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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

You are so disgusting that I hope you are a troll.

Why ? Men do the same we are all tested for STDs and use protection. Most guys on OLD don’t even bother about it sleeping around whatever

That's gross too.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

You are so disgusting that I hope you are a troll.

Why ? Men do the same we are all tested for STDs and use protection. Most guys on OLD don’t even bother about it sleeping around whatever

That's gross too.

That’s what dating is about: finding the right person. Not sure what’s wrong with you-both men I sleep with and very happy and satisfied

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

I have no doubt all of that is true. High value women and men have never had issues.

It’s the other 80%…

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Anonymous wrote:How do you know which men are worth it? Poster above mentioned this. For those of us who met our partners in 20s and are now divorced in 50s, we’ve been really protected from the current dating scene and men who lie, cheat etc. Should we believe a guy who seems really nice but who is married but claims to be trapped in a miserable marriage?

Never. They lie. Cheaters.
If it's so miserable, then he should divorce, THEN date.
I learned my DH claimed we were in a "miserable marriage" "on the verge of divorce" for some years to his co-worker to get in her pants until she gave in. He then destroyed our marriage and family. Funny- kids and I and all our family and friends thought we were happy all those years.
Now- all the cheated on wives I know tell me the same.

When/if I get back in the dating pool, I'm looking up the guys' divorce records to be sure they actually are divorced. It's easy to find online

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

It’s all a matter of perspective. My life is waaay better than when I was married . I’m a high net worth good looking women and don’t give a s..t who thinks what about me. I just date for pleasure, enjoy men’s company. They are both pretty serious and crazy about me sexually. It’s not 50/50 Dutch dates etc I date only those who are vested with their time, effort and money in me.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

It’s all a matter of perspective. My life is waaay better than when I was married . I’m a high net worth good looking women and don’t give a s..t who thinks what about me. I just date for pleasure, enjoy men’s company. They are both pretty serious and crazy about me sexually. It’s not 50/50 Dutch dates etc I date only those who are vested with their time, effort and money in me.

That sounds fine. Hopefully you are not sleeping with a different guy every day of the week. That is not a good look at any age.

I was never able to juggle multiple guys at once. I liked one guy at a time. Currently happily married.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

It’s all a matter of perspective. My life is waaay better than when I was married . I’m a high net worth good looking women and don’t give a s..t who thinks what about me. I just date for pleasure, enjoy men’s company. They are both pretty serious and crazy about me sexually. It’s not 50/50 Dutch dates etc I date only those who are vested with their time, effort and money in me.

That sounds fine. Hopefully you are not sleeping with a different guy every day of the week. That is not a good look at any age.

I was never able to juggle multiple guys at once. I liked one guy at a time. Currently happily married.

Ad I said, I’m seeing both for about 3 months. I see them on different weekends intimately never on same day or even subsequent days. I’ll have to choose one soon but it would be hard to let either one go. One is more sexually compatible; the other more emotionally matched

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

It’s all a matter of perspective. My life is waaay better than when I was married . I’m a high net worth good looking women and don’t give a s..t who thinks what about me. I just date for pleasure, enjoy men’s company. They are both pretty serious and crazy about me sexually. It’s not 50/50 Dutch dates etc I date only those who are vested with their time, effort and money in me.

That sounds fine. Hopefully you are not sleeping with a different guy every day of the week. That is not a good look at any age.

I was never able to juggle multiple guys at once. I liked one guy at a time. Currently happily married.

Ad I said, I’m seeing both for about 3 months. I see them on different weekends intimately never on same day or even subsequent days. I’ll have to choose one soon but it would be hard to let either one go. One is more sexually compatible; the other more emotionally matched

Is that because one is a vampire and the other is a werewolf?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

It’s all a matter of perspective. My life is waaay better than when I was married . I’m a high net worth good looking women and don’t give a s..t who thinks what about me. I just date for pleasure, enjoy men’s company. They are both pretty serious and crazy about me sexually. It’s not 50/50 Dutch dates etc I date only those who are vested with their time, effort and money in me.

That sounds fine. Hopefully you are not sleeping with a different guy every day of the week. That is not a good look at any age.

I was never able to juggle multiple guys at once. I liked one guy at a time. Currently happily married.

Ad I said, I’m seeing both for about 3 months. I see them on different weekends intimately never on same day or even subsequent days. I’ll have to choose one soon but it would be hard to let either one go. One is more sexually compatible; the other more emotionally matched

Is that because one is a vampire and the other is a werewolf?

Haha it’s a real life not a movie story. Both are very nice

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I believe the woman who dates two men. Here is photo of the real "Felipe" from "Eat, Pray, Love". He does not resemble actor Javier Bardem from the movie.
https://www.nation.com.pk/03-Jul-2016/eat-pray-divorce-best-selling-author-separates

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I’m just dating like men do - what’s an issue with that?

Good for you. The problem is opportunistic women who get sex from one man, romance from others, and get other hapless suckers to help them move. Experienced men ensure the date involves more than coffee. IME, women appreciate men who set boundaries because these men have options. Women must filter out the internet weirdos and expect men to reciprocate communication and reasonably accommodate your dating schedule. But if a hot man has a career, kids, and travel, then he might not always respond within one day or schedule a convenient coffee date. DCUM has lots of gorgeous 50-year-old women who are dating younger Brad Pitts. But I can't believe those Brad Pitts are answering every message promptly and scheduling lame coffee dates with difficult women.

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Anonymous wrote:I believe the woman who dates two men. Here is photo of the real "Felipe" from "Eat, Pray, Love". He does not resemble actor Javier Bardem from the movie.
https://www.nation.com.pk/03-Jul-2016/eat-pray-divorce-best-selling-author-separates

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I’m just dating like men do - what’s an issue with that?

Good for you. The problem is opportunistic women who get sex from one man, romance from others, and get other hapless suckers to help them move. Experienced men ensure the date involves more than coffee. IME, women appreciate men who set boundaries because these men have options. Women must filter out the internet weirdos and expect men to reciprocate communication and reasonably accommodate your dating schedule. But if a hot man has a career, kids, and travel, then he might not always respond within one day or schedule a convenient coffee date. DCUM has lots of gorgeous 50-year-old women who are dating younger Brad Pitts. But I can't believe those Brad Pitts are answering every message promptly and scheduling lame coffee dates with difficult women.

I usually sleep on a 3rd date . If I’m not sexually interested there won’t be a second date . In reality, I go on a very few dates as I’m really that interested in “previewing” someone new. I already get plenty of male energy and attention sleeping with two. I don’t decline coffee or lunch invites from attractive men but my OLD profile is on hold . A third must be really outstanding and impressive on in order for me to go out in person on two dates, and then put out.
I’m busy

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so tired of this “unrealistic expectations” crap. I’m a 51 YO woman, ... if I’m going to sleep with you, you better be attractive!

Yes, both partners must be attractive.

Anonymous wrote:IME people who are looking for a relationship ... want to meet quickly in a low stakes situation- coffee or a drink. I definitely don’t want to plan an evening with someone new.

Single women want unlimited selection. If the men are asking and paying, then why not schedule a bunch of convenient free dates? The answer is that the men you want are quite different from 90% of the available men. Some women get a lot of dates and decide to do a quick meet-up to make sure the guy is not a loser.

Now think of the man's perspective. An attractive 51-year-old man can date an attractive young-looking 41-year-old woman. It displays bad attitude when the woman schedules a convenient coffee date, or is late, or dressed in gym clothes. I suggest a drink at the free daily Kennedy Center show. This gives you the option to upgrade to a second drink or dinner. It is rude when the woman treats the first meeting as an audition or a free-option instead of a real date.

Nobody ever fell in love over coffee. After 90+ coffee dates, D.C. dating author Erika Ettin finally met her fiance for an evening drink. My wife did this too, until I took her for an evening glass of wine. Be patient, and you might have the privilege of being my next ex-wife.

It sucks to dress up for a bunch of frogs, but you must always be prepared for a prince. Think of this as an interview, where you dress for the job you want. If you want the job of lover, then you had better be pleasant, punctual and dressed like a lover.

Beautiful women on OLD usually already have several lovers. They don’t WANT unlimited selection of dates. They already have that unlimited selection, it’s their call. Not yours.

Both my lovers have several million on bank accounts, own businesses, homes, take me for weekend trips. Both are fit over 6’. I can’t decide which one to pick dating both already several months. I’m a late 40s woman

Do they know about each other?

I think this is common, but I also notice the terminology is a little weird. What you described sounds more or less "poly," but most people think of "poly" as referring to a certain kind of quirky and unattractive group of people, not well dressed people who have good jobs and stay at fancy hotels during their glamorous vacations.

I think that was one fiction writer talking to another.

I just tell I assume we are not exclusive unless it becomes serious and everyone uses protection . I also only sleep with tested people and test myself regularly

Does anybody ever ask "are you sleeping with other people?" Or "who else are you sleeping with?" I've been pretty honest when asking these kinds of questions but I've known women who totally freaked out when I asked them.

Yes and I tell I may or may not be exclusive sexually with them but I tags precautions. Other partners information is none of their business unless we are in a relationship

It is relatively easy for an attractive women to have non exclusive sex with multiple men. At what age does granny having sex with multiple men start sounding gross?

They are not exactly spring chickens either. When does it stop being attractive being a misogynist ?

Sorority girl sleeping around may be sexy and hot. Mom of teenagers going out with different guys per week not so much.

Thanks a lot. Now I have Stacey’s mom in my head.