What are you going to do? You’re going to Still let your kids go to school and play sports, right? |
The bolded is completely contradictory. Grooming absolutely could have happened after those shows, over time. If you don't want to believe that, fine, but that's on you. You really need to ask why you're so defensive around this issue. |
what? Grooming happens so that a child can be eventually isolated, but a kid’s performer isn’t ever going to be alone with a kid. |
You're the "paddy whack" poster, right? |
Get stuffed. |
There are a couple of us who actually went to the shows trying to get across to you the realities of those performances. I posted earlier that I once spoke with him over a promoter dispute and offered to vouch for him. I had three young children at the time--two girls and a boy. He politely refused our contact information and said he'd handle it himself. I also mentioned earlier that, although we spoke a few times, he never remembered my kids' names and showed no apparent interest in them after the show. He didn't ignore them--he was just concerned with packing up and leaving, like every typical performer. Pretty pathetic grooming techniques going on there. He was caught with the photos and he may have done other stuff on his own, and I do not dispute that he's a sex offender. But nope, the shows were not the scene of the crime, at least a few years ago. I assume you're going to come back and say "But you weren't at every single show and didn't have your eyes on his hands at all times!" and really want to say that we who are giving the facts of the performances must be wracked with guilt that we brought our kids there. Nope, not at all. I've seen grooming in action, by the way, and know that it can take years and most groomers are very willing to wait. Lots of gifts, trips to the movies, and offers to help what is usually a single mom without means. I will remind you that kids aged out of Mr. Knick Knack fairly quickly. You rarely saw anyone beyond 6 years old, so the chances to develop a longterm relationship were slim. |
Dude, grooming happens *over time*. It doesn't have to happen while the kid is isolated. The lengths to some people will go to avoid cognitive dissonance is astounding. You took your kid to see a children's performer, and that person ended up being a pedophile. These things happen. They're not shocking. At least, not to those of us who live in reality. You're not a bad parent because you took your kid to the show absent the information we know now. |
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NP here. You're making no sense. in order for a performer to groom a child he would have to have constant access. In your own statement you say overtime... First, how many times is a Child going to see the performance and how many times is that child going to be alone at the performance? Furthermore, after the performance what is he grooming them for? When would he get a chance to be alone with these kids?
This isn't cognitive dissonance. This is common f****** sense I hate irrational stupid people like you who make it seem like others like me are trying to defend a bad guy but man. Use some common sense |
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Lots of misandry and broad assumptions about men being always guilty.
Imagine if you said it about (insert race here) instead of men. Would you still feel comfortable saying it? One can point to statistics that those of a certain race are more likely to commit crime X or crime Y (just like more men than women are charged with pedophilia and related crimes), so should be treat them all with suspicion then? |
Oh OP you sound kinda weird. “He didn’t groom my kids so he must not have tried with others!” Are you offended that he didn’t find your kids attractive ? |
There are no meaningful biological differences between races. It’s a social construct. There are biological differences between men and women, most notably that men are inherently more violent. |
| Pedos usually gravitate towards jobs with kids. Still it's disappointing because he seemed nice. |
Exactly. I’m not sure how they think that this person can be grooming a kid, when they are never going to be alone in the future or ever with that child. Grooming happens with relative or close friend, not in this situation. Unbelievable |
Men are more common, but anyone who is spending time or sleepovers with your kids should be monitored, even family members, neighbors, friends parents. |
I have no idea why you think I'm a groomer. I'm a mom and, of course, I think that child porn is awful. However, I know I've heard/read that there are fewer children who are victims today than in the past and one explanation is the availability of porn. I don't remember where I read this, and I certainly don't want to google this topic. But if someone has contrary evidence, please feel free to share it. |