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Fwiw I care. But I care more about Omar bc I consider myself a D though lately and in part due to liberal antisemeitism am starting to shy away towards independent. I never felt like the Rs were my “home” anyway. |
Not necessarily. There could have been previous inhabitants, who died and didn't mingle with the newcomers, so DNA itself wouldn't find anything. |
My problem with Israel is that I am not secular -- I am a reform Jew. Ironically, It is difficult to practice reform Judaism in Israel. I would even have to leave the country to have a reform Jewish wedding. |
I married a Jewish DH and I have noticed many in-laws, especially those not living in the coasts, becoming Independent for similar reasons. |
My father is 100% German. His parents lived in the US (and became citizens) in the 20s, and moved back to Germany for a few years in the early 30s. They barely made it out before WWII. As German-Americans they quickly learned that survival in the US meant dropping their German heritage. My father and his brothers were not taught any German, there were no cultural traditions that were passed down. Nothing. The 40s were not a friendly time for them in the US but they were hell bent on survival and doing well. They did. All that said: we have no ties to any family left in Germany, I don't think my father ever even met his grandparents, so there's nothing to go back to. We are American. |
Yep. Just recently there was an article in the WaPo about Israelis who had to get married in the US because of the restrictions on marriage in Israel. One woman's mom had converted to Judaism years ago but the rabbis ruled that she couldn't convert because she was deaf (based on some scripture) and since the mom technically wasn't Jewish, neither was the daughter. I'm not Jewish but even if I were no way would I want to live in a country like that that gives the Orthodox rabbis so much power over society. |
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And by the way, Israel does not have the same values regarding human rights and equal treatment that we do in the United States. For all our flaws, we believe that people should receive the same treatment from their government regardless of their race, religion, or ethnicity. However, Palestinians who are citizens of Israel do not receive equal treatment. Residential segregation is pretty much enshrined in the system. Arab communities do not receive the same government support in municipal services and education as other communities. And the government just recently announced that Israel was a nation for the Jews and no one else.
Yes, yes, yes, what about the really non-democratic Arab and Persian nations in the Middle East? Yes, those countries are even worse. But that doesn't mean that the unequal treatment of Israeli citizens who belong to ethnic and racial minorities is acceptable. It wouldn't be acceptable in the US these days. It shouldn't be acceptable anywhere. |
Same. Also I have big problems with Netanyahu, and the orthodoxy, and the West Bank, and a whole host of other things. |
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1. Right wing, racist govt. (kind of like it's getting here wcTrump)
2. I'm an American citizen. |
IIRC we were JUST separating families and caging migrants. I didn’t vote for Trump just like I am sure all Israelis didn’t vote for Netanyahu. If you think the US would behave any “better” than Israel, if Mexico had in its governing document to kill all Americans and then routinely launched rockets at us, I think you are sorely mistaken. |
That Jews A. Mostly are descended from people who originiated in the land of Israel B. Many of them (including secular Zionists, but certainly anyone with any attachment to Jewish scriptures and traditional Jewish liturgy) have a connection to the land of Israel. Passover is coming. No one will end thei seder with "Next Year, in Warsaw!" |
You COULD have a reform wedding, it just wouldn't create a legal marriage - you'd still have to go to Cyprus for that. Beyond that, its not actually that difficult to practice Reform or Conservative Judaism there - there are, relative to population, about as many R and C jews as here (just that here most people are Christians or secular gentiles, there most people are Orthodox or secular Jews). There is also a non Orthodox religious educational stream (the Tali schools) which, if you send to a non O day school here, would save you money (I think the Tali schools are closer to C than R though). I certainly find the privileges of the Orthodox there objectionable, on ideological grounds. But I don't think its actually that big a deal on a day to day level. |
My twitter feed is filled with kvetching about that. I long for the time when I did not know who Omar was, and thought of Trump as some over the top vaguely sleazy RE developer. |
| I prefer living in a secular society that does not discriminate against minorities. So, I will not live in Israel. But, by this definition, I should not be living in America either. |
+1. Actually the US already invaded Mexico and stole a lot of territory from them. Let's boycott the US until it returns most Southern states to Mexico and ends the apartheid system where Spanish immersion is forbidden in many school systems to this day. |