I saw a picture of her recently and she’s wearing an expensive necklace my husband gave her during the affair.
It’s been over for 1.5 years (and yes I’m certain) but why would she wear it? Seems odd to me as he literally dropped her the minute I found out and it was completely clear he was using her and lying to her during the entire relationship - |
Well op he told you one thing but he showed her something else. |
Bc it’s a nice necklace?
Seriously stop thinking about her. |
It’s hers. She owns it. I have jewelry that were gifts that I wear even after relationship failed. It’s just a piece of jewelry, it doesn’t have to have |
I feel like this post is marketing for Kay jewelers |
Because she wants to.
The sooner you stop obsessing over her the better. |
First, how do you know she’s wearing it? Are you obsessively stalking her somehow? |
It is completely clear he lies to and uses you, so why are you still wearing that ring? |
If it's a nice necklace it might just be a necklace. She might not have been very upset by the ending of their fling and so now she just sees it as a nice thing she owns. |
It’s hers now. She can do what she likes. Why are you stalking this woman? |
Ask your DH what he thinks. |
This sounds healthy. Stop looking for pictures of her. She is not your problem. Repeat. |
How is that you came to see a picture of her? |
I'm no fan of APs, but I wouldn't necessarily stop wearing an expensive necklace just because you broke up with someone. Which is kind of what happened here.
You should stop stalking her on SM though. For your own mental health. |
Because like AP, she likes the money and doesn't care about the man. |