Uh hon, outside Alabama dads aren't dating their daughters. Men treat their daughters and their sexual partners differently, so your "how would you feel if your daughter" questions are pretty stupid. Just remember, fat, drunk, and stupid is no way to go through life. |
And yet, based on recent political developments, it's entirely representative of the rest of the country. |
What a sad way to see the world. Some of us love our spouses. Some of us care about more than just money or prestige or a hard body. Sorry your life is so shallow. |
Guess it's more fun to be thin, predatory and self-delusional, huh? Enjoy your waning years of life. I'm sure you'll be surrounded by the people you deserve. |
OH, please, ![]() |
Meh, confirmation bias. There are plenty of good-looking older woman out there. And BTW that 40s woman will soon be in her 50s too. |
BAHAHAHA! I love when people say nonsense like this. BTW the men I've known who date younger are usually gross in general: too much tanning bed, an immature "dude" attitude that doesn't suit, sex insecurities, or want to be hero worshipped because their egos are fragile. Mature men worth their salt generally have no issue dating women 50+. |
I’m a 61 YO man & I agree with you. Harvey Weinstein is a perfect example. |
ITA. I'm in my early 40s and the thought of sleeping with someone in his 60s makes my skin crawl. Barf. I'm happily married with someone my age. The only women I know with partners 10+ years older were 1) from messed up families, absent dad, divorce or 2) broke. If given a choice, women would marry someone their age or less than 4 years older. Psychology Today has a study about the age difference. The age gap is larger for second marriages because women have to settle for inferior older men because a high percentage of the top ones (younger, healthier, at the top of their earning period) are already taken. |
Trump is another good example. |
OMG dude, you sit around in a date talking to a woman about Watergate and Reagan? I'm sure those conversations are awkward, for her. That said, when a story comes up about something from when I was young, she will often laugh and say, I was like 8 years old then! |
For the record, I'm the guy at the beginning of this post, but not the guy saying, Dumbass. |
-you are choosing a younger woman because of her physical attributes mostly. That makes you shallow. How is that any worse than a woman choosing a man because he is able to financially support her and her children? You can call me shallow but we are all shallow to some degree or really hideous people who can't help their looks would have just as much success with finding partners as anyone else. That said, I see a big difference. I find her looks pleasing, but that isn't enough to sustain a relationship. It's the whole person. If looks were all that mattered to me, I'd go even younger than 40s. Either way, I'm with someone I desire and enjoy. I read #3 on this list as saying, a lot of women would choose a man she doesn't desire and just tolerate his old ass, as long he has money. I'll stand by my statement for those taking shots at me while saying that many women would gladly whore themselves out for the right guy. I'm using my own words to characterize it but I'm not the one who put it out there. Yet I see there is a lot of agreement among women here. Again, that's just sad. -I bet if an older woman had a better personality and other non physical attributes that were better than the younger, more attractive woman, you'd still pick the younger woman simply because of her looks. You sound like someone trying to hook a man up on a blind date with her friend who has a "great personality." Don't kid yourself that you are any different, or better than me. Yes, looks play a part in my initial attraction to anyone. If I'm not attracted, I may never get to know her better personality. It's a harsh, cruel world we live in that way. So tell me, how many guys did you date who totally turned you off with their looks, body, height, etc., but you stuck with them for their personality? I'll bet your husband is hideous and always was, but he's a great guy, right? - I don't care if you date only younger woman. I'm just informing you that no 40 year old woman would date a 60 yr old man unless the situation was one of the three. Clearly you do care as it seems to bother you a lot. much tat you can't believe that any woman in her 40s could stand to be with me unless there is some serious flaw in her thinking or other nefarious motivations. I have nothing against dating a woman closer to my age, but I'm not attracted to most of them. I know, that makes me a horrible man. As for the 3 points, I don't qualify with on the first two and no woman I've ever dated is desperate for anything except maybe a good relationship. They could all get plenty of men, especially younger men, any night of the week. Again, it's sad that not one woman in this thread can just be happy for me, or anyone in a good relationship. Someone posted about the level of misogyny in this thread. It think it's the other way around. Why is it such a threat to you for a man to state he prefers younger women? That's certainly not a new or radical idea. |
When she's in her 50s, I'll be older too so I'm fine with that. The current age gap of less than 20 years is about as far as I'm willing to go. As for plenty of good looking older women, have you been on a dating site, as a man? To be certain, there are some really good looking older women and I'd date them if I could, but plenty is relative. |
It all boils down to this:
Men but attractiveness high on the list. Women put success and power high on the list On average, younger women are more attractive. Although of course some women maintain their looks as they age. It's no different for men, they are objectively more attractive in their 30s than in their 50s. But since men are prized or objectified for other reasons, looks arent as big or a deal to lose |