In my social circle, we are all married, mid thirties to late forties, with kids ranging from preschool to middle school. We see each other at various school events, pool/swim team, neighborhood get togethers, and scheduled backyard barbecues and date nights. It has become glaringly obvious to me over the last year or so that all the men are attracted to this one woman who is just another mom in the circle. I don’t really get it. I mean, she is pretty and one of the youngest in our group, but I wouldn’t think of her as a bombshell type. She is blonde, very thin and fit, but while she has some shape from working out, her breasts are very small. She is very nice and smiles a lot, but I would not say she is flirty. Meanwhile, I notice all the men practically falling over themselves to talk to her, be close to her, I see their stares, etc. It’s almost embarrassing, considering she is married and our kids all play together. What is the deal? Why would men be so drawn to her? |
A pretty, thin, friendly blonde gets the lion's share of male attention in your friend group, and you can't understand why?
Are you new to Earth? |
+1 |
Is this in Montgomery County? |
I know! I would have thought the smaller breasts would have been a deal killer! |
Why do you care? |
You described the ideal white woman for white men. |
Noooooo - married men see the benefits of small boobs. They don't sag. (I have large boobs, they sag after two kids) |
That wouldn’t bother me. I prefer normal sized. Can’t believe op is actually asking this question. |
Really? I submit for your consideration Pattie Boyd. Wife of 2 men who could get almost literally any woman they wanted (George Harrison and Eric Clapton). Apparently at the reception of her wedding to George, a drunk Paul McCartney hit on her. She also slept with Ronnie Wood (because, you know, swinging 60s and all that). So that's 4 rock stars at least who wanted her. Tall, thin, blonde, small breasts. https://www.gettyimages.com/photos/pattie-boyd?family=editorial&sort=mostpopular&phrase=pattie%20boyd |
The girl who was considered the hottest in my class in grad school was very athletic with small breasts. Not all guys are into big boobs no matter what plastic surgeons try to tell you! |
Probably because the men are tired of looking at their frump-a-lump wives who make 6382872 excuses for why they can’t be as fit as this mom. |
Is she the opposite of their wives? |
Yep. C’mon OP. |
Does she have great legs? I think a lot of thin fit women have amazing legs, and most men will take that over big boobs that will sag. |