learn when you ovulate (if you can) and have sex one day before that. it might happen or not (which is true at any age). |
NO, these fertility stats are based on studies of random women. The researchers prospectively followed a cohort of random women who are trying to conceive. Not infertile women. Pls know what you're talking about before you post. |
No, most of the oft quoted stats are certainly not. |
I know the late 40’s pregnancy fascination for me is wondering if you really can still get pregnant naturally at 48 meaning I can’t stop using birth control yet. |
this is not true. i actually read a lot about this. the biggest studies follow groups of women you are trying to conceive, not "random women". there are also studies of births records from 18, 19th centuries. |
| Do these people think they'll live to see grandchildren? |
I seem to recall one of the more reliable studies followed a group of Amish/Mennonite (?) women because those ladies try to procreate until they cannot and it was a big enough cohort to get meaningful data. |
Not everyone cares. |
Their kids probably will care. It means the world to me that my parents got to know my children well and that my kids will have memories of their grandparents. I know there are no guarantees, but I secretly wish maybe I had started about 5 years earlier so my kids could have been around my parents through their teen years. My nephews were all in college when my parents passed. My own kids, while they will have memories, were 10 and 12. My dad was such a great influence and he was their biggest fan, I really wished I could have watched that relationship even longer and I know he so wanted to see how they turned out. |
Omg. SAME. |
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you have no idea how long anyone is going to live. I had 3 living great-grandmothers when I was born. They passed away when I was a teen. My older daughter got to know 2 great-grandmothers - one is 94 and still with us (my daughter is 12)
My husband knew only a couple of his grandparents. The men in his family seem to pass early. His dad just passed a couple years ago at 66. I don't think you can make your childbearing decisions based on getting to have grandparents. I mean, it's nice and all, but there is just no way to assure children will get a long tie with grandparents |
| oops - long TIME, not tie |
+1 My grandmother lived to 94. Her daughters passed away at ages 69-74. No guarantees. |
I feel the same way about many of the pundits and pols, but that doesn't stop them from pontificating bs in which they no naught. Heck, some of them even get elected as senators, governors, and presidents. |
| ^ know naught |