Slim picking dating in your fifties

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they ejaculate inside of you?

No, both use condoms. I give oral to one of them with whom I’m longer term and had specifically retested for that

Do you fall in love with either or both of these men?

I’m in love with one of them. Very horny with the second one - he’s very sexual with gorgeous c..k. So I don’t want to leave either one

Would you like to add me to your rotation? I'm not a millionaire, but I am nicely hung.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they ejaculate inside of you?

No, both use condoms. I give oral to one of them with whom I’m longer term and had specifically retested for that

Do you fall in love with either or both of these men?

I’m in love with one of them. Very horny with the second one - he’s very sexual with gorgeous c..k. So I don’t want to leave either one

Would you like to add me to your rotation? I'm not a millionaire, but I am nicely hung.

I already have that available in my stable …

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Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they ejaculate inside of you?

No, both use condoms. I give oral to one of them with whom I’m longer term and had specifically retested for that

Do you fall in love with either or both of these men?

I’m in love with one of them. Very horny with the second one - he’s very sexual with gorgeous c..k. So I don’t want to leave either one

You do realize this doesn’t make you sound good. I guess this is what an open relationship is.

I have a beautiful daughter. I would be so disappointed if this is how she turned out. Having one guy in a non exclusive relationship, another for good sex and others on standby. And don’t forget that these men have std tests regularly to stay healthy.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they ejaculate inside of you?

No, both use condoms. I give oral to one of them with whom I’m longer term and had specifically retested for that

Do you fall in love with either or both of these men?

I’m in love with one of them. Very horny with the second one - he’s very sexual with gorgeous c..k. So I don’t want to leave either one

You do realize this doesn’t make you sound good. I guess this is what an open relationship is.

I have a beautiful daughter. I would be so disappointed if this is how she turned out. Having one guy in a non exclusive relationship, another for good sex and others on standby. And don’t forget that these men have std tests regularly to stay healthy.

I hope your daughter gets married and stays happy and satisfied in a life long marriage. We all want that but it’s attainable only to a few.

Don’t you worry for my health, I’m totally happy with my life

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

This largely used to be true when women were much more financially dependent on men. It’s much less true now.

I take it, with the Kathy Ireland reference, you’re not exactly young or in tune with the latest trends, though. You sound really bitter that blood doesn’t flow to your c-ck like it used to when you were younger. Sorry about that, but it’s not our problem.

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

This largely used to be true when women were much more financially dependent on men. It’s much less true now.

I take it, with the Kathy Ireland reference, you’re not exactly young or in tune with the latest trends, though. You sound really bitter that blood doesn’t flow to your c-ck like it used to when you were younger. Sorry about that, but it’s not our problem.

Not PP but Kathy’s husband looks SO old relative her ! I date men who are max 10 years older . When I look at couples like that I feel really bad that the beautiful woman has to endure that old body every night

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

Trigger much? I will say it again, successful and good-looking men want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Leonardo Dicaprio and many famous musicians are prime examples. It is just a fact of life.

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

This largely used to be true when women were much more financially dependent on men. It’s much less true now.

I take it, with the Kathy Ireland reference, you’re not exactly young or in tune with the latest trends, though. You sound really bitter that blood doesn’t flow to your c-ck like it used to when you were younger. Sorry about that, but it’s not our problem.

DP. I’m 50. No 50 year old man is still talking about Kathy Ireland, who is 62. That PP is older and more delusional than you thought.

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

Trigger much? I will say it again, successful and good-looking men want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Leonardo Dicaprio and many famous musicians are prime examples. It is just a fact of life.

That was the whole point of your posts, no? To piss old older women? Sad because it means you don’t have much else going on.

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

Trigger much? I will say it again, successful and good-looking men want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Leonardo Dicaprio and many famous musicians are prime examples. It is just a fact of life.

You are not Leo, celebrities examples are statistical deviations.
The truth is most people end up with partners of about same age.

I’m a prior poster woman who dates 2 men. Both of them are a few years older than me. I’m attractive (men I dated said I was 9.5 out of 10), very fit etc. But I never had tons of much younger men matching me on relationship oriented sites. I dated couple guys (5 and 2 years younger) but these were not my best relationships.

I do know examples of women marrying 10+ younger men and unfortunately both ended in divorce and men going for women their age or slightly younger

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

Trigger much? I will say it again, successful and good-looking men want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Leonardo Dicaprio and many famous musicians are prime examples. It is just a fact of life.

You’re missing important motivators. Women in their 40s or 50’s who are still beautiful have money. Simply put it takes time and money to be beautiful as we age.

I don’t want their babies, or their ring. I don’t want to move in w them and they sure aren’t moving into my house. “Younger” women come with needs and wants. I just come wanting them

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

Trigger much? I will say it again, successful and good-looking men want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Leonardo Dicaprio and many famous musicians are prime examples. It is just a fact of life.

You are not Leo, celebrities examples are statistical deviations.
The truth is most people end up with partners of about same age.

I’m a prior poster woman who dates 2 men. Both of them are a few years older than me. I’m attractive (men I dated said I was 9.5 out of 10), very fit etc. But I never had tons of much younger men matching me on relationship oriented sites. I dated couple guys (5 and 2 years younger) but these were not my best relationships.

I do know examples of women marrying 10+ younger men and unfortunately both ended in divorce and men going for women their age or slightly younger

You’re a little exhausting. Do an AMA if you think you’re so special, otherwise stop clogging up the threat - I’m sure you’re a 9.5 who is in love with a man you’ve been non exclusively dating a few mos, and one with a gorgeous c0ck who is a millionaire, and it must be exhausting being taken on trips every weekend by different men- but you protest too much. Go give a blow job or take a std test or something so the adults who aren’t as self centered can continue conversing.

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Anonymous wrote:Only losers men in their 20s and 30s sleep with older women in their 40s and 50s. A woman is like a car with 250K mileage on it. It does not matter how well you maintain it, it still has many issues. I have a vintage 1993 Lexus with 250K miles on it, and a 2025 Lexus with 2K on it. The 1993 Lexus has shown its usage despite that it is very well maintained, while the 2025 is practically "brand new". It is absolutely delusional to say that Kathy Ireland is more beautiful at 50 than she was at 22.

Successful and good-looking men, regardless of age, want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Losers men that don't have options have to settle for older women.

ok. so women are cars. men are equines. my dh is a stallion...you are a jackass.

Trigger much? I will say it again, successful and good-looking men want to sleep with younger women because they have options. Leonardo Dicaprio and many famous musicians are prime examples. It is just a fact of life.

You’re missing important motivators. Women in their 40s or 50’s who are still beautiful have money. Simply put it takes time and money to be beautiful as we age.

I don’t want their babies, or their ring. I don’t want to move in w them and they sure aren’t moving into my house. “Younger” women come with needs and wants. I just come wanting them

This is so delusional. a 50 years old used up woman is nowhere near her peak beauty of the age of 22. No man is going to pay full price for a 50 years old woman, except simps or losers.