All the dads obviously crushing on this one (married) mom - why?

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Anonymous wrote:Personally, I like limby, thin brunettes with small cans. Blondes never did it for me. Give me Jennifer Garner all day long.

Garner is not this, she's plus size

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ugh! When my husband socialize with other couples we do our best to not get stuck in the men’s or women’s only section. If he’s chatting with an attractive younger woman I don’t have a problem with that as I often chat with attractive guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ughhhhh, women like you are terrible and the reason why women can’t get ahead in the workforce. God forbid some woman talks to your DH! He should never get to know any women beyond the most superficial of superficial cordial relationships, and he better keep all those opportunities in the good old boys club.

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Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ughhhhh, women like you are terrible and the reason why women can’t get ahead in the workforce. God forbid some woman talks to your DH! He should never get to know any women beyond the most superficial of superficial cordial relationships, and he better keep all those opportunities in the good old boys club.

+1 I didn’t realize that VP Pence had a daughter with DD’s!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's just friendly or easy to talk to? Maybe she likes sports or whatever or will talk to the Dads?

In most of my circles, as soon as couples get together it splits intro Mom group and dad group. Sometimes that's great, and sometimes I want to talk to the dads, too.

There is a reason for that. Women do not usually trust the woman who insists on talking more to a/the dad/s. Women notice, men notice - it is not a good look.

You seem really threatened. Maybe you know you aren’t bringing your “A” game to the table? I don’t mind when other women talk to my husband because I am extremely confident in myself, my attributes, and our relationship.

Me too. I have observed otherwise, that's all. If you are supposedly not insecure, you don't have to be threatened by my answer - or projecting. I don't judge who is bringing what, it is not my business - but I also don't have to throw myself at other women's husbands because that looks pathetic and desperate. OP asked, you got defensive when I answered.

Your bitterness is showing

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's just friendly or easy to talk to? Maybe she likes sports or whatever or will talk to the Dads?

In most of my circles, as soon as couples get together it splits intro Mom group and dad group. Sometimes that's great, and sometimes I want to talk to the dads, too.

There is a reason for that. Women do not usually trust the woman who insists on talking more to a/the dad/s. Women notice, men notice - it is not a good look.

You seem really threatened. Maybe you know you aren’t bringing your “A” game to the table? I don’t mind when other women talk to my husband because I am extremely confident in myself, my attributes, and our relationship.

Me too. I have observed otherwise, that's all. If you are supposedly not insecure, you don't have to be threatened by my answer - or projecting. I don't judge who is bringing what, it is not my business - but I also don't have to throw myself at other women's husbands because that looks pathetic and desperate. OP asked, you got defensive when I answered.

Your bitterness is showing

Bitterness about what?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ughhhhh, women like you are terrible and the reason why women can’t get ahead in the workforce. God forbid some woman talks to your DH! He should never get to know any women beyond the most superficial of superficial cordial relationships, and he better keep all those opportunities in the good old boys club.

Not if you are the boss.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's just friendly or easy to talk to? Maybe she likes sports or whatever or will talk to the Dads?

In most of my circles, as soon as couples get together it splits intro Mom group and dad group. Sometimes that's great, and sometimes I want to talk to the dads, too.

There is a reason for that. Women do not usually trust the woman who insists on talking more to a/the dad/s. Women notice, men notice - it is not a good look.

So it's a better look to be a suspicious cow?

I get this a lot b.c I am a happily married woman who actually likes football. If I start talking to DH's buddies too much...all the wives start freaking out. Pathetic.

You do know women like football too, lol!

+2

Doesn't mean I have to talk primarily to the dads under the guise of talking football.

Yes my actual friends who are female like football and baseball etc. But these are my DH's friends' wives. Its different. I can't talk about the Batchelor or American Idol or the Kardashians. It's just not my thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's just friendly or easy to talk to? Maybe she likes sports or whatever or will talk to the Dads?

In most of my circles, as soon as couples get together it splits intro Mom group and dad group. Sometimes that's great, and sometimes I want to talk to the dads, too.

There is a reason for that. Women do not usually trust the woman who insists on talking more to a/the dad/s. Women notice, men notice - it is not a good look.

So it's a better look to be a suspicious cow?

I get this a lot b.c I am a happily married woman who actually likes football. If I start talking to DH's buddies too much...all the wives start freaking out. Pathetic.

I love sports, but I know better than to approach other women's husbands about it. I love other "traditionally male oriented topics" as well, I just talk to my brother or unmarried friends about those topics. NBD - I don't die if I don't discuss those topics, and I have plenty of other topics I am fluent about. It's not as if my only topic of conversation is sports my repetroire is not that limited.

Bish pls. I have plenty of topics I love to discuss...the Vowel shift, Roman Republic vs Empire, the influence of Japanese art on Whistler etc etc etc

But if I want to talk about football at a Super Bowl party...its going to happen. Even if THE MAAAAN IS MARRIED!! This is 2019. Grow the heck up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Personally, I like limby, thin brunettes with small cans. Blondes never did it for me. Give me Jennifer Garner all day long.

Garner is not this, she's plus size

So 5'8 and 130 is plus sized in your world. She wears a size 4. You are pretty messed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

No one cares Janet.

[Anonymous]

I would totally hang out with the husbands over you, OP. Some women are full of envy, hate; and drama, which is not part of my personality.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is this in Montgomery County?

I’m guessing Frederick.

A lot more hot white women in Frederick than MOCO, I can tell you from experience.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

No one cares Janet.

+1

[Anonymous]

da fuq are y'all arguing about?