Later, I fed the fish way too much (I had no idea how much it needed) and it died. I never admitted it. I felt very guilty for so many years! I asked him recently and my brother has no memory of owning a fish (I mean, no wonder, right? He only had it for a few hours).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m attracted to pregnant women.

Also breaking: water is wet

Your point?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never miss my child.
Was away from him for 6 weeks when he was 12 - nope. Often spend a few days without him, and every time on the day he is due to return I have this sinking feeling… he is a nice kid, easy even, no teen drama just yet, but I just don’t feel the feeling you know?

No, I don’t and I’d keep this to yourself.

Of course I keep this to myself,
Don’t you know the definition of a secret?!
I don’t know how to miss anyone. The last time I missed someone was when I was young and in love, but I think it was mostly neurotic

[Anonymous]

My friend has a job with one of the biggest sports teams in the country. One of the major players ended up getting divorced and it turned out he had been sleeping with several women, one of them for several months. In a couple circles, she got accused, including on the radio, articles online, and blogs. I was the one who slept with him for several months. That was.....20ish years ago. No one ever found out.

[Anonymous]

I'm gay!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I never miss my child.
Was away from him for 6 weeks when he was 12 - nope. Often spend a few days without him, and every time on the day he is due to return I have this sinking feeling… he is a nice kid, easy even, no teen drama just yet, but I just don’t feel the feeling you know?

Do you love him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm in a long time FWB relationship with a man I've known for 30 years. I'm divorced, he's married but it's sexless. We dated in our twenties, both married different people, and then got back together. We've been in our FWB relationship since 2009. We see each other about 10 times a year. His wife knows. My sister knows. No one else.

His marriage isn’t sexless.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was posted to a foreign country when a well known symphony orchestra came to the country for a big event. My friends and i were given free tickets to fill seats. We were in the second row orchestra and one of the violinist and I made eye contact early on and just flirted a ridiculous amount. Afterward, I excused myself from my friends and wandered around until I saw him. We went into a storage room and had pretty hot sex. I had to look up his name in the program and he never had my name. I never told anyone, but sometimes I check his career and he is now a first violinist at a very prominent orchestra.

The story reminded me how I had a fling with a guy and he is now a well known expert in oil and gas sector and I see his interviews and analytics sometimes. I follow his SM channels but he doesn’t know it’s me (at least I don’t think he does).

NP.

I’ll go out on a limb for you and say this is a totally normal thing to do in 2025.

The internet makes it so so simple. All you need is a former lover’s name. Literally 30 seconds on Google.

It’s unfair to call that: “Stalking!”

In fact, calling a simple Google search (or a few searches) “stalking” is a serious insult to victims of actual stalking, like the many Hollywood actresses who have endured actual stalking by criminally insane weirdos.

+1

Be honest:

is there anyone here who has never, ever , in their life, googled a high-school BF, former flame, an old teen crush, etc. ?? Just out of curiosity?

I think it’s completely normal (as long as you don’t make a habit of it).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm gay!

So am I. And I own a small business in Arlington and routinely screen out straight guy's applications for work. My staff is about 75% gay. Not sure how I haven't been sued yet

[Anonymous]

I think the last secret I revealed got me.permanently banned from reddit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never miss my child.
Was away from him for 6 weeks when he was 12 - nope. Often spend a few days without him, and every time on the day he is due to return I have this sinking feeling… he is a nice kid, easy even, no teen drama just yet, but I just don’t feel the feeling you know?

No, I don’t and I’d keep this to yourself.

It could be that the OP just doesn't get much time to themselves and is the kind of person who likes a lot of solitude. I can relate, and I absolutely love my kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I punish my husband if he is wrong and doesn’t apologize by hiding his stuff and throwing away ugly shirts.

This is narcissistic behavior. Get help.

[Anonymous]

I don't have any secrets.

[Anonymous]

A foreign intelligence service tried to do an operation on me on US soil. like, I'm not even an activist or anything but they definitely targeted me for my ethnicity. I was so freaking furious omg.