So these are immigrant black families not long-term AA? Is that what you are saying? |
+1000 |
Well that’s the opposite of every private or catholic school out there. Kids under 18 of every academic ability thrive more with teaching to potential and attention, feedback, challenges, in depth projects. Don’t kid yourself that putting top quartile k-12 students on the self-teach route is the definition if a “good school.” That’s BS. |
Yes, I"ve taken my DDs to a fairly broad number of libraries, at least downcounty -- Rockville, Aspen Hill, Silver Spring, Potomac, Chevy Chase, Bethesda, Little Falls, Davis, Noyes (Kensington). Always the same -- the majority of kids in the childrens section are white or Asian. I get this for Potomac and Little Falls.. but Silver Spring, Noyes, and Aspen Hill? I know you can say I expect everyone to appreciate the library but... isn't reading kind of a fundamental life skill, and libraries a great place to develop that? It's not like I'm complaining about who I see on the lacrosse field. |
Not my experience at Silver Spring or Aspen Hill. I’ve only been in Noyes midday on a week day, so I can’t speak to a non-nannied or SAHMed child population. However, there are many AA and Latino kids in academic extracurricular activities even if you don’t personally see them. Sometimes I purposely select a bookstore in a majority AA area to give my child a chance to hear an author with our background or just get a break from being a minority in a society that thinks black kids don’t read. My child doesn’t have to perform in public for the benefit of eradicating your ignorance. |
| Lots of private school kids in silver spring too. Maybe they’re the ones at the libraries |
No, not exactly. The neighborhood around Silver Spring library is largely first generation immigrants, not established African American communities. As a result, that split is reflected in who uses the local, walkable, municipal services. The point is that PP's neighborhood is almost certainly predominantly white and Asian, so she only sees white and Asian families at the library. The Silver Spring library is predominantly Black, with a heavy emphasis on Eastern African immigrants. Hence, that's who is most often seen at the public library. The point is that PP needs to get out of her highly segregated bubble. Black families in Silver Spring don't assume that white families don't value education just becuase they aren't at the Silver Spring library. In fact, I doubt they give it much thought at all. Whereas PP thinks she can make sweeping generalizations about whether Black and Latino families go to the library, based solely on her own highly segregated neighborhood. |
This is such an interesting microcosm of racist thought. Racist Assertion 1: There are no Black or brown kids at the library because their families don't care enough. People in the Neighborhood: Actually, there are lots of Black and brown kids at the libraries near me. Maybe the problem is your neighborhood. Racist Assertion 2: Oh, but those are probably not PUBLIC school kids. It's like....the goalposts keep moving to placate some ridiculous and untrue stereotypes about who is an is not an involved and interested parent. |
Yep. Now imagine that this is your daily experience growing up as a black or brown kid. How stressful and discouraging that would feel. How that might make it much riskier to raise your hand in class or enroll in a more challenging course. In this culture despite it being 2019, my skin color + gender signifies not highly education or a person with authority. I have to establish my credentials to get people to listen in a way that a white male typically does not. That has been my experience since enrolling in a predominantly white institution at age 13. And it never seems to end. It’s distracting and exhausting when I have to venture from my work site to interact with other professionals in my field. |
Wake up. It’s the educated black AA families in that area that go to private schools as URMS. They don’t want to run the risk that (a) any teachers lump their hard working kids with the poor performers and (b) poor performers latch on or bully their good performer. It’s a tough culture to play both sides when a teen. |
Nice try. Maybe you need to hang out with African Americans not immigrants from Africa or the Caribbean. There are whole colleges and majors devoted to the differences. |
I go to the library and I am typically one of the only white families there. Lots of black and Hispanic people at my library. |
Yeah talk about white supremacy right there. Or the tyranny of low expectations. Shouldn't mcps want all of their children to succeed? Or just assume that if you are Black or Hispanic or you speak a different language or you're poor that you're just going to be a c student and be happy with that |
Plenty of educated AA families in SS send their kids to TPMS, SSIMS, and on to Blair or Northwood. We are one of those families. And when my DC was in private, there were Nigerian, Ethiopian, Haitian, Jamaican, and Guyanese among other immigrant black families. |
I agree as well. Instead of paying more consultants and researchers to do studies, let's focus on very small class sizes at ESs with 30% or more low income students. MS and HS is more complex. Students who are on grade level in their native language can focus on college readiness with instructional supports in english language. Students who are not on grade level in their native language (and English speaking students who are not on grade level), should be given instructional supports with a heavy focus on getting a diploma/GED and career readiness after graduation. These students and their families need wrap around supports including health care, affordable housing, English language instruction, food bank etc., etc., etc. None of this is cheap or easy, but, if we had realistic goals of incremental academic progression (along with smaller classroom sizes and more academic support staff) teachers and administrators could celebrate successes with all their students. I work in social services and incremental change does not show enough "impact" for policymakers, funders, and the general public. It just does not make for a sexy headline. |