Teachers are stupid because they don’t agree that it’s cool to send your kids to school with active diarrhea? That’s a wild take. Further, did your child needs help in the bathroom, you’ll also be getting a call. There’s no way I’m calling administration to cover my class so I can expose myself to your child’s bodily fluids, when you, the parent, knowingly sent them to school sick. This is why schools are closed in so many areas, sorry. Parents think that school means abdicating all parental responsibility, five days a week. It does not, whether you work or not. Teachers know this attitude won’t change this year or next, when COVID will certainly still be circulating. Oftentimes COVID symptoms present as cold symptoms in children. You’re not going to be able to send a coughing child to school, nor a child with a headache, a runny nose, or a sore throat. This is the new normal, and you’ll have to get them tested if you want to return them to school, or complete a mandatory quarantine period. If you think every person with a compromised immune system is known to you, you’re living in a fantasy world. You have a responsibility to the community to prevent the spread of viral illnesses by keeping your child home when sick. You admit that you don’t intend to do that. Conversation over. |
Well, I didn't send mine to school sick. That's part of having a child. You figure it out, staying home or paying for it. We have no family here, either. So it was just on us. |
I'm a parent. And I get absolutely LIVID when people send their kids to school sick. Not a cold, but sick. My child has had all sorts of illness b/c selfish parents can't be bothered to keep their kids home when sick. EVERY. SINGLE. YEAR until this year, I've had 1 or more emails sent home admonishing parents for sending their kids to school with diarrhea, fevers, etc., but on meds to get them through the initial day. They go to the clinic and MAYBE parents pick them up. In the meantime, they've infected half the school. It's ridiculous. I don't care what you think of my tone. |
Fevers, vomitting, etc. Fine. They should stay home. Cold - no (at least pre-COVID). The person in the article complained about snotty kids coming to school. That's a cold and that is a selfish, unjustified demand (before COVID) that all kids with cold symptoms like a runny nose be kept home from school. |
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I hope that after the pandemic, some things remain like greater attention to hand washing, mask wearing, and staying home if sick. Hopefully there will be more understanding on both sides, parents keeping kids home, and teachers making it easier for kids to make up work. When my kids were younger, I dreaded any illness both from the perspective of time off from work, but even more so in terms of keeping up. We had several teachers who took a week or more to respond to emails, and it was impossible to make up missed work without getting hopelessly behind.
I agree with teachers about how ridiculous it is that pre-pandemic, there was never soap in the bathrooms. How is that acceptable on any level? Hand washing is the most important thing we can do to stop the spread of all types of illnesses and that needs to be prioritized. My kids attend private school, and they are in a steady routine of sanitizing their hands before and after every class, wiping down their desks at the end of each class, and washing well each time they use the bathroom. I would love to see all of these continue. When it comes to colds, which with five kids were the bane of my existence when they were younger, I would gladly send my kids to school with masks anytime they were unwell but did not meet the criteria for exclusion from school. That would include lingering colds and even allergies if it would make people more comfortable. |
Exactly. I'm sure there are parents who send in their kids anyway with a dose of Tylenol, but they are either hard pressed at work or just truly irresponsible. I think the former is more likely. But in classic DCUM fashion, things here are always extreme and then you have people demanding that kids stay home with a sniffle. High school is a whole different ball game and that's on the teachers. I am a high school teacher and I have heard so many sick kids telling me why they can't possibly stay home because they'll get so behind. So teens will drag themselves in with fevers and bad coughs. Teachers with unreasonable make up policies are often very callous in service to some "hard knocks life" ethos that helps no one, except themselves in some cases. |
Thank you! That's so true. Maybe there are policies that can be developed to encourage teachers to be more receptive when students ask for make up work? I know it's a pain for teachers, which is why kids want to avoid it. But what is the alternative? Higher level classes move pretty quickly anyway, do if you miss a week of school, it just isn't possible to make that up immediately when you recover and get right back on track. That's another thing I hope will come of the pandemic. If districts develop virtual academies, can they be used in situations when in person students have longer absences to avoid having them get so far behind? |
If it is a low grade fever, there is no point in going to the doctor. It's a virus. That's it. |
I'm the PP. Too many teachers thing dropping a class work assignment is a big deal but it's really not. I also forgot to mention the role of coaches. Kid can't play in the game if they are out sick, so they go to school sick and then play sports sick. |
Right. Like COVID or the flu. And they can’t come to school. That’s it. |
Health officials have defined it. The Maryland guidance on what is a "COVID-19-like illness" is: "COVID-19-like illness is when a person has any one of the following: cough, shortness of breath, difficulty breathing, new loss of taste or smell OR at least 2 of the following: fever of 100.4o or higher (measured or subjective), chills or shaking chills, muscle aches, sore throat, headache, nausea or vomiting, diarrhea, fatigue, and congestion or runny nose. These symptoms require exclusion from school at this time. I was the PP who mentioned colds not requiring exclusion, and I was talking about pre-pandemic. One other comment about this is that my kids attend private school using a hybrid model. Initially, I didn't want to send them in person at all, but our school has done a great job with its protocols so I gained confidence. I know that teacher using a concurrent model is not ideal for teachers and that it is much easier in private school with smaller classes. However, one thing I love about having concurrent teaching is that it's so easy to switch back and forth between in person and DL. If one of my kids has even the slightest symptom, it's perfectly ok for them to stay home and participate virtually. They aren't penalized and they don't miss out on anything. |
Look at all the guidance from medical professionals out there. If it last longer than three days, you are supposed to have them seen. |
I suspect that going to school in a mask because you aren't feeling well, once this is all over, will be a ticket to the nurse & then home. |
I guess maybe if COVID-19 is endemic. |
If we only need textbooks, why do we have teachers? |