Wife takes care of the 'other woman', ends her DH's affair and his marriage in one evening

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.

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No kidding. He only called 911 when it was too late. He didn't care about anyone but himself. That, and he's kinda creepy looking.

[Anonymous]

People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she was all that crazy the husband could have left. Looks like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.

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He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

Yes, she left her husband in Delaware and moved to Radnor, PA. By the same token her AP had asked his wife for a divorce and moved as well. Seems like one party here was so controlling that she wouldn't give up and let him out of the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

A (married) woman who has an affair with a married man is not a catch. Definitely had issues. Didn't deserve to die for her sins, but let's stop pretending she is great.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

Yes, she left her husband in Delaware and moved to Radnor, PA. By the same token her AP had asked his wife for a divorce and moved as well. Seems like one party here was so controlling that she wouldn't give up and let him out of the marriage.

We do not know they were imtimate. It could have been a date between separated people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

Yes, she left her husband in Delaware and moved to Radnor, PA. By the same token her AP had asked his wife for a divorce and moved as well. Seems like one party here was so controlling that she wouldn't give up and let him out of the marriage.

We do not know they were imtimate. It could have been a date between separated people.

Are you always this naive?

[Anonymous]

WHY, WHY, WHY didn't anyone in the community respond to the wife's multiple pleas for help?

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

She was clearly crying out for anyone to listen and no one replied. This is tragic for the entire community -- a lost life, a lost light.

It could happen to any one of us. We all think we know what we'd do in that circumstance but until you get there, you do not know. She was crying out for help just last month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she was all that crazy the husband could have left. Looks like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.

+1

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He was leaving her. He asked her for a divorce and the mistress had already moved out of her marital home and purchased/rented a new one as well.

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

The wife was mentally insane, nothing more. Here are her posts on Nextdoor:

“I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband’s new job, and he’s telling me he wants a divorce,” Gerardot wrote. “I don’t know anyone and am completely clueless to the area.”

“Can someone please recommend a reputable and successful and driven divorce attorney?” she asked.

“Please recommend an EXCELLENT marriage counselor for couple on brink of divorce,” she wrote.

“We will need someone who is very educated and experienced dealing with couples issues including infidelity, depression, traumatic experiences, child/parent dynamics, being accountable for actions, etc.,” Gerardot wrote.

From her posts, and subsequent actions, she was unwilling to accept that her marriage was over. She might have done the same thing to a marriage counselor who told her it was over, or an opposing divorce attorney.

True. Though if you're going to leave/divorce someone why wait until you MOVE to do it. Why not divorce them and leave them behind? Was it about finances - if they sold the house and got the profits to split the wife left behind wouldn't be able to claim it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:WHY, WHY, WHY didn't anyone in the community respond to the wife's multiple pleas for help?

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/radnor-murder-suicide-meredith-chapman-jennair-gerardot-love-triangle-next-door-pennsylvania-20180425.html

She was clearly crying out for anyone to listen and no one replied. This is tragic for the entire community -- a lost life, a lost light.

It could happen to any one of us. We all think we know what we'd do in that circumstance but until you get there, you do not know. She was crying out for help just last month.

What pleas? She asked for an aggressive divorce lawyer. That's a recommendation and that's what NextDoor is for not for your personal dramas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

A (married) woman who has an affair with a married man is not a catch. Definitely had issues. Didn't deserve to die for her sins, but let's stop pretending she is great.

Someone can be accomplished and unfaithful. Both things can be true at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

A (married) woman who has an affair with a married man is not a catch. Definitely had issues. Didn't deserve to die for her sins, but let's stop pretending she is great.

Someone can be accomplished and unfaithful. Both things can be true at the same time.

Sure. But a catch she was not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are mocking the mistress but she was incredibly accomplished. AVP at Villanova in her 30s, ran a State Senate campaign and only lost by 5 percentage points, property owner separate from her husband, and the husband in this scenario was leaving his wife for her.

Don't know how long they were 'intimate' but she was a catch.

Wasn't she married as well?

Yes, she left her husband in Delaware and moved to Radnor, PA. By the same token her AP had asked his wife for a divorce and moved as well. Seems like one party here was so controlling that she wouldn't give up and let him out of the marriage.

We do not know they were imtimate. It could have been a date between separated people.

Did you just fall off the turnip truck?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What a waste of two lives.

Thing is, my initial reaction was to feel bad for the cheating husband. Because clearly his wife whom he cheated on was crazy enough to murder and commit suicide, so she must have been crazy to live with. Sane people don't react this way. Sort of like how while I normally feel bad for the laid off postal worker, once he goes postal, you start to consider that the post office had a good reason to fire him.

Yep.

This.

How do you know what really went on in that marriage? He might have been mentally cruel and cheated before but she took him back. Every person has a breaking point.

Sorry, but anyone who goes through a murder-suicide scheme is 99.5% likely to also be very difficult to be married to and live with. People aren't just spur of the moment crazy; there's lot of other craziness happening behind closed doors. I can safely say that me and my wife don't have that "breaking point." I know for a fact that she has too much self-respect.

no shit, anyone who would actually perform a murder suicide is DEEPLY DEEPLY disturbed. You think some tiny element of that doesn't come out sometimes when there's an argument about who takes out the trash?